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Arinzeshop:
You don’t have a driver’s license?

passionate87:
bro I feel ur pain cos I'm 32 and married,I planned to marry earlier but got my heart broken by my first ex gf.I had serious trust issues and I call many relationships quit without blinking,I think one of ur problem is that u enter into the relationship more invested than the ladies and they have assessed that if the relationship falls apart,you've got more to lose.from the day one I enter into any relationship,I start with an I don't give a damn attitude,if the lady messes up I immediately scold her.and I call the shots all the time,I showed them I had options to fall back to if they peradventure mess up,you've got to man up and put these ladies straight or else,they would use u to play ping-pong.mind u I love my wife but she can attest to the fact that there are some things I won't tolerate because I started doing that in the relationship.
Here is the secret,have a lot of female friends and u can be in romantic relationship with few,take time to study their character,go for women above 25years of age or mature minded ladies.
Don't ever show commitment initially till ur are 80% certain,u can be serious with the lady in question based on her being serious minded, don't try to be sentimental because relationship are for the strong hearted. break off relationships when u notice foul play,be less tolerant about it or else it would come back to haunt u.
Initially during ur relationship pay surprise visit and always be prepare for the worst,never let emotions take the best part of you,for this u would thank me later.

emeejinsm:
My dear every body destiny no be the same
You want to become a wicked player na for your head oo cuz you fit contract hiv

coolestofall:
Leave dat one. Just b ur own man. Do things 4 u, n never 4 anyone else. U go dey alright.

TheMainMan:
don't go and become a player o... if you contact hiv now... who will you blame


Personally... i will advice you to hold on,work on yourself and learn from your mistakes and make sure you are ready bfr going into another relationship ... and if that one too doesn't work... don't blame yourself.

The woman meant for you is just around the corner...

vladhillz:
try something new for a change..32? go hoe'ing' for a year,you really need it..it will help you get your sh*t together..that I can assure you..

coolestofall:
Nigga hold ur horses. U dnt have 2 become a player. What u did wrong in both relationships is that we're trying, trying 2 please. Never do that, only do what u feel like when u feel like. D key is 2 please ur self, then others r secondary. I bet u wld become more real when u do that.

x2x2:
Good day fellow nairalanders..
Don't mind my English pls..
I'm a regular and active member of this section,but I needed to open another account to seek for help in my relationship.
I will clock 32 soon and i have only dated two girls all my life.Both we agreed to be serious relationship and not just chop and go kind of...The first relationship lasted 3yrs and after i investested my all,i caught her cheating and telling me lies,i ended it. Second one ended days ago and I'm currently hrt broken as i type this right now. Same issue i had with her was cheating and lies...
I did my best in pleasing them,in s+x,funding and all that..I forgave several times,but this last one still continued..She lies more than devil himself,it took me special procedures to known that she was cheating on me.God saved me,if not I could have been swimming in various infections by now.
I can swear that in these two relationships,i never cheated on any of them,because I really don't like sleeping around and deceiving anybody..Rather i gave my all and now i have been scammed again.
So i have decided never to be nice to girls anymore,so how can i stop being too emotional? I don't wanna love again, I want to start being a player(a very wicked one). Guys in the hux how can i make my hrt become stone towards girls please....Pls don't insult or blame me...All i need is advice regarding my questions...Thanks...