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michelin89:
Ahahhahahah! Na una biko.

The problem is not really the kiss but what relationship is behind the kiss. Even though for you friendship can't compete with marriage in importance it should never be underrated. I know it has already been qualified as impossible since there are opposite sexes involved. But I still like to think it's something beautiful to have someone to relay on whether man or woman. A rapport that is not always under the trial of time.

Before being so radical as blackmann and mccloud have suggested, I wish you could think of another solution. Since as you have said this is something sudden.

blackmann:
i'm beggining to have a feeling that either this winnergal is not a lady, or she's some foul-mouthed woman.

michelin89:
Those years are not irrelevant to the OP if she mentioned it, I guess. Anyways I won't pass any judgement.


Idealism at its best. Woman dey look at bulge, the man likes the attention and we are here trying to play holier? We won't face the consequences with them and they are not children, so that one na their cup of tea. I just intervened to say I also look at bulges too. Punto!

Single or married, that one nor say things must always go one way. We set our own priotities even though it's not perfectly in line with the "normal" order.

@ OP
Has he ever made other advances at you? How long has he been asking for more? How is his relationshop with his gf? Does he relate well with your husband? Does your husband know about your friendship with him?

michelin89:
Civilised ke? Just because I dey chop poundy with fork?

But you have not answered my question. What about the 10 years?

michelin89:
Yes!
It's not insecurity and it's not an excuse. It's human nature to consider attractive people of the opposite sex as possible sexual partners. Then, even though we do succeed in having sex with them, there is a subsequent phase in which we realize it can't be.

Man and woman being friends is not impossible, it's simply more difficult because it's not "natural".

For 10 years they have been able to move on a platonic level. It may happen that one party loses focus but it takes the other to bring him/her back to his/her senses.

michelin89:
You know if she wan catch fish? Many things dey happen outside this internet. I wouldn't be surprised if I heard my wife Mukina was cheating on me despite she swore total fidelity.

MAY AMADIOHA THUNDER-BLOW THAT UR BALOON HEAD IF U EVER REPLY TO MY THREAD AGAIN!!!!!!
CLIT-SUCKING 10 KOBO ASHI!!!!!!!

LMCAO 

michelin89:
Shut up! You talk too much. Focus on your thread.

michelin89:
Even your 4 points are still cases of friendship between the opposite sexes. Or aren't homos, broke guys, unattractive people and impotent men qualified to be called friends?

ThiefOfHearts:
stop spreading it then.

ThiefOfHearts:
where's the fight?

michelin89:
I am not a man but I wouldn't generalise either. She hasn't told us if right now he is facing challenges in his relationship. But the fact is, 10 years aren't a small time. What kept him so long?

And how is his relationship with the OP's husband?

michelin89:
Go and suck your husband's d!ck. That'll keep you occupied while I try to answer this trashy thread of yours. And for your info, *yawn* right now I am harassing Davidylan and can't play with you.

In case you don't know how to give a Mouth Action, go to google.com and type "Giving head". Ole indeed.

michelin89:
Bleep you idiot. Check this thread of yours and look at the people who have tried to contribute something good. Use your brains too and stop coming to public forums to tell us how your bestfriend is drolling over you when he knows you are married.

Shey na your smart pass abi?

TOH she is all yours! I don't give a damn about whatever you say to her. She is a loser and doesn't deserve any type of support. Fool!  

ThiefOfHearts:
Lmao. Was I supposed to respond to "Lesborian malu"?

You funny sha.

ThiefOfHearts:
yahoozing as usual

michelin89:
[size=15pt]I sent you a private message because you mentioned someone's name on a public forum.[/size] I just did my work by asking you to remove it you since the poor woman doesn't even know she is the object of dicussion on a Nigerian forum. Get it straight girl. You are not so special to get free PMs for me. Only OMO IBO is.

ThiefOfHearts:
You set aside a warning for that?

Seriously?  

ThiefOfHearts:
You set aside a warning for that?

Seriously?

michelin89:
Why the temptation? Read the serious posts and ignore the playful ones. I like joking and I'll still do it if any opportunity comes up.

ThiefOfHearts:
If you dont reply, you're a bastard.

ThiefOfHearts:
Gosh this girl can lie.

winnergirl when did you get married not to talk of being married with kids


were gidi ni omo yi

ThiefOfHearts:
whats to learn? How not to respond to a retarded thread?

michelin89:
You know if she wan catch fish? Many things dey happen outside this internet. I wouldn't be surprised if I heard my wife Mukina was cheating on me despite she swore total fidelity.