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Originalsly:
I hear you. If you're sooo obsessed with boobs then you should've had an idea that they were saggy. Is it that she always presented herself wearing push-up bra?.... and you believed they were her natural breasts bubbling up to her throat?
You're married now... and served long pawpaw when you were expecting mini watermelons.... make the best of it.... you have the mindset to do so.... and that's a good thing. I was stretching my imagination to see how saggy boobs will be standing when she be laying on her back. Being a boobs man... I suggest you will get your eyes full of what you love if you be the one on your back and she be all dangling over you.
On fear of them stretching out after childbirth.... it depends on how she manages her body after.... but regardless... all women boobs sag with age.
Check her family members and you will get a good idea what she can become without healthy eating and exercise. After all......she is your wife.... enjoy her... no one is perfect.

Personally..... size of boobs doesn't matter to me..... except the huge melons.... Kilimanjaro types .... I have this fear of being clobbered dizzy... melonphobia?

Thank you very much

Ginomel:
Don't allow any of those unreal people distract you from your determination.

Even before reading this your post I quoted ,I just said it to my self that someone that didn't touch a woman till he was married, is the same person that they are already accusing of cheating in the nearest future.

I don't really see you doing that if you maintain your determination as it was before you got married.

By now, you are already above temptation to cheat and should divert the time to something very meaningful.

I can understand your disappointment but I assure you that even the best of a woman's anatomy will still change. So it's not about that.

No need of any disappointment. Highly uncalled for.

So simply love her and enjoy her company and her body.

Take my words, every woman is same it's just a stupid mindset that makes people to deviate and involve in all those undesired affairs that will take your time ,energy, money ,reputation and spirituality.


Take this advice from someone that knows all.

Thank you very much bro.

My wife is a very lovely lady. When I met her, she ticked all my boxes, with bonus points. I know it deep down that she is God's perfect gift to me, and that's why I shook my head at people who were so sure I will cheat in the future. Cheat because of overrated sex? Not in this world and in the world to come.

Once again, thanks for the kind words. Cheers.

Chii59:
It's not about you rejecting. You will cheat with this mindset. Your marriage never reach anywhere, you don dey complain.
Don't your testicles sag? Is she worried? You will cheat. Period.

I am just quoting you to respond to all those saying I will definitely cheat. I am like, what the heck are these guys saying?

I married at above 30, yet my wife was the first woman I had sex with. I was also the first man she would expose her unclothedness to.

If I didn't sleep around as a single guy in his 30s who could afford to pay any realistic amount for sex, why will I sleep around when I am already married? Like I normally say, I have never really been so keen on sex. Men that cheat do so for sex. Nobody cheats because they are looking for perky boobs.

I know I will ultimately be alright. I'm only expressing the initial displeasure people get when they fantasize on something for a very long time and end up getting what they didn't desire.

I must say that the boobs are not outrightly bad now. If she was in her late 30s or 40s now and we already had all our kids, I wouldn't mind. I am only concerned because she is still very young and we haven't even had kids.

Like I said, I will be alright. I didn't marry her for any assets. Boobs was never one of the major reasons why I married her. It was only a plus. All the other reasons still stand, so I am very grateful.

Let me say it for the last time, I don't have even the faintest plan to cheat on my wife. I will rather spend the rest of my life unmarried than to cheat. I am very heaven-conscious, so cheating can never be in my dictionary.

Thank you all for your contributions.

Chii59:
You will cheat. Its only a matter of time.

God forbid! I reject this in Jesus name, Amen.

Yusufisraelj:
Well am not married, but I will say you got engaged to the lady and not her boobs my brother, I have come to realise that in life deal ruthlessly with your fears by keeping your options open when you decide to settle down with anybody. Accepting them for who they are not necessarily for what they have.

Accept the saggy boobs, that's your reality now, can't change it, think up ways to make the saggy boobs happy and make it have fun and enjoy itself by your brilliant performance on it and enjoy yourself in the process. If you love your woman, then accept the reality on her, that she can't change and learn to work around it and be happy. Pls make that saggy boobs happy, don't complain

Thanks for the advice.

SILENTandSMART2:
yes it matters


we have different things wey we fancy,


some like ass wey be like bathing bowl while some like it big


moreover that doesn't stop you from loving your wife unless you're unserios man , nobe 1 and a half breast you met nah,nah still two , bro grab ham play with it and cum on it


breast nah breast abeg, god will help you

Thank you for your advice

meobizy:
Why should I answer a creative writer? Pay me first.

You're a woman and won't be able to see it from men's perspective. Also, I am not a writer. The story above is my reality.

I recently got married, and for over 10 years before my marriage, I was so much interested in boobs. I was never really keen on sex but my interest in boobs was overwhelming. I spent years fantasizing on how I would enjoy my wife's boobs after marriage.

I have always fantasized on round or at worst slightly droopy boobs, but I have never like saggy boobs. When I met my wife, she had a good size of boobs which made me very happy. After we got married and I saw the boobs, I realised they're saggy (we got married as virgins and never saw each other's unclothedness during our courtship). I haven't been very happy since then, not just because they are saggy now, but I fear that they would get much worse as she grows older and after having kids.

Married men here, does the shape of your wife's boobs matter to you? Do saggy boobs affect sex drive? Will I still be able to enjoy romance with my wife in the future if her boobs get much saggier? Already, the tips are nearly at the level of her belly button when she is sitting down, but still get shapely when she is lying on her back. Mind you, cheating is never going to be an option.

NB: You are free to insult and abuse me, but I still need a candid advice. Thanks.