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Fiscus105:
Commentators before me said it all, but just to add small.

The boss you mentioned, 3 thinks to take out from his actions.
1) He had realised your girl is for general.
2) She doesn't respect and fear you "shishi".
3.)You are a weak man. (you can't control her)

That's why he had effontary to tell her, even in ur face, she and others should come and visit him. What an insult to you!

A girl that respects you would have replied him frownly.... should I leave my man lonely at home and come to your place?

If you can open your eyes & ears widely, you would notice, several people in your office have taken their own shares from her, but you "the boy is good" carry the meat that belongs to all, on top of your head.

Thanks so much. I reason with what you said.

The fault is entirely mine in the first place.

Good evening, everyone. Please, I need advice on what to do in my current relationship.


I have a lady I've been dating for about a year now and things had been going well so far. However, we've been having a lot of disputes and disagreements so far which has left me wondering if this is how relationships are.


Nowadays, I experience emotional discomfort due to the series of arguments we have been having this past few weeks. So, we work in the same place (kind of like a business organization) and we have access to people every day (network marketing business).


Let me jump to the major thing that happened recently. We work during the nights as well so each time we come to the office, there is a particular guy she likes to associate with. Sometimes, when she comes, she would stroll out with the guy and she would tell me they went to get something.


I've made her know countless times without number that I don't really like that and she should stop. But, any time she apologizes for her actions, she still does it again. That's just one thing. She is also fond of using l
sensual words like "babe", "dear", "love" whenever she chats other guys (which I'm not comfortable with) and I've confronted her about this. Her response will always be to apologize and say it doesn't mean anything as long as she's not dating them.


So, yesterday she did the same thing by following that guy out when she got to work at night again even not minding my presence and I was so livid with anger so I changed my mood towards her. When she got home this morning, she questioned me why I changed and I shut her off because I'm tired of always complaining about the same issue each time.


This morning, one of our bosses/leaders came to address us on an important issue and asked if she would be free tomorrow, which is a Saturday (mind you, this boss already knows we are dating and I already know it was foolish of him to ask), and she said she's free. He then said she should come with two other ladies to his place tomorrow so they can celebrate the festive Saturday together. She said okay.



My babe oooo.


So, I told her and messaged her about this afternoon that if she goes to his place tomorrow even with the two other ladies or not, she should consider our relationship off and over. I'm already tired and emotionally drained. This is affecting my mental health seriously and I'm ready to call it quits this time around if she disobeys what I say.


Am I too possessive and controlling by telling her what I don't like and she should stop doing it? Is my own too much? Should I give her the space to do as she wishes? I'm emotionally stressed!!! I feel like she's insensitive and she's doing all these on purpose because she always apologizes each time.


Since morning, I've been reading about post breakup treatment and what to do after a break up because my mind is already shifting from this relationship.


What do I do, please? Help me. I'm still young and in my 20s to be getting crazy due to a relationship


Cc. @dominique, @farano, @Rocktation

Merciful71:
we gats be careful nowadays cause the HOLE leads down to HELL

Lol

I agree. The choices my father made then made him poor today. I wonder how someone could live for 35yrs and still have nothing to show for it before meeting my mom. Not to even speak of my older cousin, he's just a liability to our home.

My son, Jesus will help you

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