Protective Instinct: Women Less Likely to Take Risks Around Babies (Even If it's Not Theirs)

The maternal instinct is one of the most powerful in nature - now scientists have found it applies to women even if they don't have children.
Scientists found that women were significantly more cautious when they are partnered with small children in a gambling game measuring their attitude to risk.
However, men didn't substantially alter their willingness to take a chance if a baby is present.
Researchers from the University of Warwick and the University of Basel said this could be an example of evolutionary forces at work.
Men are probably more competitive and risk-seeking in order to establish status while women are more risk-averse in order to protect offspring.
The team observed 80 students playing a gambling game while alone and while paired with either an image of an attractive man, woman or baby with whom they imagined they would share their winnings.
The participants accumulated cash while pumping up a computer-simulated balloon which could explode randomly at any moment.
As the game progressed, participants had to decide whether to stop pumping and "bank" the winnings – or whether to continue and risk the balloon exploding and all the cash being lost.
A second less surprising finding of the study was that men took more risks when partnered with other men – consistent with theories suggesting that men are driven to compete with other men in order to maximise their reproductive opportunities.
This particular finding has parallels in the real world where studies have shown that men in committed relationships show less risky behaviour as they no longer need to compete with other males to gain a woman's attention.
Dr Thomas Hills of the Department of Psychology at the University of Warwick said: 'To our knowledge this is the first study to look directly at the effect of babies on male and female risk-taking.
'Our attitudes to risk form a big part of our personality and determine our behaviour in all sorts of areas – for example how we approach financial investments or what leisure activities we indulge in.
'Even though the women in the study were not the mothers of the babies they paired with, just having a baby involved in the game was enough to substantially change their behaviour.
'It's as if babies turn off women's a willingness to take a risk – but interestingly the same doesn't apply to men.'
The study was published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior.
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Everyone needs their own space, no matter before or after marriage. There is a female friend said, the man most trusted the words, in order to get the good opinion of women, they always make up all kinds of lies. Then, whether in marriage, a man will show their most real side?
After marriage, a man will keep a lot of secrets. The man most demanding for marriage is to hope can have their own private space, and keep your secret have private space performance. Many women, always desiring deeper insight, want to drill into the man's heart, be he minds. Facing the tortured men wife, no yield symptoms, but with a strong attitude is facing. To know the secret of the man actually not difficult, as long as you take a free range attitude, you will see the other side of the man, will also know his heart is more secret.
Today we are going to walked into the inner man, look at the man in the four big secret marriage.
money
Modern society women over the family economic power is the common social phenomenon, because women make home, consider a cautious, considerate, from the point of view of the construction of the family, is the ideal, so men generally also dare not usurp only possession. Haven't money man will always have not feel safe, in order to in front of friends enough great-hearted, parents enough in before the filial piety, on the children before generous enough, many of the men in his marriage to save up will pin money.
Women earn to why so sensitive? Because women money control also represent the needs of the sense of security. In fact, male people a little pin money is no great thing. Man is a social animal, all alive are respectable, especially people YaoLian tree to the men in the skin, the smoke of old smoke others how line? Old drink the other people's wine how line? The so-called "have no to propriety", so the women cannot "sensing", the man got penniless, make oneself of man into friends eyes ". Besides, only a few small text after all what can atmosphere, like small loach churning waves not to have big. You prevent a rich husband face to change, but respectable husband a poor face also can change, things, the rabbit nasty would bite, besides is the beverage of choice among rowdy five feet quit man?
Former girlfriend, is to let a woman of color change smell a biological, is the heart and with a lingering shadow, is caused by the two men countless saliva's outburst. About the problem of his former girlfriend, many men think "don't make a mountain out of a molehill" "why so narrow-minded", but often make women fear, anger, and despair. "I feel jealous because I care about you" this statement but no man's understanding. Man, can be a former girlfriend away in my heart become a big secret.
If you believe that you are really love him, please believe him. True love should be each other soul dwelling, trust each other, understand each other. If you really can't do this, then you leave for him, for both a calm alone chance, perhaps, you can understand, what is your true love.
If confirmed their is really love him, also willing to believe him, but could never get rid of psychological of the former girlfriend "worry, so, let's analyze the man's psychological. There is a male friend say: the former girlfriend early has become a witness of the growth of the youth road signs, quietly stands in the way of life has been through, can't turn back to experience; Each time the not successful experience, all is the next more love a person reason.
informal
Home took off his shoes with a foot off and not in the cupboard; Sleep in the morning up late not fold the quilt; The dishes out brush again; Such things a lot. The man most afraid of the details of the life is struggle. So the woman very orderly rules will only let a man nervous.
There are many couples because a few little detail in the life of the quarrel caused by even a divorce. In the life of the small details, men generally will not put them in their heart, also won't and you say more. Female friends can need not because these small things in two person feeling assured influence.
Have private space
Many new man will complain to the elder brothers son: never before of day! "The day before the" means free time, do you want to do anything. Can marry, the man felt himself into the hands of the wife "the yo-yo"--a little run far, is the wife of the line pulling back the hands.
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Don't just hit up the big guys.
Big-name websites like Monster and CareerBuilder are wonderful resources for online job hunting, but don't stop there. They charge fees that some smaller companies can't afford or don't believe in paying. Make sure to check out smaller job boards or job board aggregates such as indeed.com to find more online gigs。
Don't use your company's email to job-hunt.
Even if your company says it's OK to use their email server to send out resumes, don't do it. You can get in trouble with your existing company, plus it won't look like a move in good taste to theprospective employer if you use your work email. Another setback: If you're contacted in the future and are no longer at your current job, you'll miss the message. Set up one email account with a professional handle (your name, for example) and stick to that。
Don't blast off your resume.
Blast out your resume, but with some personal attention. Don't just fire it off into the Internet abyss. More importantly, a customized cover letter can go a long way to win over an employer, so be sure to take the time to customize one as best you can。
Consider your privacy.
While you may not want to post your contact information, that's OK for many people who see it as a move from someone who is Internet-savvy. Be sure to check out the privacy settings when posting your resume and do what feels right for you--and for your future career。
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Does microwaving "kill" nutrients? What aboutother cooking methods? What's the best way to cook food for maximum nutrition? We wanted to know, so we went to SHAPE's diet doctor, Mike Roussell, PhD, to get the scoop. Here's what he had to say:
Despite what you might read on the Internet, microwaving your food does not "kill" nutrients. In fact, it can make certain nutrientsmore available to your body . In terms of the impact on your food's nutrients, microwaving is the equivalent of sautéing or heating up in a pan (just a lot more convenient). Research on this topic shows that whenever you cook greens (broccoli, spinach, etc), some of the B vitamins and other water-soluble vitamins are lost. The amount you lose depends on the duration and rigor in which the food is cooked-steaming broccoli in the microwave for 90 seconds is a lot different than nuking it for five minutes. Another example:Sautéing green beans in a pan allows for much better vitamin retention than if you were to boil them. Boiling leaches the most nutritients out of your food, so with the exception of potatoes, try to avoid boiling your vegetables.
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Although cooking vegetables does reduce the amount of certain vitamins, it can also liberate other nutrients, like antioxidants, allowing for greater absorption by the body. Research from the University of Oslo found that microwaving or steaming carrots, spinach, mushrooms, asparagus, broccoli, cabbage, green and red peppers, and tomatoes led to an increase in the antioxidant content of the foods (in that the antioxidants become more available for absorption). And still more research shows that lycopene, the powerful antioxidant that gives tomatoes and watermelon their red color, is better absorbed by the body when it's consumed in cooked or processed tomato products-salsa, spaghetti sauce, ketchup, etc.-rather than fresh tomatoes.
Eating cooked vegetables has its pros and cons, but the bottom line is that it's important to eat your food in a variety of ways. Enjoy raw spinach in salads and go for wilted or steamed as a side dish with dinner.
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If you use a microwave to steam your veggies, be careful not to add so much water that you're actually boiling, and watch the clock to avoid overcooking (the amount of time needed will vary greatly, depending on the type of vegetable and how small it's cut). The primary takeaway is to incorporate both raw and cooked foods into your diet. It's the easiest way to ensure that you're getting the maximum amount of vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants.
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'I just want to be happy.'I can't think of another phrase capable of causing more misery and permanent unhappiness. With the possible exception of, 'Honey, I'm in love with your youngest sister.'Yet at first glance, it seems so guileless. Children just want to be happy. So do puppies. Happy seems like a healthy, normal desire. Like wanting to breathe fresh air or shop only at Whole Foods.But 'I just want to be happy' is a hole cut out of the floor and covered with a rug. Because once you say it, the implication is that you're not. The 'I just want to be happy' bear trap is that until you define precisely, just exactly what 'happy' is, you will never feel it. Whatever being happy means to you, it needs to be specific and also possible. When you have a blueprint for what happiness is, lay it over your life and see what you need to change so the images are more aligned.Still, this recipe of defining happiness and fiddling with your life to get it will work for some people岸but not for others. I am one of the others. I am not a happy person. There are things that do make me experience joy. But joy is a fleeting emotion, like a very long sneeze. A lot of the time what I feel is, interested. Or I feel melancholy. And I also frequently feel tenderness, annoyance, confusion, fear, hopelessness. It doesn't all add up to anything I would call happiness. But what I'm thinking is, is that so terrible?I know a physicist who loves his work. People mistake his constant focus and thought with unhappiness. But he's not unhappy. He's busy. I bet when he dies, there will be a book on his chest. Happiness is a treadmill of a goal for people who are not happy by nature. Being an unhappy person does not mean you must be sad or dark. You can be interested, instead of happy. You can be fascinated instead of happy.The barrier to this, of course, is that in our super-positive society, we have an unspoken zero-tolerance policy for negativity. Beneath the catchall umbrella of negativity is basically everything that isn't super-positive. Seriously, who among us is having a 'Great!' day every day? Who feels 'Terrific, thanks!' all the time?Anger and negativity have their uses, too. Instead of trying to alleviate some of the uncomfortable and unpleasant emotions you feel by 'trying to be positive,' try being negative instead. Seriously, try it sometime. This will help you get in touch with how you actually feel: 'I feel hopeless and fat and stupid. And like a failure for feeling this way. And trying to be positive and upbeat makes me feel angry and feeling angry makes me feel like I am broken.'If that's how you feel岸however you feel岸then you have a base line, you have established a real solid floor of reference. Sometimes just giving yourself permission to feel any emotion without judgment or censorship can lessen the intensity of those negative emotions. Almost like you're letting them out into the backyard to run around and get rid of some of that energy.A corollary to the idea that we must all be happy and positive all the time is that we must all be 'healed.' When I was 32, somebody I loved died on a plastic-covered twin mattress at a Manhattan hospital. His death was not unexpected and I had prepared myself years in advance, as though studying for a degree. When he died, I was as stunned as if he had been killed by a grand piano falling from the top of a building. I was fully unprepared.I did not know what to do with my physical self. It took me about a year to stop thinking, madly, I might somehow meet him in my sleep. Once I finally believed he was gone, I began the next stage: waiting. Waiting to heal. This lasted several years.The truth about healing is that heal is a television word. Someone close to you dies? You will never heal. What will happen is, for the first few days, the people around you will touch your shoulder and this will startle you and remind you to breathe. You will feel as though you will soon be dead from natural causes; the weight of the grief will be physical and very nearly unbearable.Eventually, you will shower and leave the house. Maybe in a year you will see a movie. And one day somebody will say something and it will cause you to laugh. And you will clamp your hand over your mouth because you laughed and that laugh will break your heart, it will feel like a betrayal. How can you laugh?In time, to your friends, you will appear to have recovered from your loss. All that really happened, you'll think, is that the hole in the center of your life has narrowed just enough to be concealed by a laugh. And yet, you might feel a pressure for it to be true. You might feel that 'enough' time has passed now, that the hole at the center of you should not be there at all.But holes are interesting things. As it happens, we human beings are able to live just fine with many holes of many sizes and shapes. Pleasure, love, compassion, fulfillment; these things do not leak out of holes of any size. So we can be filled with holes and loss and wide expanses of unhealed geography岸and we can also be excited by life and in love and content at the exact same moment.This is among the oldest, deepest, most primal truths: The facts of life may be, at times, unbearably painful. But the core, the bones of life are generous beyond all reason or belief. Those things which ought to kill us do not. This should be taken as encouragement to continue.The truth about healing is that you don't need to heal to be whole. And by whole, I mean damaged, missing pieces of who you were, your heart岸missing what feels like some of your most important parts. And yet, not missing any part of you at all. Being, in truth, larger than you were before.Human experience weighs more than human tissue.岸Adapted from 'This Is How: Proven Aid in Overcoming Shyness, Molestation, Fatness, Spinsterhood, Grief, Disease, Lushery, Decrepitude & More. For Young and Old Alike,' by Augusten Burroughs. To be published Tuesday by St. Martin's.
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Flirting is a fun, social and healthy human behavior. It is a way we introduce our existence to others, express our self-confidence and let others know that we find them attractive. Even though it is an overall harmless behavior, flirtation seems to be a problem in most relationships. People find it offensive and disrespectful, as well as causing them to feel jealous. There are ways you can deal with your partner�s flirtatious ways without having to end the relationship or argue on a regular basis, by understanding the reasons and meanings behind your partner's flirting.Okay, so you would rather have your partner not flirt at all. This may be what you want, but not necessarily what you are going to get. We all want to feel special and like we are the only one our lover has eyes for, but the truth is, your partner's eyes have a right to explore whatever or whoever it is around them, as do you. Being in a relationship never means that you own your partner or can start changing things about them, which is why it is so essential that you study your partner�s personality, attitudes and habits while you are still in the dating process and before you decide to have an official relationship.What you should focus on is the reasons behind your partner�s flirting. It could very well just be that your partner carries a high and self-confident personality, and chooses to express that confidence through flirting, as many people do. If this is the case, then you were probably already aware of your partner�s confidence when you met him or her, but just grew less fond of it as you grew more emotionally attached. In these cases, it would be best to get in touch with your own self-confidence to prevent insecurity, and learn to accept your partner�s personality.Maybe your partner�s flirting has a deeper meaning behind it other than just a high self-esteem. Unfortunately, sometimes our partners will flirt because they really are attracted to other people and it could damage your relationship, depending on how much it bothers you. Being attracted to other people does not necessarily mean that your partner wants to go and cheat on you with all those people. Being attracted to others could mean that your lover is simply acknowledging the good looks that another person carries and stops it at that point. Attraction does not always create a temptation to cheat and you should allow your security to grow on this fact.
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A pair of shoes, Nike's more than 600; Li ning's more than 400; More than 300 special steps; More than 200 361; So, you graduated from a what kind of university is very important.
A pair of shoes, but a few yuan in designer, to stores, specialty shops, will rise to one hundred or even hundreds of. So, you stay in what place is very important.
A pair of shoes, only a perfect fit and touching the ability to sell out. So, communication understanding is very important.
A pair of shoes, little one, is cheap. So, the other half is very important.
A pair of shoes, the style of the old, mostly very cheap. So, update their knowledge is very important.
A pair of shoes, the backlog of many years, can discount processing. So, meet the right will get married.
A pair of shoes, someone 3, 5 years as new, someone less than a year's wear. So, have a good boss are very important

1, is this a realistic social, feelings can't be eat for rice, poor couples Pepsi sorrow. Don't believe the story in the film plot, that is just a stranger for many blatant emotional places. Only reason and not reality men believe in
2, give yourself set goals, one year, two years, five years, and maybe you was born as well as others, through hard work, often can change the fate of 70%. Broken falls can only make friends and cowardice.
3, friends invite you, don't think for granted, please reciprocity, or your reputation will be more and more worse.
4, good friends inside, must develop a bosom friend, don't think you have how BaMianLingLong, is full of friends, finally sincerely to you, only one, believe me.
5, don't believe containing ba zhi can sign, that is to the children, destiny in their own hands. Sit at home and for what the house, the car as a sleep have a good dream.
6, don't like little contact, but don't speak ill of behind their back, and said, surely is a tattler. Remember that comes evil.
7 and play less games, this is not South Korea, you hit a house car and capital. Can have a hobby, but to grasp the scale and play less farms, pasture, dou landlord, some highly attractive thoughts qualification games, maybe your level is high, but does not mean you how successful, it will influence and occupy the success of your time.
8, is people have inertia, this is innate, but the day after tomorrow we can change the inert, because there are a lot of people are changing. For some things or business don't wait for anybody else do, and I just think of. Don't wait for anybody else has to earn money, I just want to do. No one believes the market and the opportunities, we all believe is called inflation.
9, know what you want, night, and ask yourself, the future of plan, and towards the direction to achieve. Rather than doing nothing and do some meaningless things.
10, way out way out, go out, there will always be the way. Difficult suffering, trapped in the home is difficult. "Social investigation" generally thought.
11, as a woman, don't to old MaiLao, think career with his it doesn't matter, think oneself is washing the clothes, cooking, and see children, that's dead wrong.
12, be an upright person, to do; All the filial first, teach the way of TongPin, husband and wife harmonious beauty, happiness than older. But these are not brought about by mouth can do, liberate the initial s to do these, need to pay a lot of efforts and hard work, the reality of the social needs you pay a lot of money, smart people know the truth.
13, free time don't often use the Internet for the bored matter and play some meaningless game, to read some literature works, learn some business processes, standardized management, international events, legal common sense. This will ensure you have in any party gossip.
14, would rather kill one thousand times wrong information from all sides, also don't pass any possible chance of success. Only in this way you will not regret medicine to buy.
15, to do one thing, before success, there is no need to tell others. After the success of need not you say, others will know. This is the information age brings the effect
16, hair, fingernails, beard, do good. Society is a rejection of accept body, the planet need artist extremely limited, please don't take the risk, even if you keep long hair is good-looking, also want to try to give a person clean feeling.
17, don't think you are a man, they don't need to maintain. At least not too free food, eat more tomatoes, seafood, leek, bananas, is all to the men's health good food. If you can't see the value, I can tell you. At least you can see the savings give you of the woman much buy some cosmetics.
18, and strive to progress, don't always think by who, people are selfish, himself is the steady person.
19, faced with it, don't too dispute, day will drop in case they also, will first frustrates needs, hungry spirit... the But learn to era, find a reason, and get rid of the bad habit. Twenty years old and have no money, that's normal; Thirty years have no money, may be no good family circumstances, more needs to be done; Forty years old have no money, can only find their own reasons. The poor become rich is possible, and it is quite possible. The poor can poor forever, also is the inevitable, there is reason, just have a choice.
20, everyone has a chance of success! See you to not give yourself a chance!