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You need gbola and you need a man

Don't enjoy this single life because intimacy gadgets won't satisfy you

May you get a good man that will be loyal to you

Ase

EriMma1:
This is for those who still believe in cohabiting with untamed dogs.

Imagine the rubbish most men are saying. If a man can be sampling for varieties, why can't a woman do same without raising eyebrows?

Me i have given up on this gender called male and im more at peace. Make God just bless my hustle let me be enjoying my single life to the fullest.

Shame!

You already did and as far as I am concerned you are skipping the truth you dey cheat on your wife with the mental peace hmmn

onumadu:
Firstly, the "porn star" told you HIS truth. He is a MAN.
If I were you, and I am aggregating men's views on this issue, I would add his view for balance and keep the study going.
That is being INTELLIGENT AND SMART. No insult intended please.

As for "are you giving her mental peace? ..." part, she knows ALL my views about these things. ALL OF THEM.
And she is fine by them.
The good thing about marriage is that it is really supposed to moderate (or level up) people.
The strict (as in her type) becomes more pliant. The "free" or malleable (as in my type) becomes a little stricter ... etc.
So, don't worry. She is in safe hands!

Alright that's fine

Sunnyski:
I'm not married so I can't tell.

Can you break it down

How can women love, care and respect

I believe they are reading so they can learn

adindustanley:
Some married Men are been pushed out by their wives. Many men are married but single, so when they find love,care and respect outside it becomes difficult to become stable at home. Women should look into the 3 things I mentioned above.Its a key to a happy home and it can also tame a man from cheating.

Hmmn

layzie:
Supposed to happen but doesn't happen. That's y men cheat. As simple as that. It's left for us to figure out y it doesn't happen to make the men look for it outside

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Hmmn

Oluromantic:
Why then are you so concerned. Don't wait for opinions to justify your cravings. You're responsible for your actions

Am tired

Do you do chores

Did you get house keeper

Did you buy equipment to relieve her of being tired

Then as for the rest she no get excuses except you don't do sweet love making

Do you do ice cream or vanilla sex

How well do you spice your sex life to make her crave it

umarfantami:
"Am tired, am not in the mood, am on my period,travelling, going for shift work, child bearing, waiting period after birth, pregnancy........ Etc"

Even Now, You Are Still Growing Through The Storm

I know it seems like all progress has been derailed.

I know it seems like the world has caved in on itself and will never again return.
 
I know it seems like you were right on the cusp of having it together and then, suddenly, it was taken away.

I know it seems like this because on some level, it is like this.

This is what we are alluding to when we say it’s important to save, to prepare, to anticipate that our lifetimes may not unfold as linearly as we assume.

This is what we mean when we say that when the tide recedes, we see what’s just beneath the surface.

Disruptors serve a purpose in life, and every generation deals with at least one. They shake us out of our unconscious states — our habits, our patterns, our routines, our normalcy — and they encourage us begin again.

You are still learning things you didn’t know you never knew. You are different than you were two weeks ago and you will be different in another two.

We were going too fast, doing too much, so disconnected from ourselves it felt as though we were only being sustained by caffeine and fear.

What we had before wasn’t sustainable, either.
What this means is that the disruptor has come to show us the ways in which life must transform permanently.

We are not going back to “normal,” because normal wasn’t working anyway.

We have a rare opportunity to learn from stillness, which is where all true answers are found.

We have a chance to rethink everything, to finally get deep rest, and to return to the parts of life that are worth returning to.
Our consciousness, as a whole, has spiked and is accelerating.

There are lessons we will learn in this season that we could not and would not have ever known otherwise. There are ideas that will be planted now and watered into a revolution of change.

Gratitude will be reborn.

Openness will be reborn.
We will be reborn.
Not because we are blind to what’s happening around us.
But because we so clearly see.

#digitalbimpe







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Even Now, You Are Still Growing Through The Storm

I know it seems like all progress has been derailed.

I know it seems like the world has caved in on itself and will never again return.
 
I know it seems like you were right on the cusp of having it together and then, suddenly, it was taken away.

I know it seems like this because on some level, it is like this.

This is what we are alluding to when we say it’s important to save, to prepare, to anticipate that our lifetimes may not unfold as linearly as we assume.

This is what we mean when we say that when the tide recedes, we see what’s just beneath the surface.

Disruptors serve a purpose in life, and every generation deals with at least one. They shake us out of our unconscious states — our habits, our patterns, our routines, our normalcy — and they encourage us begin again.

You are still learning things you didn’t know you never knew. You are different than you were two weeks ago and you will be different in another two.

We were going too fast, doing too much, so disconnected from ourselves it felt as though we were only being sustained by caffeine and fear.

What we had before wasn’t sustainable, either.
What this means is that the disruptor has come to show us the ways in which life must transform permanently.

We are not going back to “normal,” because normal wasn’t working anyway.

We have a rare opportunity to learn from stillness, which is where all true answers are found.

We have a chance to rethink everything, to finally get deep rest, and to return to the parts of life that are worth returning to.
Our consciousness, as a whole, has spiked and is accelerating.

There are lessons we will learn in this season that we could not and would not have ever known otherwise. There are ideas that will be planted now and watered into a revolution of change.

Gratitude will be reborn.

Openness will be reborn.
We will be reborn.
Not because we are blind to what’s happening around us.
But because we so clearly see.

#digitalbimpe







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Oga no vex me too oh

Na me sey make you date or marry women with low sex drive

If she is attracted to you she suppose dey rush the gbola

Fidecoo:
Madam I swear, no just let me pour out my anger and frustration on you and this scam words called marriage especially (1man, 1 wife thing).

Any law/force asking you to stick to 1 woman as a man, is just scam at the highest order, because they know it over favours the women alone.
A girlfriend that's gives you sex almost daily during courtship, will make want to make you beg for it maybe once in a week when you marry her.(that is, if you are lucky she didn't insist on once in a month)

Wetin concern me, na to just commot go find joy outside.
Make she dey ,dey mumu herself and her sex as weapon.

Even Now, You Are Still Growing Through The Storm

I know it seems like all progress has been derailed.

I know it seems like the world has caved in on itself and will never again return.
 
I know it seems like you were right on the cusp of having it together and then, suddenly, it was taken away.

I know it seems like this because on some level, it is like this.

This is what we are alluding to when we say it’s important to save, to prepare, to anticipate that our lifetimes may not unfold as linearly as we assume.

This is what we mean when we say that when the tide recedes, we see what’s just beneath the surface.

Disruptors serve a purpose in life, and every generation deals with at least one. They shake us out of our unconscious states — our habits, our patterns, our routines, our normalcy — and they encourage us begin again.

You are still learning things you didn’t know you never knew. You are different than you were two weeks ago and you will be different in another two.

We were going too fast, doing too much, so disconnected from ourselves it felt as though we were only being sustained by caffeine and fear.

What we had before wasn’t sustainable, either.
What this means is that the disruptor has come to show us the ways in which life must transform permanently.

We are not going back to “normal,” because normal wasn’t working anyway.

We have a rare opportunity to learn from stillness, which is where all true answers are found.

We have a chance to rethink everything, to finally get deep rest, and to return to the parts of life that are worth returning to.
Our consciousness, as a whole, has spiked and is accelerating.

There are lessons we will learn in this season that we could not and would not have ever known otherwise. There are ideas that will be planted now and watered into a revolution of change.

Gratitude will be reborn.

Openness will be reborn.
We will be reborn.
Not because we are blind to what’s happening around us.
But because we so clearly see.

#digitalbimpe







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There is no humor in this because you agreed with his words

Are you giving her mental peace is your gbola only for her or like this porn star

onumadu:
Apparently you lack a good sense of humor. lol
I am a HAPPILY married man.
Is my marriage perfect? Of course not, but then no marriage is.
Would I marry her again given the same sets of prior circumstances?
YEP!
She gives me the mental peace and balance that allows me to brainstorm the problems of this world.
If I did not marry her type, I would probably be unavailable and lack sense of humor.

Even Now, You Are Still Growing Through The Storm

I know it seems like all progress has been derailed.

I know it seems like the world has caved in on itself and will never again return.
 
I know it seems like you were right on the cusp of having it together and then, suddenly, it was taken away.

I know it seems like this because on some level, it is like this.

This is what we are alluding to when we say it’s important to save, to prepare, to anticipate that our lifetimes may not unfold as linearly as we assume.

This is what we mean when we say that when the tide recedes, we see what’s just beneath the surface.

Disruptors serve a purpose in life, and every generation deals with at least one. They shake us out of our unconscious states — our habits, our patterns, our routines, our normalcy — and they encourage us begin again.

You are still learning things you didn’t know you never knew. You are different than you were two weeks ago and you will be different in another two.

We were going too fast, doing too much, so disconnected from ourselves it felt as though we were only being sustained by caffeine and fear.

What we had before wasn’t sustainable, either.
What this means is that the disruptor has come to show us the ways in which life must transform permanently.

We are not going back to “normal,” because normal wasn’t working anyway.

We have a rare opportunity to learn from stillness, which is where all true answers are found.

We have a chance to rethink everything, to finally get deep rest, and to return to the parts of life that are worth returning to.
Our consciousness, as a whole, has spiked and is accelerating.

There are lessons we will learn in this season that we could not and would not have ever known otherwise. There are ideas that will be planted now and watered into a revolution of change.

Gratitude will be reborn.

Openness will be reborn.
We will be reborn.
Not because we are blind to what’s happening around us.
But because we so clearly see.

#digitalbimpe







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I am not a man

And yes I have to disagree

Because bdsm come in different angle

Is like you don’t know about the spanking of the ass

You Dey bring past to present

Are you your father

Every human being get it’s freaky freaky style

Back to bdsm

You can be tie at the back with rope or chain and your woman is riding your dick

Or should I continue so you can learn

Men no sabi spice things

DrTee1:
Our people say Ìgbẹ̀yìn ló ma yé olókú àdá

You sure know what that means. BDSM is certainly foreign to our African Culture - and such extreme kinks are indubitably unviable in healthy relationships.

Can you, for example, imagine your parents involved in such? Almost no real African child can imagine it.

You wanted answers for your survey. You shouldn't interrupt your respondents. You aren't a married man. You should learn.

Na u Dey make this women no Dey talk

Coder2Client:
Create a thread that's comment driven not like this one

This is for women sir

The men thread is next kindly view my topics so you can reply there

Some women are not satisfied either

BigDawsNet:
I'm not married
But some husband cheat because they are not satisfied
Dia woman lost shape after birth
It's in dia DNA
They were tempted by the ladies outside

Lmao

You don craze

Coder2Client:
Single and Searching.

I quickly run a check on your profile, guess what I observed.

Your mouth. You have Sharp mouth (ẹ́lẹ́nú mimú bi abẹfẹ́lẹ́) and it seems you have small yansh because of your Sharp mouth.

Just 😊😊😊 smile 😁😁😁

Marriage isn’t for every man

And one guy on this thread just prove that

Kindly sign up to be a porn star

Not be hypocritical to hide under the shell of marriage

The guy and his gbola deserve to be in porn industry

They will register him asap

ChngedChnges:
Guy you don mad

This is a guy and you

Belong to the street

Marriage is not for you guys

onumadu:

ROTFL SO HARD.
Damn!
And I thought I was being blunt!

Fact

myyansh68:
If you can't stay faithful better stay single and continue with the cheat.

Relationship is expensive even without Money.

Stay single

Marriage is not for you Sir

Simple fact

Continue to be bachelor

No kill person pikin emotionally

STOICREALIST:
Oh that is simple. I don’t know why people try to paint it and play it nice.

MEN CHEAT BECAUSE WE CAN AND WE WANT TO. FACTS DOT CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS AND IDIOSYNCRASIES.

THE CONSEQUENCES ARE LESS FOR US.IN THE PAST WE COULD TAKE ON MANY WOMEN. NOWADAYS WE CANT. BUT THAT DOESN’T CHANGE THE DESIRE WITHIN US TO HAVE MULTIPLE WOMEN. SEX IS PLEASURABLE TO US AND WE WANT IT WITH NEW AND MANY PARTNERS. WE HAVE AN INNATE DRIVE TO HAVE SEX AND CUM INSIDE MULTIPLE WOMEN. AS THE HUMAN MALE WE ARE CAPABLE AND HAVE THE FULL NATURAL POSSIBILITY OF BEING ATTRACTED TO MORE THAN ONE FEMALE AT THE SAME TIME. AND WHEN WE SO DESIRE AND THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTS ITSELF WE WILL HAVE SEX/SLEEP WITH SUCH A WOMAN/WOMEN.

Look at the society today, women too are beginning to loose all sense of sticking to one man too. The traditional female values are gone. So now more and more women cheat too because they can and they want to. Perhaps for sex, money, provisions, protection, feeling of being loved and desired, fame, clout, climb up status ladder, fun, etc.


Now, Whatever the reasons given here by other men, first let’s us ask humans generally why they cheat not just in marriage but even in business, and other dealings. Because they want more resources and because there is a feeling of being smart to have achieved and pulled off the cheating stunt. So, please note that not just men cheat in sexual relationships. Men cheat, women cheat. Let us not pose the questions like only one gender does. Because women cheat too. Let all readers avoid this trap of pointing accusing fingers to one gender.

Now back to the question. I repeat again that the reason why men cheat is because WE CAN. We bloody can. Sex is pleasurable. Sex is sweet. We like sex. Sex is like something to chase and have and want. It is delicious to us. Chasing women is pleasurable so much that no level of description can explain the desire. As men, the feeling of having multiple women is pleasurable. We desire it. We crave it. And it is a motivational factor that has led men to hustle and progress the society. Men do it because they can. Their Libido wants it. Just as some women do it for protection, provision and feeling of being loved and wanted and cherished. It is like asking women why they call themselves foodie and are always looking for men to pamper them. Because it is pleasurable. The feeling is inexplicable. So sex with multiple women is for men. We like the pleasures of an orgasm, with multiple women. As many women as possible.

For those who want to simp and tell you how they are different and how I should speak for myself, good luck to them in trying to impress you and get a phone number and the unlikely chance of getting into your pants. For those who say they don’t cheat, they are scared of the consequences or effects that it can have. Some men care about the consequences. Some men don’t. Just like when women nowadays act like whores wearing skimpy things, taking photos with revealed boobs and contorting their bodies to reveal their sexuality, they do not care about the consequences of being branded whores only good for sleeping with and nothing else.


One final note. Now, In the dynamics of marriage and relationships, the age that you see those married men are when they are very powerful. That is when they are in their prime societally. Blossoming business, wealth, cars, more mature female acquaintances, more experience in matters of life and more experienced in the art and psychology of female manipulation. Yes. Every woman wooed, “toasted”, and married/befriended is manipulated. Deal with it. Any woman that doesn’t like this fact can go jump off a bridge. Now, At that stage in the life of men when they have money, wealth, resources, etc they also want the never satisfying pleasures of sex and more sex with multiple women. Sticking to one partner is considered boring by men and it is NOT by force and never will. And as a matter of fact, since female folk have made sex and sexuality very cheap with things like only fans, and the modern feminist behaviors, the men shall be ever ready to sleep with as many as present themselves.

Men cheat because they bloody can. And they will continue to. Nothing will change this. Nothing. And the earlier women realize this that the world WILL NEVER CHANGE FOR THEM, the better. And it is left for the women to do their worse and revenge. I hear some women claiming they cheated on their husbands too as revenge. Please that is what men secretary pray for. That women make sex cheap and available. Men are logical and practical and adapt quickly. To the regular man, If all married women in his area want to sleep with him because their husbands cheated on them, then that is a goldmine. And to most men, a cheating wife isn’t a big deal anymore. Look at this forum and the number of men that casually talk and report about cheating girlfriends. Not a big deal. Men shall personally welcome any woman who wants to get back at her partner through spreading her legs. If my wife is foolish enough to cheat, then good for the lucky guy. As long as other women too come to other men too to help them cheat on their husbands, then no wahala. Most men are ashamed and afraid of stating these facts. They want to be politically correct. I don’t want to be. I don’t care who doesn’t like the facts. Facts don’t care about your feelings.

Men cheat because they can. And when women have the same power and authority that men have, they have been known to do worse. Men can face the consequences of cheating better than the women. Finally, Women cheat too and for every action their is/are consequence(s) and you MUST take responsibility for your actions.

I need to do another thread why do men assume women are all cheat

This women never talk but see bad words to discourage them

Wetin be s & s

Coder2Client:
Oh, you are still S & S.

Hmmn

livenija:
only people with bf or husband cheat, u loyal cause u have none

Please don't discourage this women

You have a the thread I did for men

Go there now

You men don't listen and this is why women won't talk

Coder2Client:
Do you expect them to truly come to expose themselves just because you claim (though na lie) you never do am before

I have not

I can say it with my full chest

I am loyal to the core

Coder2Client:
Do you expect them to truly come to expose themselves just because you claim (though na lie) you never do am before