Everyone has their perspective to things, and wont see it as being wrong.
The lady in question have already planned what she will do with her money. And from the way you sound in the post. ( No disrespect) You sound Imposing or kinda dictating for her....
... Before the financial plan, did you ask her to draw hers?

Secondly, considering the things you listed...they appear to be so high ( vacations, Car , etc). For just first year? While we plan for better things ahead. We should start small.
Your financial plan is it for 5 years or 2 years or 15 years or forever? I believe the cumbersomeness of your plan and you not open to her suggestions or ideas made her to run away.

Your financial plan is one sided.... ( Spending spending spending) ..... You didnt include plans to step up her 80k or your 300k.. this supposed to be the first 5 in your plan. Its a consumer mindset not a growth mindset..
Are you seeing the reasons she left.

Why didnt she initate a conversation to strike a deal or reach a compromise? It also says alot about how unconnected both of you are... " who would want to stay with someone they cant argue with or reason together? Did you make her ideas look irrelevant that she felt that nothing she says would matter since Oga has spoken?

NB: I am not disputing the fact that some are too entitled or that they dont wanna spend their money.
But in an environment love is paramount.... giving flows naturally. You dont need to impose..

Did you plan for precautionary events or unforseen circumstance?
So OP.... if you had created alongside a financial plan of how she will earn at least 200k and you earn 500k....Do you think she will leave you? She will be motivated to stay and follow your lead.since you are the planner.

... Women analyze things more than Men... its funny how people are mentioning only pads, Tp and all that. There are other intricacies she figured out that you did not see.
Next time in your planning try to be Inclusive... make it realistic

Some comments here are kinda rough and degrading... it wouldnt change anyone perspectives who had been through their own rough patches in this dating scene.

Nobody has the monopoly of wisdom. While we go through life....as we fail /succeed. Its better to find what works for one and stick to it.
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