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Didn't bother wasting my data hearing her out.

What i want to ask is this....


What do ladies and guys mean when they say they are dating?

Does it mean that they are straffing or what exactly do they mean

engrchykae:
I love your thinking.
Messi proves to me that if am gifted, I shouldn't aim little
Cr7 proves to me that if life tries to mess me up, I should give it the middle finger.

I love your conclusion.

It's really amazing

This is sheer class from one goat to another

We are privileged to have witnessed this kind of football rivalry.

And in my own opinion I will call Messi..... Superman.

CR7....Batman.

Messi is rightly designated superman in my own opinion because he is endowed with supernatural powers from birth.

CR7....Batman.

CR7 is a model for those of us not born gifted.

By hardwork, discipline and perseverance, CR7 gets the job done.


Personally, I love both.


What an era......

kimjessey2019:
I got married with the hope to relocate with my wife to Canada but I did not tell her. When we were planning our traditional marriage she betrayed me that even till date I don't trust her again. Her people gave me a crazy marriage list and I had plenty fall out with them which I later discover that it was her who was telling them how to extort me and etc. How did I found out? Her phone would auto record every call and one day she went to salon and left her phone at home so I used it to make call and I wanted to delete the record and that's how I listen some of her calls with her mother. Long and short of this gist is I knew that even though she is calm, respectful and supportive but having a woman who listen to her people and tell them everything in her home will be a disaster if you take her abroad. Till date she still do not know why I left her in Nigeria. My point is the sign will always be there but some men will just hope there own will be different.

Life is crazy.

You see those calm, respectful and soft spoken women, ehn?

Be careful with them.

They scheme, they plan, they plot and still act like they cannot hurt a fly.

Kudos to you for not revealing to her, you know her secret.

Indeed success is never overnight because the night was a long long night

You're very correct about that and is high time the authorities did something about that okay because truly we don't know what we are bringing in buy stuff from the Mark

Tribalism is the bane of Nigeria.

Stealing is not gender or ethnicity sensitive.

CorperKola:
I like the positioning and bodily make up of that soldier
I 'm ready to engage in friendly warfare with her

🫡 God of war......

👀 I see you

🤨

Band of theives.

FIFA president Infantino planned a hugh retirement egg nest for himself that fell through.

And this nitwit is adverting his credentials as a brother in arms

Boy see Oversized oranges 🍊🍊

Sounds fantastic!

Like something cooked with AI

Sometimes, it's very important to understand context and simple English.

The context here, is that the she rewards her benefactor with infections.

So if you are sharing infections with your two baby mamas and side chicks, you have my warmest regards.

Sonofgod1990:
No be simp. Only that you don't have the money. I bought iPhone 17 pro Max for 2 of my baby mamas. Also bought an iPhone 17 pro for my side chick. If you have the money you will know what I'm talking about

Where is the hate coming from?

I pity the simp that gifted her iPhone 16.

What a waste!

When I read you paid your bride price, I knew you were going to regret it. I am talking from experience.

Women exhibit hypergamy by nature. If you marry a man out of pity. Love may win at the moment but anger and resentment from the man is bound to arise.

A man's primary role is to provide, if you take that from him, that's too bad.

Hypothetically, this isn't supposed to happen but psychology dictates otherwise.

It may seem mean for you as a woman to stand aside let him provide. That's actually where most men get validation from.

There is an acquaintance, not a friend, who is childless, it seems he is impotent, he had being with lots of women.

But nothing to show for. Gathered his brothers and sisters kids to raise so that he can find meaning by playing the role of the man.

So men love to be in charge and when you clearly have a bigger paycheck.

This becomes a problem.

You should have gone for someone better than you financially.

Since, you guys are together. It's best you talk things over.

Massage his frail ego.

Be understanding too.

While you are clearly helping out there is another factor, you may be overlooking.

Only a men would understand this.

Women have their own psychology and way of seeing things that the men may find emasculating.

Which is probably why he is trying to show he is the boss.

I hope this helps.

However, he should grow some balls and man up.

The guys above me are not only damage control hooligans but one of the reasons Nigeria will never be good.

You are attacking Very dark Man & Peter Obi.

Are these individuals in charge of this country?

Sad times.

So what's going on?

Is it true?

By


Olugbenga Ige


A former Chief of Army Staff, Lieutenant General Tukur Buratai (rtd), has questioned claims that security agencies are unable to locate bandits and kidnappers who openly share videos and communicate from their hideouts.

The former Nigerian Ambassador to Benin Republic insisted that authorities have the capacity to track such criminals.

PUNCH Online recalls that gunmen abducted schoolchildren and teachers from three schools in Orire Local Government Area of Oyo State, and later beheaded one of the teachers.

Buratai spoke during an interview on TVC on Monday while reacting to concerns over the increasing use of social media and video recordings by criminal groups operating across the country.

The retired lieutenant general said he did not believe security agencies lacked the ability to trace bandits who frequently publicise their activities.

“I don’t think they failed to locate. If they can locate ordinary citizens or social media influencers, I don’t believe they can locate these bandits that flaunt their loot or whatever activities they do,” he said.

While stopping short of directly criticising security agencies, Buratai suggested there could be reasons behind their operational decisions.

“I would not like to say it is a capacity-building challenge, but I think they may have their reasons,” he said.

The former army chief stressed the need to strengthen Nigeria’s security architecture through continuous training, recruitment and improved welfare for security personnel.

“There must be capacity building of all the security agencies, and continuously,” he said. “There is a need for more operatives. We need more troops to be recruited, more operatives and more policemen.”

He also highlighted the importance of regular retraining and better living conditions for security personnel.

Speaking on whether Nigeria has specialised units capable of carrying out high-risk hostage rescue operations, Buratai said the armed forces possess such capabilities.

“I will not tell you exactly or be specific, but generally we have within the military specialised units trained for such rescue missions,” he said.

According to him, the Nigerian Navy’s Special Boat Service and the Nigerian Army’s Special Forces are equipped and trained for rescue operations and VIP protection assignments.

“The Special Boat Service is trained for such rescue missions. Even the Nigerian Army has Special Forces. They have rescue and VIP protection capabilities,” he said.

However, Buratai noted that operational decisions in kidnapping cases are often shaped by concerns over hostage safety and the risk of collateral damage.

“The sensitivity of that type of kidnap, the location and those involved, and the danger of collateral damage may play a very important part,” he added.

Buratai also advocated the expansion of the National Counter Terrorism Centre under the Office of the National Security Adviser, saying improved coordination and technological capacity would strengthen the fight against terrorism and kidnapping.

“The Office of the National Security Adviser has a Counter Terrorism Centre. I think the commander there is a professional and highly strategic officer,” he said.

He proposed the establishment of state branches of the centre equipped with advanced technology and operational facilities.

https://punchng.com/bandits-can-be-located-if-security-agencies-want-to-says-buratai/

osazsky:
What Gregory Obi couldn't do during his time....

Hope that answers why PO didn't "do" it during his time.

2. PO left Anambra State 2014. That's 4 good years. And at that time, Lenacapavir was still being developed and tested. Alright?

RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FOR THE WEAK🤦🤦

I went to a restaurant this evening to get food for my girlfriend.

After getting the food and just as I was about to leave, I saw two lovers arguing.

I asked the girl what the issue was, and she explained that they had also come to get food.

Their bill was supposed to be ₦8,300, but the waiter mistakenly charged them ₦7,800, which the guy paid.

As they were about to leave, she noticed the mistake and told her boyfriend to go back and pay the remaining balance, but he refused.

That disagreement eventually led to their breakup.

Is that enough to warrant a breakup?

What do you guys think?

Was the lady loyal to the guy?

Jonathan, today, said Nigerians have gotten used to the killings which is actually very disturbing.

Here is my honest take on the matter.

Iran stood up to the US

Iran took a defiant diplomatic and military stance during the April 2026 conflict, characterized by its rejection of initial American ultimatums in favor of a "maximalist" peace plan.

Throughout early April 2026, Iran maintained a firm position despite severe pressure:

• Rejection of US Proposals: Iran initially dismissed a US-backed 15-point ceasefire plan, with officials labeling it "excessive, unrealistic, and unreasonable".

• The 10-Point Plan: Rather than yielding to US terms, Iran introduced its own 10-point proposal, which included demands for the permanent lifting of all sanctions, withdrawal of US forces from the region, and financial compensation for damages.

This is a loss to the US. This was masterful framing by Iran.

• Strait of Hormuz Leverage: Iran used its control over the Strait of Hormuz as a strategic deterrent, [/i]partially blocking the waterway and only agreeing to a two-week reopening under strict Iranian military coordination.

[i] Alluding the slogan The "Survival is Victory" Narrative

Following the announcement of a two-week ceasefire on April 7, Iranian state media and officials framed the situation as a strategic win:

I couldn't have agreed better when you put into context the amount of time and money plus lives lost.

• Domestic Resilience: Iranian media highlighted that despite devastating infrastructure losses and the loss of high-ranking leaders, the nation remained standing.

• "Trump's "Retreat": Outlets like Fars News Agency portrayed President Trump's decision to suspend strikes as a "retreat" in the face of Iranian resolve.

• Conditional Agreement: The Supreme National Security Council emphasized that Iran would only halt "defensive operations" if attacks against it stopped, maintaining that they were not negotiating from a position of weakness.

Current Status of Negotiations
As of April 8, 2026, the two sides are moving toward formal dialogue:

Hand-peeled egusi is generally whiter, cleaner, more oily, and produces thicker soup.

Whereas machine-peeled egusi is darker, cheaper, faster to produce, and may have a shorter shelf life due to industrial processing.

Hand-peeled [/b]seeds are often considered healthier and more aromatic compared to the machine-peeled ones.

[b]Key Differences and Characteristics:
Appearance & Texture: Hand-peeled egusi is brighter and cleaner, while machine-peeled (often called engine-peeled) may be darker, oily, or contain residues.

Oil Content & Taste:
Hand-peeled seeds retain more oil, leading to a richer taste and thicker consistency in soup.

Processing & Price:
Hand-peeling is labor-intensive and more expensive, whereas machine-peeling is faster and cheaper.

Quality Considerations: Some machine-peeled egusi can smell or decay faster because of heat generated during processing.


Hand-peeled (Hand-picked/White Egusi):
Preferred for high-quality soups where a creamy, thick texture is desired.

It is often described as "pure" and "naturally dried".

[Machine-peeled (Engine-peeled/Commercial Egusi):
Suitable for large-batch, budget-friendly cooking.
It is commonly sold in market settings for quick, cost-effective meals.

As three people have already said, use your meds often.

Until schools like the Geh Geh is added as a credible institution of higher education and secondary schools adopt such syllabus for teaching young men during holidays, strong and dominant men will remain a mirage.

Based on 17 years of experience, here is my seasoned perspective:

Until transparency is made the standard in a relationship, issues of deceit and "double-life" behavior will always rear their ugly head.

Stringent emotional boundaries must be established to checkmate future occurrences of this gaslighting.

To the matter at hand, it is best to realize that "love bombing" and prayers for your family cannot right these inconsistencies. This is a shield to enable you drop your guard.

Because as a Man, if a Woman wants to keep you as a shield while maintaining "toasters" and hiding her screen in the dark, all she has to do is introduce you to her father and shed a few tears of affection to cloud your judgment.

The Bottom Line:
You are not overthinking; you are observing a pattern of compartmentalization. These are red flags.

Real memories stay consistent, but hers shift to fit the moment.

She is using her family and "warmth" as a credibility shield to mask digital infidelity and phone guarding.

My Advice:
Confront her directly before the March visit.

If she reacts with anger or more redirection rather than accountability, you must reconsider this marriage.

A foundation built on "recycled pictures" and hidden chats will eventually collapse.


Do not let her "redirection" stop you from protecting your peace.

Be gided

Zee454:
The last is the most important

Yeah. But I'd like to point out something.

After securing the bags, master the rules of relationships too especially with women so you don't become a money miss road while dating

The things men need from women, money can't buy but ....

The things women need from men, money is involved.

Here, we go again!

The way everybody is jumping ship with Tinubu, this APC go sink one day like Titanic.

Definitely carbon monoxide poisoning
Na God dey save person with all these our Belgium Abi Na Tokunbo cars.

So I went for a burial in Abia State all the way from Delta State.

Got there about 8pm and my host forgot to book me a hotel room.

So long story short Na inside my Car I sleep off with AC blasting.

No the next morning sun Na im wake me.

Na wa o.

Person go just kpai just like that

crossbreedwears:
The legislator should implement a law about it very soon. The last 13 cases of rape allegations, 10 of them were false and those people went free

You are 💯 correct

crossbreedwears:
The western world has yet to implement a punishable offense for false rape allegations. Maybe Nigeria should be the firsg

It's becoming part of pop culture in Nigeria, so why not?