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Until stringent measures are put in place, issues of rape accusations will always rear it's ugly head. Laws against false rape allegations should be passed into law, ensuring adequate punitive measures that will checkmate future occurrences. To the matter at hand, it's best to prove to the lady that apologizes cannot right this. Because as a Man, If a Woman wants to destroy your reputation and ruin your life completely today, all she have to do is to set camera, shed a few tears on social media and mention your name |
Thanks very much for this Davidmike: |
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That's a red flag but not enough ground for divorce. The question should be what's with the secrecy. Marriage is supposed to be built on the foundation of trust and openness. As for the man, if he values his peace, he should look away and perhaps block her too and share his own updates. |
Sadly, madam, you are on your own. If you cannot stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. |
Dating women these days should have a full scheme of work and curriculum. Based on these hoes masquerading as social media commentators, daring as lost its flavour. It's gotten so bad that young girls below 20, can't even date guys without Billings and they don't even keep one boyfriend. What they do is explore. They just wild out without a care in the world. Next is 21 and above. Relationship now is like opening an office. Ladies are only interested in what they are getting from you. Not else. But, it's not all sad and gloom. It's an opportunity for guys to level up and live their best days. Learn a high income skill. Build your self Increase Your SMV. Then Get them, pump, hump then dump Wash! Rinse! Repeat! |
Guys! Women from time immemorial have been farming tirelessly on the menfolk. But, we don't see men getting working up or crazy about this. Men handle their business, no noise, no drama. We see men even unknowingly take care of kids not even theirs from the indiscretion of their spouses but yet no drama. But when women cares take of a man, shoulders go high. Them go loud am for speakers and subwoofers |
FeliciaOja:If he gets maybe 300k refund then it's all good. The matter of empathy then has been resolved. |
Sue their ass. For me it's the lack of empathy from these hospitals as if they are handling animals. |
Saleslourd:Yeah. That's what I didn't mention in the story. You see, if you get any chance, it's done, if you get my drift. No time to check time |
Well you said it all. Let me tell you a personal story. Back then, I had this girl that was crazy about me. But, I wasn't feeling her. 4 years later, she became awesome if you know what I mean. I walked up to her and made my intentions known. She rejected me. Then she told me that all I had to do back then was to say the word and she is all mine. So the lesson you are finding is simple. When it comes to ladies, seize every opportunities. Don't dull. As ladies mature everyday, their taste in men improves due to the fact that they are hypergamous in nature. So you don't wait, you do what's necessary because even tomorrow isn't sure. brain54: |
Yes. We do not need this bedroom romance gone bad. Besides the whole shenanigans is actually dead on arrival. We need to focus our collective efforts on this electronic transmission of results palaver. A better Nigeria is possible |
Nice one day more to come from that |
He deserves all this and more and I wishing the best |
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Call me stingy but I find it difficult to invest in a relationship with a lady. To me, it's likely placing bet on Arsenal to win champions league 🏆. So I just mind my business and move on. |
??! I get you! So here the thing. If you sense doubt in a relationship, then you are probably on to something. One thing is for sure, you are just an option to her, she is keeping her options open. That MTN staff is your backup plan. So in your own best interest, manage your emotional and financial investments in this your relationship. It's obvious that both of you living together because you probably have a plan to marry, however, you need to consider, your next move.... To stay and act the fool, after all, She is probably chatting with MTN staff. Or You prepare your exit move. You could start chatting with MTN staff but you could take it a notch further, you get like three other MTN staffs, you could laugh and chat with. Aura for Aura. |
Listen! I get you! You are already in a mess. But let me tell you a story. A family member of mine practically raised a lady from humble background. But all he did was never enough. He sponsored her education and that of her siblings, then he placed the mum on salary. Yet, this guy decided to take stock of this life and found something..... He, too, was also from a humble background who through sheer daint of hard work and determination became successful. He discovered that after he got prosperous, he decided to invite a new Partner with nothing to add or offer him. But by association with this partner, he is bound to share his money and success with but he gets nothing in return. What annoys him most was that after hustling, this partner feels entitled to his cash like he practically works everyday and hands his paycheck over so that peace would reign. There was a contract he got to build a house and boys quarters included too was money to purchase the land. He was a trusted fellow. He questioned the girlfriend what he should do. The lady gave him a list of things to buy, a Murano SUV, clothes, and stuff but nothing about buying land and building that property.... This guy did the unthinkable. He broke up with this lady even though she was pregnant with a child for him. He told me back then that she is not an asset. I didn't get him then but I do now. This happened 25 years ago. So what's my point? You should have decided by now what you want to do with this barrage of advice of everyone here. This is a public space, agrees. But one thing is certain, moving on with this lady is going to buy you a load of grief and pain. |
So much words, lots of words but what's the point of all these |
Well. Back then. If the lady cannot foot her transport and come see me, then it's a no-no for me. I promise them that I am going to double their TP if they come. They should borrow and come. The psychology is simple. If the lady decides not to come, girl never wanted to come. And the times I get so invested emotionally, they Ghost me with my cash after I send them TP Later I focused on ladies in the same city. If she still wants you to send TP, then you are the problem. In my experience, most ladies that ask for TP don't plan to come. |
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![]() Where is the sense of rationale in this matter? You decide to change roles from house wife to side chick. Where is the sense in all this? |
I see absolutely nothing wrong with what the lady did. Infact you are the red flag! Testing or tricking your fiance is born from a place of insecurity. Do you understand? And the mother is correct. Why are you making a big deal out of nothing. If she is already married, I will be the first to come for her. You are just in a relationship. So while at that, she is free to chat and explore her options. You too should be exploring your options. Moreover, You haven't paid her dowry so she isn't yours yet. So you cannot claim double dating. While you are looking out for yourself finding the right one, who said she can't look out for the right one for herself. Guy, you see, a woman should exercise absolute prudence in picking a spouse. If she chooses wrongly. She will spend her entire life ruing her choices. This is nothing new, expect you weren't experienced. Heck, she told the fake you no sex. So, why the fuss? That's the best response you should be expecting. As a woman or man, you should keep your options open. It's up to you to take my advice or leave it. |
Derry December nor longer sure for this guy. Seriously of all countries to a scam guy man choose United States Of A. It is a wow indeed. |
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There is a joke circulating in the social media space. If a person can explain Nigeria to you and you understand, then the person didn't explain Nigeria well to you. |
Imagine the lady even left with the guy in front of her husband. Imagine the nerve to say that her man is embarrassing her. The guy even had the nerve to take the lady to his car. Husband: hold my phone. Seconds later guy man dey ground and the lady even dey blame her husband. That lady is for the street |
This is really terrible to see a marriage woman messing around with another man |
SpencerForbes:This is your opinion. And I see your point. And that's fine. But I would like you to indulge and to look at what's on the street. These are things I have seen and experienced in workplaces, in the fields, in tertiary institutions and even secondary schools that cannot be swept aside based on just an opinion. I am not talking about one random beautiful girl. Or some intelligent random girl gifted at pulling money out of some guys pocket. I am talking about everyday ladies who have to feed with no source of income or skills to earn a living. These kind of ladies are been dumped on the street on the daily. I am not talking about feminist ladies who hold their own. Granted, you mentioned laziness and greed, which is what it is. But that doesn't change the fact, that ladies these days even married ones compromise to enhance their lifestyle. That's the point. |