If you find someone attractive even till old age dem suppose dey nack
Even with children dem suppose nack
Sound proof the house
Do it in the car
Do it in an event on your date go to hotel as husband and wife
Go on vacation
All this reasons are very much not valid
Spontaneity is key
layzie: Actually the number 1 excuse given by most men for cheating is lack (or very few) of sex in their homes. For most men, it's not immediately after marriage but a few years down the line.
It means there is something that makes the wives to suddenly stop being interested in sex few years after marriage. Ofcourse one can deduce thats when children are added to the family.
But then once u have a child, he/she will be in the picture till they finally leave the house or enter a boarding sch ( at least after 10years) and there could be other younger children as well thus extending the period considerably.
No matter your sex drives as couples, I expect that it should drop a bit ( when u both start raising children. But the issue is wen it doesn't drop slightly but becomes very few or non-existent in the wife or it's offered to the man only wen he has done smtn 'very special' ie it's been weaponised. Then a hitherto decent man may start looking elsewhere for what is lacking.
This is a mens' perspective in a family setting as deduced from most comments anytime this topic comes up. The women are actually mostly quiet. So pls u can share your own experience, give your perspective in a family setting, few years after marriage.
Is a choice don't make up excuses and categorize is to be love
Dottore: Well our biblical patriarchs had better start answering that. Meanwhile I'm sure you know that variety spices up interest. By the Way, some wives use sex as weapons, they become complacent once they get married. They no longer show commitment or interest to the things that make her man happy especially in the bedroom whereas some fresh young girls can gladly provide such fulfilment with all pleasure.
Some women don't have high libido to withstand their husbands urge.
Funny enough some men actually cheat because they love their wives.
A lot of men are actually having serious psychological breakdowns. Some are dying in silence emotionally, even health wise because their environment is shoving the idea of monogamy down their throat or for fear of being termed perverts or cheats
You stated men need sex to function, why can't he have plenty sex with just the one woman
Dottore: There's nothing like cheating when men are involved. Men where never meant to have one wife. Men need more and more sex to function.
The idea of monogamy is a western culture not African culture and its not biblical. I wonder how the white man convinced you people that polygamy is sinful and abominable but homosexuality is tolerable and human right.
All the biblical patriarchs were polygamists and it was never mentioned anywhere that anyone was punished by God for Polygamy infact God even promised David that he could have given him even more women if he hadn't slept with Uriah's wife. (2 Sam.12:
David had 8 wives and many concubines yet God still refers to him as a man after God's heart. Abraham slept with his maid and still had a concubine called Kethura. God even promised to bless Ishmael just for the mere fact that he's Abraham's blood. I don't need to mention Solomon. Jacob married 2 sisters and was fvcking their maids: Bilhah and Zilpah yet God used him to establish the nation Israel.
We all pray to God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob but we don't want to follow their foot steps. Haba.
Only Bishop's and General Overseers were instructed to be husbands of one wife.
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