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I am adult married to a lady of 35years. We have been married since 2007. God has blessed us with 3 wonderful children( 2 boys and 1 girl). Before we got married, i agreed with my wife that i only want to have 2 kids ( I wouldnt mind if they just boys or girls. That means, Im not particular of the sex of the kids). My wife is a B.sc Accounting graduate, while myself, I am a Chartered Accountant, with a well paid job. My wife had a 3rd class degree. On several occassions, i have told her to go back to school for Post Graduate Diploma (PGD) in order to upgrade, but she plainly told me that she cannot go back to school again. When i asked her why, she told me that her brain cannot withstand any academic stree again. I also suggested to her, since you studied accounting in the university, why not enroll for ICAN program? When i said that to her, she told me that she could not go for PGD, is it ICAN that she can do? I have been thinking, what will i do for her to be like others.

Luckly, was transferred to Benin. I went with my family to Benin. We stayed over 4years in Benin. While we were in Benin, I told my wife to go and enroll for a 6months diploma programm in computer (because she is not computer literate). I paid over N110,000 for the 6months programme. My wife only went for the programme for 1month and stopped. She refused to complete the program. When I asked her, she told me that she will go back after she had "put to bed"( Then she was pregnant). Guys, its over two years now and the baby is even in pre-nursery school, yet my wife has not reminded me of going back to complete the programme.

Last year, she asked me to open a store for her, that she want to go into trading. When I asked her the nature of the business, she said, she wants to deal on selling rice, beans, yams, groundnut oil, etc. I now suggested that it will not be a problem, but she has to look for somebody who is already in the business so as to understudy the person for atleast 1month. She refused, saying that without her understudying anybody, that she can still make it. I told her that my reason of suggesting to her to understudy somebody was that, i wanted her to be selling in wholesale. My plan was to give like N1.5million. I told her, i cannot just release N1.5million to her for a business that she did not learn. I told her that N1.5million is not a small money. Brethren, that was why up til now, i have not opened the business for her.

My children's school fees is over N650,00 per term for the 3 kids. I provide for feeding. My wife does not want to do anything as to assist me in the family. I give her money for her hair, cream, bathing soap, panties and clothing. Im really getting tired. My salary does not carry the family again because of too much expenses.

Another problem now is, my wife's dressing is nothing to write home about. She dresses as if she is in her late 60s. I have complained to her on several occasion that i dont like the way she dresses, but each time i bring up the issue, she will get angry. People around, have meeting my sisters to tell them that my wife does not dress well as somebody that has gone to the university. Even in my house, my wife only tires wrapper. Nothing in her again attracts me to her. Infact, for the past 3 months, i have not slept with her. I sleep in the parlour while she sleeps in the bed room.

Else, i forget, my wife delibrately "took in" again since July last year. This is after we agreed that the 3 kids that we already have is enough. Her method is, each time i remind her of what to do as to be assisting me in the family, she will delibrately "take in".

My wife, went to the university but she cannot speak simple and correct english. She cannot write application letter. She cannot teach my kids who are in primary 2 and 5 respectively. I pay a lesson teacher N30,000 monthly for my kids but my wife is at home doing nothing. Since we got married, my wife has not sent me text message on her phone more than 3times. The ones that she sent, my brothers, there are lots of gramatical blunders. When i confronted her with the text message, she could not say anything. I was checking for some documents in my room last week, and i came across an application that my wife wrote to submit to a private school where she wants to teach. When i saw the letter, believe me, my brothers, one of my kids that is in primary 5 cannot write such rubbish.

What i thought she was before i married her, is not what she is. I cannot take her out for an occassion because she may embarrase me by her conduct in the public. I need a divorce but the problem now is, i did i court wedding with her. What should i do? Im confused.

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Op, you are correct. I just wish I can change the hand of the clock, but it's practically impossible as a Christian. Not complaining but just stating the obvious. A situation were a lady will stay without doing anything to help out in the home is very appalling. Even when the man tries to set up business for the lady, she will rather prefer to become baby making machine every year just to give excuse that she cannot do business the same time she is pregnant.

He should also constitute the management board of FIRS. One person cannot be all -in-all in FIRS. As sensitive as FIRS, I think the service needs a management board. Management board is provided for in the FIRS Establishment Act.

The answer is CAPITAL "NO". The two cannot work together. It's either you are for God or for the devil. You cannot be on the fence. No matter the number of times they (the singer) mention the name of Jesus in a worldly music, that does not make it acceptable before God. As a true child of God that has the hope of going to heaven, you are not suppose to take pleasure in listening to worldly music. Music like "Na God win ooo, na God win. They say my music no go sale, na God win". As far as I'm concern any body that wants to go to heaven, that music is worldly and should not be listened to by a true Christian. "He that has this hope of going to heaven should purify himself even as Christ is pure". Know he not that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Pls

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@olanshi and @oliverjiad, explain more to me. Does it mean I can't get a RAV4 2007, or 2008, or 2009 model for that N1.5m? Pls I need more advice

I have just N1.5m at d momement but seriously in need of a RAV4 2007 or 2008 or 2009 model. Pls can I get such model of car here in Nigeria for that price or should I go to cotonuo to buy it there? Pls I need advice. I don't need Nigeria used RAV4 vehicle, I need clean direct Belgium RAV4

Why is she schooling outside the shores of this country when it is been romoured that covenant university and landmark university is among the best univerties in Nigeria, and comparable to what is obtainable in other advanced countries? Na waoooooooooo

BUYING A LAND AND BUYING A CAR

Pls, friends I need a brotherly advice. Im married with 2 kids at the moment. Im also expecting one more to make it three. Im working, with an average monthly salary. Im currently facing a problem on what to do with my savings. Im undecided whether to buy a car or use the money to buy a land. My 2 kids are already in primary one and nursery one respectively. I pay N15,000 to a driver every month that takes my kids to their school. Myself, I always join public transport to my office every day. My wife is not doing anything at the moment. I have the cash to buy a car of atleast N1m. But i also need to buy a land so that i can start building. I have a 1-bedroom I built some time ago but as my family is increasing the place does not contain us again. Im currently living in a 2-bedroom flat outside my state where im working. Pls i need sincere advice on what to do with the cash

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Benson Idahosa University (BIU)2012/2013 Postgraduates hopefuls. Pls I want to know if d admission list is out

Good tins: I was healed by Jesus, I got a job, my wife, kids & I are strong & healthy. Bad tin: I lost my immediate younger brother

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Gd morning guys. How has it been with d induction 4 d past 3days? We shall all get to our goals im life. Im at gwagwalada hall.

@J2dN, where are our members in batch B? Have u seen any body? Who is d guy cordinating us? Pls remember networking is very important as we were told. Im at d building behind diamond hall

Colleagues in batch B, how prepared are u 4 tomoro's induction programme? Im already at d venue trying to catch some fun.

@eldee 1st, pls what was d questions asked & what was d funny responses? Pls keep us updated. One love

Guys in d 1st batch, pls confirm if there is any particular dress code.

@vinzee, pls is it our FIRS employment letter or our former employment letter that we need to present b4 registration? Pls clerify me. I also want to know, which I.D card are u talking about? because we have not been given I.D card yet by FIRS. Or can we use any other I.D card like drivers' licence, National I.D or Int'nal pasport? Pls if there is any oda requiremt or details that we need come with kindly let us know. Thanks. One Love

Gud morn. Pls all d 1st batch, endeavour 2 tell us ur experience & how it went after d 1st day. Again, do we need come with our original credentials again?

@irpheezy, hw u go manage see na? Abi u de stay ph? Hw u de plan 4 d induction, I mean when & how u wan waka?

Abeg any body get info about any airline wey dey organise promo. I no fit count almost 30k 4 flight, and d nature of our road would not allow me 2 go thru road.My own na 2nd batch. I want travel on d 8th or 9th frm ph

Good afternoon friends. Pls can any one tell me if any airline will be doing promo btw 8th and 9th sept 2012. Im travelling from ph to abuja.

Gud morning colleaques in d house. Pls has anybody received any text, call or email from FIRS concerning d induction date? Pls if there is any tin to that effect, kindly share with d house. I suspect messages/invitation for induction will start coming from this week

@irpheezy, im very sory d way i replied ur question in such a rude manner. D way u handled it also shows that u are very matured. If it had been odas, maybe they would have also reacted in an antagonistic way, but u decided to follow d way of peace. God bless u. Once again, im indeed very SORRY

@irpheezy, I mean first school leaving certificate. D certificate given to u on ur completion of primary six