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Thank you so much ma'am, your suggestions are really helpfull.

sassysure:
Lady, since u are looking for suggestions, let me suggest some stuffs married women do to balance stuffs in the home.

U don't have a kid yet, remember?

In every home, a good deep freezer and generator is needed bc of the power situation in Nigeria.

If u have a good and working freezer, use some of the bulk money for one month and enter abattoir. Buy meat and divide into portions enough for one pot of soup or stew.
Next times, take out of the money and buy bag of rice, half bag of beans( ask on how u can preserve it), garri etc.
Go to vegetable market with your husband and buy a basket of tomatoes during tomatoe season( Dec to feb), buy lots of garlic, ginger and onions. Wash and boil the tomatoes to a boiling points. Allow to cool. The water will separate and add the rest and grind( it's quite a tedious work but u will reap the benefit later). Now use polyethene to divide them accordingly as u will want to use them.
U can grind dry pepper and put inside container. U will need that the day u don't have fresh pepper.
Tell your people to send fresh red oil to u if u don't know how to buy fresh one. Like two gallons. Get big g oil too.

I won't tell u to buy yam and stock as it's perishable. U buy your stock cubes and store in dry place. Buy crayfish from those that sell in bags( like 1 painter) take home and remove the chaff and grind.

U can even buy spagetti in carton.

By the time u finish doing this, I tell u, in subsequent months, even if your husband is giving u 22k for feeding in a month, u will still save up to half of it.

When u sit down to do the mathematics, u will find out that a big pot of soup will cost you a very small amount of money and any time u are shopping, u simply shop for less( I hate shopping especially for food stuffs).

This is the secret my dear, we learnt this from our parents.
I don't buy things one one.i always buy in bulk unless things like fruits and veggies. There is always so much food of different types in the house no matter who is visiting and this has been my lifestyle since uni days.

Don't ever allow stuffs like this to cause quarrel between u two. Just use your sixth sense.

SirVintageCock:
You better be living in a village or some remote town where the cost of living will support 550 per day.
These can only be feasible if you cultivate the carbs and veggies in your backyard and buy the animal proteins, minerals and vitamin sources from the markets.

Look at this budget and tell me how two grown ass adults can survive on 22k per month on a below average feeding pattern. It isn't even up to 1k per day for both. Not only feeding but toiletries and sh!ts are included.
You'll spend 22k per month which is like 550 per day for both of you then use the rest of your savings to treat acute exacerbation of peptic ulcer disease.

And some people with advanced degrees in managing poverty will be writing thesis to defend the indefensible...

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thank you all for your response.
A little story
My husband gives me 22k every month for the running of the house(food,water,tolietries etc), while I complete the rest according to the budget for that month. the problem is, he thinks the 22k should be enough if I was more carefull. I make a budget every month but he always refuse to look at it, but keeps insisting that 22k is enough for the two of us.
I am yet to get my pay for last month and I have ran out of cash from the 22k. He is upset and is asking what I did with the money.

I need a neutral person's opinion on this.
I spend between 30-35k every other month on food and other consumables. my husband thinks it's too much because it's just the two of us.
Do you think it's too much?
pls offer tips on how to spend less.
thanks

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