Guys above me just chill.

I have seen a relationship that have spanned over 14years that the lady is sad anytime her man wants to go to work.

So, not every relationship is doomed to fail.

Eryyy92:
Damn niggar
Issorite
Wizkid the star boy of Africa, Davido the frog voice untalented motherfucker.

You na star boy of nairaland.

Seun, suppose arrange you as one of the mods.

It's not a small affair

Ride on....... Recover your money

Nigeria with the tradition of attacking the person and overlooking the message. No government has been as guilty as this present dispensation in fanning the embers of nepotism, tribalism and religious differences.

Rather than tackle the issues bared, it's to throw shades and point accusing fingers. It is such an unfortunate circumstance.

Jfix:
Please nairalanders
I'm 23, turning 24 next Month October and I have never asked a girl out. The truth is that I have been scared, literally afraid of talking to them, I do have female friends But Occasionally when it comes to asking any girl I liked out, I just go off not being able even communicate my feeling to them.

I do see teenagers of 16 and 17 years claiming to be in a relationship and I wonder how is that possible.

This is irritating because I hang of with guys and we all try to boost of being smart and sharp guys but deep down I know that I'm just blabbing cause when the opportunity comes I just find a way to avoid it.

I'm i a simp or do everyone goes through the same thing and I might overcome it later please let me know cause it really embarrassing to know a problem and still act like everything is okay.

Having read the submissions posted so far, I am really inclined to put tthis matter to bed. Since you going to be 24years come October, one can deduce that this matter is of utmost importance to you.

Here is a better approach, rather than wanting to offload your feelings to the girl of your choice at the first time of meeting, why not work on being friends with her. Get her number. Tell her some sweet jokes and get her to laugh. Then you can work on been her friend. Take it nice and slow till you build up enough steam and let her see your intentions. There is no hard and fast rule, but blurting your feelings to a lady actually works against you. Following the indirect route pays better. Her defenses are low and you stand a better chance.

Be her friend. Then when you are comfortable with her. You can shoot your shot then.

At this age and time with the benefit of information technology one is been forced to do that which isn't his will. I am actually befuddled to say the least. It's very important you hold your ground


You are going to logically highlight your reasons why you do not wish to follow the prescribed way and why you intend to pursue your own path.


Be respectful and tactful but hold your ground

Nothing wey I never see for Seun Nairaland.......my eyes nor do again