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MufasaLion:
Why Mufasa?

Omniman:


2022 is gonna be hot..
I will personally ask for the full gist

Palema007:
You know that's a figurative expression right?

placeofallure:
No don't!

If you try that with me, going through my mum or anybody for that matter, then you have totally destroyed your chances. I love bold and confident men who can hold their own anywhere.

You could ask her out on a date. Ask her what she's been up to? From there, you'd know if she's with somebody presently, how deep they're and if she's willing to reconsider you. Let your convo tilt towards gathering this info. You will be alright laslas.

kkins25:
I will ask again, are you a redpiller? lol.
this is Nairaland redpil abeg, alpha males would have handled the misunderstanding better.
small misunderstanding, then you deleted her contact- after 7 freaking years.
If thats not the Simpiest, "all emotion no sense" act ive seen today i dont know what is.

REDPILL is about puting the irrational emotions in check.
Kobojunkie, i first you come abeg, dont come and outshine me. lol

killmods:
I don't think she would be entertaining u if she is in any meaningful relationship and happy. She says she misses u too that's ur stepping cue.. act right this time

Palema007:
It's a pity people without filters practice all they read here.

Na him we dey see now, Why Alfa males never full the thread self baffle me. I mean this is the moment a brother needs a shoulder to cry on.

WoundedLamb:
Lol... Why do guys always come here to ask for guidelines? You called her cause you had feelings for her not because of any pressure. She also acknowledged she misses you. Most people wouldn't do that if there's no chance they want you back. And that's not abnormal seeing how long y'all have been together. I think you guys are allowing this simp thing to affect your lives and happiness. You're always scared of being called a simp that you'd let go what makes you happy. You come to NL to ask secondary school students what to do as if people here really care about you. Of course, they'd tell you whatever makes them feel good about themselves and move on with their lives. You alone will live with the consequences of your decisions.

If you love her, go for her the way you went for her 7 years ago. Why are you suddenly afraid? Were you the cause of the fight? Did you cheat?

Magnoliaa:
I suggest you table this matter at the Redpill House of Assembly. I believe only there will you get efficient and adequate help.
On a serious note, the only thing you can do is to man up and tell her how you feel. No more, no less.



I lie? ^_^

killmods:
I don't think she would be entertaining u if she is in any meaningful relationship and happy. She says she misses u too that's ur stepping cue.. act right this time

Emmanuel909090:
It proves how much you value the said person.

Who dates a person for 7 years without their number on his or her head?

This is my first time of hearing this weird thing.

Even old men and women do, how much more a young lad, and you claim you love her?

Carry your aldutrated love to Instagram, we real here.

Double0h7:
No need for long talk, just ask her out and treat her to a nice memorable day/night out. Use that time to get close and intimate... ask about all the things you've missed in the last year and give her a long passionate hug. Sometimes you have to show your feelings instead of telling them. But if you a broke nigga with zero confidence then I guess you could hide behind a phone or keyboard and finish her with cheap talk.

Magnoliaa:
Yeah, misunderstanding. You didn't say whose fault. The person I quoted was implying that the lady was at fault when he said ''yanga again.''

Me? Means ke? You be real man, unlike other simps out there - even though you claimed reconnecting with her was a simp move. You should be able to deal with your shits, since you obviously know how alpha men are supposed to deal with women.

brain54:
Dude...no trick from me.






But why break up with some one if you still have feelings?
Not too late though!

helinues:
What were you thinking when you let go of 7 years relationship initially?

If you indeed missed her, you wouldn't have to wait for someone to remind you about her.

Don't be pushed

Magnoliaa:
But you should consider this advice sha. Don't be a pùssy-whipped nigga. A man shouldn't be caught having strong feelings for a banny (especially more than she does). It's for weak men. No woman is worth you falling in love with. Dating a woman doesn't guarantee her faithfulness, breaking up with her doesn't.

There'll always be one nigga at the side shining things, so I wonder why you guys make so much ado about faithfulness.

Even this one wey dey tok sef, another dude dey lash him Asian babe. It's all a recycling something.

Magnoliaa:
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Pali ooo. You have finished me with laughter here. Asa, you don talk am finish. And now gan, e sure me say, the girl dey innocent. Because if a woman was in the wrong, a naija male like the OP wouldn't have passed the opportunity to berate her over. He'd have come here to expose her yansh, so his goons can feast on her soul.

Redpill ti da relationship ru ooo. Aye. Seven years. O ma se. Warra pirry.



You see this line gannnn is my MO. Abeg, they should overdose to death! They should. It is over my dead body that I'll be preaching against guys taking the redpill. Nikini? Na my problem?

ashawopikin:
You are asking us how to tell a girl you've dated for SEVEN YEARS u still have feelings for her, na wa o

Opeyemiextra:
Just tell her how you feel if you really still do and ask her if she's up for another chance. Don't make what is not complicated look like it is. In those 7 years, you should have learnt how best to reach her anyway.

lomprico:
We ain't talking about love yet

Oyiboman69:
swallow your pride and get what you want... be sure you're certain of what lead to you guys break up in the first place and see if it's okay with you before embarking on the long journey of marriage and after that,I guess you should go straight to the point of taking the relationship to the next level cos seven wasted does not deserve another to be added on to....good luck.