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Guys Help A Brother Please!! by x2x2(m): 3:33am On Jan 12
Good day fellow nairalanders..
Don't mind my English pls..
I'm a regular and active member of this section,but I needed to open another account to seek for help in my relationship.
I will clock 32 soon and i have only dated two girls all my life.Both we agreed to be serious relationship and not just chop and go kind of...The first relationship lasted 3yrs and after i investested my all,i caught her cheating and telling me lies,i ended it. Second one ended days ago and I'm currently hrt broken as i type this right now. Same issue i had with her was cheating and lies...
I did my best in pleasing them,in s+x,funding and all that..I forgave several times,but this last one still continued..She lies more than devil himself,it took me special procedures to known that she was cheating on me.
I can swear that in these two relationships,i never cheated on any of them,because I really don't like sleeping around and deceiving anybody..Rather i gave my all and now i have been scammed again.
So i have decided never to be nice to girls anymore,so how can i stop being too emotional? I don't wanna love again, I want to start being a player(a very wicked one). Guys in the hux how can i make my hrt become stone towards girls please....Pls don't insult or blame me...All i need is advice regarding my questions...Thanks...

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by x2x2(m): 3:38am On Jan 12
x2x2:
Good day fellow nairalanders..
Don't mind my English pls..
I'm a regular and active member of this section,but I needed to open another account to seek for help in my relationship.
I will clock 32 soon and i have only dated two girls all my life.Both we agreed to be serious relationship and not just chop and go kind of...The first relationship lasted 3yrs and after i investested my all,i caught her cheating and telling me lies,i ended it. Second one ended days ago and I'm currently hrt broken as i type this right now. Same issue i had with her was cheating and lies...
I did my best in pleasing them,in s+x,funding and all that..I forgave several times,but this last one still continued..She lies more than devil himself,it took me special procedures to known that she was cheating on me.God saved me,if not I could have been swimming in various infections by now.
I can swear that in these two relationships,i never cheated on any of them,because I really don't like sleeping around and deceiving anybody..Rather i gave my all and now i have been scammed again.
So i have decided never to be nice to girls anymore,so how can i stop being too emotional? I don't wanna love again, I want to start being a player(a very wicked one). Guys in the hux how can i make my hrt become stone towards girls please....Pls don't insult or blame me...All i need is advice regarding my questions...Thanks...
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by coolestofall(m): 3:41am On Jan 12
Nigga hold ur horses. U dnt have 2 become a player. What u did wrong in both relationships is that we're trying, trying 2 please. Never do that, only do what u feel like when u feel like. D key is 2 please ur self, then others r secondary. I bet u wld become more real when u do that.

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by vladhillz(m): 3:44am On Jan 12
try something new for a change..32? go hoe'ing' for a year,you really need it..it will help you get your sh*t together..that I can assure you..

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by x2x2(m): 3:45am On Jan 12
coolestofall:
Nigga hold ur horses. U dnt have 2 become a player. What u did wrong in both relationships is that we're trying, trying 2 please. Never do that, only do what u feel like when u feel like. D key is 2 please ur self, then others r secondary. I bet u wld become more real when u do that.
Thanks bro.My problem is that my hrt is to soft and I pity people a lot...and its not helping me..don't tink I can ever trust any woman again,except my mum...

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by x2x2(m): 3:46am On Jan 12
vladhillz:
try something new for a change..32? go hoe'ing' for a year,you really need it..it will help you get your sh*t together..that I can assure you..
Hoeing ? As in,explain better bro?
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by iClef: 3:51am On Jan 12
x2x2:
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Hmm! Nice story.
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by TheMainMan: 3:53am On Jan 12
don't go and become a player o... if you contact hiv now... who will you blame


Personally... i will advice you to hold on,work on yourself and learn from your mistakes and make sure you are ready bfr going into another relationship ... and if that one too doesn't work... don't blame yourself.

The woman meant for you is just around the corner...

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by x2x2(m): 4:03am On Jan 12
TheMainMan:
don't go and become a player o... if you contact hiv now... who will you blame


Personally... i will advice you to hold on,work on yourself and learn from your mistakes and make sure you are ready bfr going into another relationship ... and if that one too doesn't work... don't blame yourself.

The woman meant for you is just around the corner...
Tanks for ur words of advice.God bless..
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by coolestofall(m): 4:04am On Jan 12
x2x2:
Thanks bro.My problem is that my hrt is to soft and I pity people a lot...and its not helping me..don't tink I can ever trust any woman again,except my mum...
Leave dat one. Just b ur own man. Do things 4 u, n never 4 anyone else. U go dey alright.

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by x2x2(m): 4:06am On Jan 12
coolestofall:

Leave dat one. Just b ur own man. Do things 4 u, n never 4 anyone else. U go dey alright.
I don hear bro..God bless..
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Cholls(m): 4:10am On Jan 12
TheMainMan:


The woman meant for you is just around the corner...
my brother what do you mean by this...Can you explain more.
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by shege45: 5:08am On Jan 12
x2x2:
Good day fellow nairalanders..
Don't mind my English pls..
I'm a regular and active member of this section,but I needed to open another account to seek for help in my relationship.
I will clock 32 soon and i have only dated two girls all my life.Both we agreed to be serious relationship and not just chop and go kind of...The first relationship lasted 3yrs and after i investested my all,i caught her cheating and telling me lies,i ended it. Second one ended days ago and I'm currently hrt broken as i type this right now. Same issue i had with her was cheating and lies...
I did my best in pleasing them,in s+x,funding and all that..I forgave several times,but this last one still continued..She lies more than devil himself,it took me special procedures to known that she was cheating on me.
I can swear that in these two relationships,i never cheated on any of them,because I really don't like sleeping around and deceiving anybody..Rather i gave my all and now i have been scammed again.
So i have decided never to be nice to girls anymore,so how can i stop being too emotional? I don't wanna love again, I want to start being a player(a very wicked one). Guys in the hux how can i make my hrt become stone towards girls please....Pls don't insult or blame me...All i need is advice regarding my questions...Thanks...
get them plenty
That way u won’t be emotional attached to one

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Nobody: 5:11am On Jan 12
You dey please girls those insatiable creature like goat don't become bad guy oh but any relationship you want to go into now don't commit in whatever show the next girl real man
As in Become A New Leaf Change Yourself Totally

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Davash222(m): 5:30am On Jan 12
You want to become a player at 32 You are only doing yourself.. Girls no dey ever finish, na you go taya.


Dalukwa.

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by donbrowser(m): 5:43am On Jan 12
x2x2:
Thanks bro.My problem is that my hrt is to soft and I pity people a lot...and its not helping me..don't tink I can ever trust any woman again,except my mum...
If you have not gathered enough experience girls will continue to treat you like that. I was a victim. Your problem is that you made your gfs too relaxed without a reason to fight for their place. You don't need to cheat to do this but you need to give the next girl the feeling that she's not secured if she bleeps up

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by busyfingerzz: 5:53am On Jan 12
x2x2:
Thanks bro.My problem is that my hrt is to soft and I pity people a lot...and its not helping me..don't tink I can ever trust any woman again,except my mum...
It gets to this stage and it becomes hard to ever trust a woman. I'm also having trust issues with my current girl because she cheated once and I forgave her for being human but I still don't trust her completely. Most girls think cheating is thier birthright. Like something they are entitled to do. Just try to take your mind off it.. It can be hard tho but I know you'd put your shuts together and channel that energy into something else. It's funny how they always want more no matter what you do.

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by MichaelBukamzy(m): 5:53am On Jan 12
i was like you back then. these girls are all hoes mahn,you need to stop this your fidelity piece of sh#t. those biatches aint loyal so you got to stop given your precious heart to only one. gather them plenty and stop giving them the impression that you will get hurt when they leave you. treat them like the biatches they are cos they aint got sh#t to offer except their godamn puzzi.

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Paxie55(f): 6:07am On Jan 12
Okay.
Good luck in your molosho journey.
Don't come and ask us the symptoms of HIV grin grin
But then,
Did you consider why they are cheating? How's your sex life? Do you need divk enlargement? How long can you last? 2 secs man?
The fault may be from You, cos two ladies can't break your heart with the same reason and you still think it's not your fault. Work on yourself, are you potbellied?
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Randy100: 6:44am On Jan 12
At 32, na marriage you should be talking.

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by lovebishop(m): 7:21am On Jan 12
Every woman's relationship need: A sense of stability, security and monogamous commitment that is life-long, from her man. That is the ideal need of every woman (even a prostitute).
So, when a woman is in a relationship with you, and doesn't have this need met, she'll feel like a passenger aboard a ship cruising without a definite destination. If she sees another ship heading to her destination, she'll cry "Ahoy, ahoy!!!!".
So, I ask you bro: what is the destination point of your "relationships"? Because I no go tell you lie: once woman see say you no get destination, she go begin find "auxillary gear".
Money and time investments wen you don use take do "relationship", don reach you arrange 1 traditional marriage o! No vex o...But na how i see am be dat.
Wetin you dey relate for 3yrs, 5yrs, etc.? Time dey go o. Na when you clock 45, na im you want begin buy pampers?
Me feel say you dey waste time. If you see babe wen your spirit love and accept, no waste time; marry am... Chikena! No fear. After all, all women are 'basically' the same. Again, you no fit study woman finish. If you like date am for 30years before marriage; she go still exhibit some kain character wen you neva see before...After you marry am. Na love and patience, na im you go take manage am. Me wen dey talk; I meet and toast my wife for December 2013...Com marry am for August 2014. 8months coursthip. If to say I bin dey waste time 3years, 5years....She for don fashee me since; find anoda man wey ready to go where she dey go.

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Raalsalghul: 8:35am On Jan 12
Randy100:
At 32, na marriage you should be talking.
Says who?

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by czarina(f): 8:36am On Jan 12
Randy100:
At 32, na marriage you should be talking.
Because society says so abi?

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Randy100: 8:41am On Jan 12
Raalsalghul:
Says who?
czarina:
Because society says so abi?
Because it is the right thing. It is something divine.
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by czarina(f): 8:44am On Jan 12
Randy100:
Because it is the right thing. It is something divine.
You don't get it, do you? Who says he has to get married at 32?
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Randy100: 8:47am On Jan 12
czarina:
You don't get it, do you? Who says he has to get married at 32?
When should he get married? Is it when he starts using walking stick.

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by ranmoor: 8:56am On Jan 12
Paxie55:
Okay.
Good luck in your molosho journey.
Don't come and ask us the symptoms of HIV grin grin
But then,
Did you consider why they are cheating? How's your sex life? Do you need divk enlargement? How long can you last? 2 secs man?
The fault may be from You, cos two ladies can't break your heart with the same reason and you still think it's not your fault. Work on yourself, are you potbellied?

When guys cheat, they are dogs, heartless, evil bla bla bla. When ladies cheat , they deny deny deny, if denial is no longer possible, they throw it back to the guys shoulder; maybe he wasn't there for her, maybe he is not good in bed, a lot of maybes! They never for once own up for their greed! Someone cheats on him yet it is his fault! How about quitting before dating someone else?

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by jayextra(m): 9:00am On Jan 12
Paxie55:
Okay.
Good luck in your molosho journey.
Don't come and ask us the symptoms of HIV grin grin
But then,
Did you consider why they are cheating? How's your sex life? Do you need divk enlargement? How long can you last? 2 secs man?
The fault may be from You, cos two ladies can't break your heart with the same reason and you still think it's not your fault. Work on yourself, are you potbellied?

So its only sex iishs that can make u guys cheat...there are other reasons jawe...But wah do i knw.
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by czarina(f): 9:18am On Jan 12
Randy100:
When should he get married? Is it when he starts using walking stick.
Any time he wants. Even if he wants to wait until a walking stick becomes necessary.

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Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Paxie55(f): 9:20am On Jan 12
jayextra:
So its only sex iishs that can make u guys cheat...there are other reasons jawe...But wah do i knw.
Op should answer first.
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Tundexxy(m): 9:21am On Jan 12
Stop dating baby.....

Go for mature minds
Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Paxie55(f): 9:21am On Jan 12
ranmoor:

When guys cheat, they are dogs, heartless, evil bla bla bla. When ladies cheat , they deny deny deny, if denial is no longer possible, they throw it back to the guys shoulder; maybe he wasn't there for her, maybe he is not good in bed, a lot of maybes! They never for once own up for their greed! Someone cheats on him yet it is his fault! How about quitting before dating someone else?
I'm not here for gender juxtapositions, I asked a question that demands an answer.

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