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Education › Re: New Theatre Arts Students Of UNICAL Had Their Induction (Photos) by wonukwuru(m): 12:07pm On Feb 28, 2021

dollytino4real:
that guy prick na real cucumber! dis type dey shift womb and kidney together

Who be this girl? You wan kill me with laugh. Wetin you dey look wey make your eye reach there? Abeg, today na Sunday and I just come back from church, no make me laugh again

Politics › Re: Wike: Some Members Of The PDP NWC Are Tax Collectors by wonukwuru(m): 8:45pm On Jun 23, 2020

I don't understand, what does governor wike mean by calling PDP NWC "tax collectors"? I don't get it. All these gragra that he is making, is just wash wash. I know him. A pot calling kittle black. You cannot fool some of us. Meanwhile, let him go and account for how he spent the N180b that SERAP is asking for. Instead, he is accusing the EFCC of sponsoring the probe. Can you imagine that since he took over from Rotimi, the state budget that is supposed to be a public document is still not made public? What is he shouting for? He wants to be seen as an upright man, which he is not.

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Properties › Re: Molding Or Buying Blocks. Which Is Better? by wonukwuru(m): 8:51pm On Jun 19, 2020

Pls go and mould. Don't ask why am I suggesting that you mould. It is obvious that moulding is more economical. I am talking from experience

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Family › Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by wonukwuru(m): 3:40pm On Jun 09, 2020

Testing Your Baby for Sickle Cell During Pregnancy

Introduction
It is possible to test for the genes your baby has inherited.

There are two main ways of checking your baby for genetic problems while it is in the womb. These techniques are called amniocentesis and chorionic villus sampling (CVS). We explain how the tests are carried out, what sort of abnormalities can be picked up and what risks are involved.

We give general information only. If you want more detailed information about these tests or your personal circumstances do discuss the matter with your GP or hospital specialist.

Amniocentesis
What is amniocentesis?
The test involves placing a needle in to the womb through the woman’s abdomen (tummy) and obtaining a small sample of the fluid in which the baby floats (the amniotic fluid). Most women say that the test is not painful.

The amniocentesis test is usually carried out between 16 and 18 weeks of the pregnancy and can be done in an outpatients clinic without the need for an overnight hospital stay.

As part of the test an ultrasound scan is carried out to check whether twins are present and to see where the placenta and the baby are.

The fluid contains cells which have come from the baby and these cells are then grown in the laboratory so that genetic tests can be carried out on them.

What type of abnormalities can be detected?
Abnormalities caused by extra or missing chromosome material can be detected, the most common of which is Down’s Syndrome (trisomy 21), where babies have an extra chromosome 21 in every cell or their body.

Other chromosomal abnormalities can also be detected. The effects of all these conditions will be discussed in detail with the parents. Many of these chromosomal abnormalities lead to serious conditions and a termination of pregnancy may be one option for the parents to consider.

In some cases, other disorders caused by a single abnormal gene can be found. At present tests for these are usually carried out only when there is someone with the condition in the family of the couple is known to be at risk for a baby with a particular genetic disease, such as cystic fibrosis, sickle cell anaemia or Tay Sachs Disease.

The amniotic fluid itself is also tested to measure the level of a protein called alphafetoprotein (AFP). The level is high if a baby has spina bifida, and this test picks up 95% of babies with this disorder. A detailed ultrasound scan is then carried out to confirm the presence of spina bifida.

What are the risks of amniocentesis, and how reliable is it?
The amniocentesis test carries a small risk of causing a miscarriage, about 1 in 100, but other complications are very unusual.

The amniocentesis test is a very reliable way of examining the baby’s chromosomes, but in order to obtain results the cells must begin to grow in the laboratory. Occasionally this does not happen and a further sample may be needed.

When is the result available?
Within three to four weeks if an abnormal result is found and the couple decides to have the pregnancy terminated, this could be done at around 19-20 weeks of pregnancy.

Chorionic Villus Sampling (CVS)
What is chorionic villus sampling (CVS)?
The CVS test is carried out earlier then amniocentesis – at around the 9th or 10th week of pregnancy, and again it is an outpatient procedure. Rather than testing a sample of the fluid of the mother’s womb, this test take a very small amount of material from the developing placenta.

One way of doing the test is to place a thin tube through the cervix (neck of the womb) to obtain the sample. Most women say that this is only slightly uncomfortable.

Another method is similar to the amniocentesis test, and involves placing a needle in the womb and using an ultrasound scanner to guide it.

What type of abnormality can be detected with CVS?
The sample contains cells that are of the same genetic type as the baby and so can reveal the same sort of disorders that amniocentesis discovers. Similarly CVS can detect rare diseases caused by abnormal genes, but thesetests will only normally be done if there is a family link with a particular disorder. Because no amniotic fluid is obtained the test cannot be used to look for babies with spina bifida.

What are the risks of CVS, and how reliable is it?
The CVS test has a slightly higher chance of miscarriage than amniocentesis, but it has the advantage of being able to be done earlier in pregnancy.

It is a relatively new test and there is not so much information on reliability as with amniocentesis. There is a suggestion that the CVS test may give a confusing result in a small proportion of cases, maybe one in 100.

In such cases it may indicate an abnormality where none exists. Although there is usually additional information which clearly demonstrates that the baby will be abnormal, where doubt still exists it may be necessary for an amniocentesis test also to be carried out later in the pregnancy.

There is also a remote possibility – around 1 in 1000 cases – that a chromosome abnormality will not be detected.

When is the test result available?
Normally just one to two weeks after the test.

Other information
What about future pregnancies?
If a couple do decide to terminate their pregnancy after either an amniocentesis or a CVS test, this should not affect their fertility in future pregnancies. The couple may well wish to be referred to their genetic clinic to discuss the risk of an affected baby next time.

Rhesus Negative Mothers
If a mother’s blood group is rhesus negative, she should receive an injection after an amniocentesis or CVS to protect the present and future pregnancies.

Testing for the Type of Haemoglobin the Baby Has
Testing an unborn baby to see which type of haemoglobin it has can be done using either of these techniques although it is usually done by CVS because more cells can be collected. Later in pregnancy it can also be done by taking blood directly from the foetus. The cells that are obtained from all of these procedures can be tested directly for the presence of the sickle haemoglobin gene itself.

Politics › Re: Rivers Government Seals NLC Secretariat In Port Harcourt by wonukwuru(m): 8:27pm On Feb 03, 2020

Hotfreez:
Lol
Wike Mr. Projects

He's dealing with Rivers people big time. The same people that supported Wike over Amaechi.

Let them enjoy their Wike.

No true Rivers Man or woman supported Wike. He rigged himself into power. If APC in Rivers State had managed their affairs properly, there would have been no way this wicked Wike would have gone back to the government house.

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Politics › Re: Again, Wike Declares Rivers Christian State by wonukwuru(m): 5:21pm On Nov 18, 2019

See who is talking. You think we don't know where you belong? Abeg, no dey use church dey confuse us here. Bible even talk am say "not all that calls Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of God". Person wey be leader for the other side, come here dey yarn opata. Abeg, park well joor.

TITOPE:
The Governor of Rivers State, Nyesom Wike, has again declared the State as a Christian State, adding that he owes no one any apology.

The Governor spoke at the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) Holy Ghost Rally, which held at the Adokiye Amiesimaka Stadium on Sunday.

He said, “But for God, the enemies would have taken over the state. I thank the Church for standing firm.

“They prayed for God’s will to be done and God’s will was done. But for your prayers, I won’t be here as Rivers State Governor.

“Anytime I have the opportunity, I repeat the declaration with authority and I owe nobody an apology. I am standing on solid authority. Rivers is a Christian state.”

Wike said he remained Governor due to God’s intervention.

He said God dislodged “forces of darkness” who were primed to rob him of his mandate.

He described himself as a living testimony of God’s blessing.

“Nigerians are aware of what happened on 9th March 2019. If anyone says he does not believe in God, that event of March 9 should make you believe God,” he added.

http://www.titopeblog.com/2019/11/agian-gov-wike-declares-rivers.html

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Politics › Re: Man Drags Chris Ngige For Flying Business Class While Claiming 30K Minimum Wage by wonukwuru(m): 9:21am On Nov 12, 2019

alonzoiv:
And the yeye man was stupid enough to include his face in the picture.
I don't think it's a crime for a minister of the federal republic to fly business class. There are provisions for it.
You can never satisfy human beings. The same person will complain if Ngige flew economy.

Who is this? Are you normal? Why talk this trash in public? I wouldn't blame you. Why will Ngige make such ridiculous statement that N30,000 is enough for a family of four in this country, and he is flying business class, yet you see nothing wrong in it. May Gid help us

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Politics › Re: 100 Days In Office: Governor Wike Lists His Achievements (Pictured) by wonukwuru(m): 5:50am On Sep 07, 2019

What will I say, if not to laugh. Its unfortunate Rivers state been reduced to mediocrity. When we begin to celebrate failure, it then means we can not make progress. I mean, Rivers State ought to be competing with state like Lagos in terms of development. Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi still remain the best governor Rivers State has had since the return of democracy since 1999 to date. Look at the roads constructed by Amaechi during his tenure. What of the state-of-art schools constructed during his tenure? Health centres was built and equipped by Amaechi across the state .What has the current administration achieved apart from window dressing already constructed roads and schools built by Amaechi? Time will tell between Amaechi and the current governor who truly love Rivers state
People will not say anything now because he is still in power. Watch out what they will say about him when he finally leaves office in 2023. Ameachi is been castigated just because he meant well for Rivers State. Some of the roads the current government is claiming to have constructed is just street roads that the local government should have constructed. How many industries has he built since he assumed office? Just imagine the issue of insecurity in the state. Can you compare the rate of killing now and when Amaechi was in power?

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Education › Re: Would You Score Your Students 39 And 69 Or Would You Add 1 To The Score? by wonukwuru(m): 2:27pm On Jul 29, 2019

Op, it depends on the lecturer or the institution concerned. That was the reason i actually stoped writing the chartered institute of stockbrokers examinations. My dear, i was in my final stage in 2012. Their pass mark is 50%. My dear in that year i wrote two papers. When the results were realised i scored 49% in the two subjects that i wrote. Instead of the institute adding just 1 mark to my scores, they instead failed me and asked me to re-write the exam. Since then i got offended and stopped writing

Politics › Re: I’m Ready To Lay Down My Life For Nigeria – Peter Obi by wonukwuru(m): 6:55pm On Jul 21, 2019

Who are you to lay down your life for Nigeria, are you Jesus Christ?

Phones › Re: Can A Hacked Facebook Account Be Recovered? by wonukwuru(m): 6:27pm On Jun 05, 2019

Buhdeuce:
Yes it can. Facebook would just ask you for a valid means of identification.

Note that immediately you report the account being hacked, Facebook locks the account immediately and requests your ID. Once this is confirmed, a password recovery link would be sent to the email you used to open the account!

I don't think so, because mine was hacked by January this year. I tried all I could including reporting to Facebook, but up till now, nothing has been done by Facebook. The hacker changed my email and phone number. I don't even have access to my Facebook account again. So, I had to open another account. Even while I was opening another Facebook account with the same name that I used in my former Facebook account, I could not be allowed to do so. Each time I try, Facebook will require me to upload my picture, when I upload my picture, that is the end. I can not proceed further. So, I had to use a different name entirely before I was able to open another account

Education › Re: Lecturer Stands On A Table To Invigilate During Exam In A Private University by wonukwuru(m): 9:11am On Apr 20, 2019

This will not solve the problem of cheating in the exam. The best option is to install cctv cameras in all the exam halls.

Education › Re: Osun State University Uses Chelsea And Man City Match As An Exam Question by wonukwuru(m): 9:22am On Apr 08, 2019

It's a good case study question. It's just trying to test the students' ability on real life situation. However, the question is about the principles of management as propounded Henry Fayol

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Business › Re: Gtbank Clarifies Fake News Regarding Innoson by wonukwuru(m): 2:52pm On Apr 02, 2019

fatymore:
anybody with Financial accounting textbook by Frank wood pleasf hahahae?

Hahaha, Frank wood na old accounting book na. Not current again, except you just wan learn double entry principle.

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Properties › Re: Fire Kills Mother And Her 2 Kids In Rivers State by wonukwuru(m): 2:15pm On Apr 01, 2019

TheMoniker:

River state is a cursed state and is not safe for even animals to live. Thank God my family members were transferred from that danger zone
Everything is working against that state.
It’s the state where govt pays community people before embarking on road projects.

You are a BIG FOOL for saying that Rivers State is cursed. Mogu

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Education › Re: Covenant University Sets Aside N4 Billion For International Staff Recruitment by wonukwuru(m): 7:57pm On Mar 29, 2019

Pls forum members, I want to know if covenant university offers admission for medicine and surgery. Pls urgent response will be appreciated

Politics › Re: What Really Happened In Rivers ? by wonukwuru(m): 9:07pm On Mar 15, 2019

muykem:
Result so far declared is unbelievable, out of 10 LGAs, the AAC candidate is leading in 9 and Wike just One. INEC will have no option than to declare AAC candidate governor elect. New election can't be held in Rivers state now as it will be worst than the former.

How can you say such? If I may ask you, who voted for AAC in Rivers state? Who is their governorship candidate? Who are their house of assembly candidates? How is it that PDP won in all the 21 house of assembly members so far declared was won by PDD? Can you vote PDP as house of assembly and later vote for AAC as governor? Ok, why is it that when AAC agents were asked to produce the units and ward results by the people that INEC sent to rivers state to find out what really happened? My dear, Rivers State is PDP and PDP is Rivers State. Whatever Amaechi like, he should do, but know that no other party can win rivers state. No matter the intimidation by military men, Rivers State must vote PDP. He could not deliver Buhari during the presidential election, is it governorship election that he will deliver?

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Crime › Re: Missing Person, Ajayi Osonameh Precious, Please Help by wonukwuru(m): 7:03pm On Feb 20, 2019

I searched her in the Facebook with the name given. I found Ajayi Osonameh Blessing. She made a post on facebook on 27th January 2019. How come they are saying that she has been missing for over 1year now? If that is her full names, then she is not missing. She must have gone to somewhere to cool off

Family › Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by wonukwuru(op): 4:34pm On Mar 16, 2018

frozen70:
Sorry for the mess, first of all she is not talented enough to continue her education, she made a third class that shows you that she almost got a pass in her university education. Stop spoiling her with money ,she is lazy and all she is good at is having babies, she caresless of her future because she has no plans. Over look her a move forward, when she realised that you careless about her she will change.

My dear, I gave her the sum of N500,000 in March 2017. The money was for her to start any small business. Since then until now, she has not done anything yet. The balance remaining in that account now is N315,000. I don't know what else to do again.

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Family › Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by wonukwuru(op): 4:28pm On Mar 16, 2018

TemmyWon:
Sir, about the "deliberately taking in" do what one of my Bosses did. *IMPLANT* it cannot be removed without your consent, his wife tried it and the hospital called him. Why not start her business with less money so she can practice with little at least you'd know if she'd succeed or fail. Peace brother.

Since March 2017, I decided to give her the sum of N500,000 to start any small business of her choice. Can you believe me that since then until now, she has not done anything with the money instead, the money has gone down to N315,000 without anything to show for it. I did not give her the N500,000 in cash. I transferred it into her account. So, I check her phone to see her account balance.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Which Church Do You Currently Attend And Why? by wonukwuru(m): 3:01pm On Jan 14, 2018

owoeye2:
your DP though...

i dont think he is a true Deeper Lifer. His DP says it all. Or if he is a memer, he is not the serious type. He or she is just there to fulfil the negative part of the bible

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Family › Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by wonukwuru(op): 6:31am On Dec 29, 2017

anneboleyn:
The op is a very selfish man.......in fact just a replica of my narcissistic ex husband.......who claimed to have married me just to upgrade his status among his family members.. ....even worse leaving me all alone during the 18month duration we were married.. ..only for me one day to get court summons that my soon to be ex husband has filed for divorce in absentia with him in d US and me in Nigeria

. Birds of the same feather. Married for only 18months and got divorced because of your bad behaviour. You are not even qualified to talk about marriage. I'm not surprised by your comment.

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Christianity Etc › Re: I Need Help For A Spiritual Problem Of Over Three Years. by wonukwuru(m): 8:29am On Jun 19, 2017

Nice one. I dont believe somebody is behind your predicament. Sit down and answer the questions. quote author=bebe2 post=57637330]Ur story is not complete ,

How old are u?

Where be abroad?

What was the plan, study or work?

Which hand work u get?

Wats ur level of education?

U bettter zoom in to Brain power, nobody is worrying u, u need to sit down and reflect on ur life and decisions so far, u will see where u made mistakes, correct them and move on.

Get away from the mentality of placing the blame on someone else.[/quote]

Family › Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by wonukwuru(m): 5:42pm On Apr 13, 2017

I suggest the National Assembly should initiate a bill that will standardise the marriage requirement throughout the country. This rubbish must stop. How can a particular community ask somebody to provide all these before they can give out their daughter in marriage. I sincerely suggest that a state of emergency be declared in the marriage institution all over the country. Since 2007 I married till now, I'm still paying debt due to this rubbish of a long list. Yet, after the lady has finally been married, her parents will still expect the man to assist them financially.

Christianity Etc › Re: Am Lost. How Can I Build My Spiritual Life. (advice) by wonukwuru(m): 8:42am On Apr 09, 2017

It's very interesting that a "lost" soul wants to return home. My brother, you are on the right track. For the fact that you have realised your spiritual backwardness is a proof that you are ready to make amend. Being "born-again" is very simple. It's as simple as A, B, C, D. Yes, why do I say so? A stands for Acknowledge that you are a sinner. B stands for Believe that Jesus died for you and paid the price of your redemption at the cross. C stands for Confess. With the mouth confession is made and with the heart, one believe. Confess to God about your sins and your inability to help yourself. D stands for Depart from every appearances of evil. Depart from friends that will make you go back to your old life style. Look for a bible believing church and attend. Make sure you attend every weekly activities of the church. Faith comes by hearing and hearing the word of God. Read your bible regularly and meditate on what you have read. God bless you and welcome to the family of God. There is joy now in heaven over your decision

Family › Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by wonukwuru(op): 2:43pm On Jan 05, 2017

Theorytor:
My broda is like all this gurls now are the same.... beauty without brain full every where. Buy your wife Porsche panamera now she will post on Instagram without thinking the problem that comes with it. All they wanted is pre-wedding fotos, honey moon, spend money and still tell you you are not trying at all... So many Bsc graduate holders in Nigeria doesnt even know what they read in school, and they lack COMMON SENSE. So my broda na everywhere d thing dey o.

I know that, but its very surprising that a graduate cannot teach a primary 2 and primary 5 pupils. Even when the textbooks contains lots of solved examples. If she is an average student, i will understand. But the truth is that she is below average. Somebody that cannot write a formal and an informal letter, cannot send text message with a simple and correct english and does not even know her "safe period". In this era, a graduate cannot or does not know how to use the computer, does not know what Facebook, Whatsapp, etc is all about. I begin to imagine if the person is in this part of the world. Im complaining, and some persons are telling me that if i truly love her, i should over look all her faults. What kind of love are they talking about? A situation i will tell her to remove the clothe she is wearing and wear another one, and she ignores me. If its you, can you take such? I bought a car for her last year, she will also expect me to fuel the car for on every two days. She is expected to use the car to take my kids to school and bring them back, but she will use the car to run round the whole town and expects me to fuel it and my own car. If she was working or doing business, is she not the person to fuel the car? Must i be the one to do everything? My building project has stopped for over a year because no money to continue. We are still living in a rented apartment. The lady that you call your wife will not want to do anything to assist in the up-keep of the family. Of a truth, i married her when i have not gotten a job but she was not the person that contributed to my getting a job. We were dating when i was writting my professional exams (ICAN), if was reasonable and ready to learn, will she not have joined me seeing that we studied the same course in the university? For your information, I met her in the university. I was just a year ahead of her.

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Family › Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by wonukwuru(op): 2:21pm On Jan 05, 2017

huntax:
Op, it is clear you don't love this woman, because if you did, u would not care about her dressing or diction.

Im indeed surprised that you said this. How can you say that, if i truly love her, i will not complain about her dressing or diction? If i may ask, what part of the country are you from? Or do you want me to believe that you just want to comment because you can write? So, you will like your wife to be dressing like "Merry Amaka"? My dear, your dressing goes a long way to tell people how they will address you. If you are the type that dont dress well, personally i dress well. For your information, I have a class.

Family › Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by wonukwuru(op): 10:11pm On Jan 04, 2017

ThierryJay:
Hey Toks, you and many other nairalanders are making generalizations and superficial simplistic assumptions without proper analysis of the facts presented by the Op.

I agree with you that the situation does not warrant divorce as it can be resolved. However, saying that it's largely the Ops fault may be a little narrow-minded.

The key issue to the Op is that his wife is intellectually inhibited and not motivated to improve herself. To this end, the Op desires some sort of continuous improvement in his wife to personally enjoy the marriage. There is no rule or law in marriage that stipulates that the interests of a particular family are important while those of another are mundane. Consequently, wanting your spouse to improve in a certain area is not condemnable by any standards.

In essence, the personal elements that the Op considers vital to a successful marriage may be different from yours or others. You cannot however limit or condition the Ops familial happiness within the context of your own personal preferences. That would be parochial.

By buying brighter grammar for her and pledging 1.5m for her business, the Op has actually taken concrete steps to enable her improve, but marriage is a two-way sacrifice. The wife should not be comfortable in being unprogressive, even in her own areas of interest. And her excuse cannot be child-bearing and cooking skills as some are insinuating!

The Op desires to enjoy his spouse and not "endure" or "manage" the lifelong situation as many Nigerian families are currently doing. Indeed I know of a few families in the Op's situation where the husband does not see an issue with his wife's actual or relative illiteracy or lack of ambition; and others whose marriages are threatened as a result or others who simply manage the situation by deriving satisfaction from external quarters. Saying his wife should be left stagnating is not healthy for the family development, especially when the husband and the kids are progressing.

In summary, the Op should be more diplomatic in dealing with her and try to win her over before actively participating in the developmental initiatives they both agree on. I agree with you on the dressing. However, the Op is right to insist that she learn under an experienced dealer to increase the chances of success at her intended trade. There is a reason why feasibility studies are done even if it is tomatoes you want to sell. Moreover, the Op is simply adding value to her from his own knowledge of financial management.

All the best Op.

ThierryJay, God bless you.

Family › Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by wonukwuru(op): 6:20am On Jan 04, 2017

melejo:
Don't bother yourself explaining too much. You must know that nairaland is full of children. Just read the matured response and move on. Sincerely i feel your pain. I had very similar experience with the girl I was planning to marry. After trying to encourage her to improve and she kept resisting, I let her go. Yours is different because you're married already with kids so try and forget about divorce, it's not a solution to your problem. There must be something you're wife is good at. Carefully identify her area of strength and build her up. On dressing I noticed that women that have poor dressing sence hardly improve while married but its not impossible. So you need to take her out from time to time and let her get some good clothes that suitable for her especially romantic night wears. You can also buy her some simple books regularly on different subjects to improve her spoken and written English, above all don't forget to pray that's if you are not like Seun of nairaland

My dear, thanks for your comment, but I must let you know that, in my house house, I have reasonable books that can help her improve her speaking skills, but she just dont want to read them. I even bought "Brighter Grammer" volume 1 to 4 and handed over to her but she would not read them. My library is full of different books that anybody can read.

Guys, you may not understand. Its not as if i want her to be extraordinary or super human over night, the truth is that she is not making any effort to improve. Remember the saying that says "you can only take a horse to river, but you cannot force a horse to drink water". God knows, I have tried to see that i "brush" her up to a certain level.

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Family › Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by wonukwuru(op): 8:43pm On Jan 03, 2017

I have taken time to read all your wonderful comments, even though some are very insulting. For crying out loud, why will come online to discuss my family if I don't need a solution? I said in my post that my wife deliberately takes in anytime I remind her of what to do to assist in the family. Some of you are asking if I'm not the person doing it and why don't I use condom. For your information, my wife is the type that does not like her husband using condom on her. In fact, the day she saw condom in the house, she went to our pastor to report me that I'm using it outside. Her reasoning is that anybody with a condom is an "ashawo". On the other issue, it's not as if I never noticed her academic backwardness during our courtshithough my thought was that she will improve beside, she had over 2years extra for a course of 4years and by then we are already married. So, how could I have known that she will graduate with 3rd class? Believe me guys, I cannot lie against her on this platform. All I have said is nothing but the truth. Ok, tell me, will I stop sleeping with my wife? I have even complained to the sisters. I did not initiate this post to be rediculed, all I need is matured advice on how to handle the situation. Agreed, I made a mistake by marrying her in the first place, but it has already happened, what do I do? I'm not foolish or careless as somebody commented above.

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