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Thank you. There are four groups of people as far as this issue is concerned.

1. Those in the know and admit it if/when necessary.
2. Those who are ignorant of the true workings of life.
3. Those who are clueless.
4. The gatekeepers.

The gatekeepers understand that the world is spiritual and some of them are even perpetrators. But they'll want you to remain in the dark by keeping you out of the at gate to light (understanding/being in the know). Some of them will be on this thread and comment rubbish so they can gatekeep.

Some people try the logic of why would a parent who doesn't kill you at birth harm you. They've forgotten that humans rear chicks into chickens so they can feast on them during festive seasons. That's the closest analogy I can give.

Dtruthspeaker:
There is a reason why many are not speaking here which is because they understand where the op is coming from in that they have seen that some parents are unimaginably evil of such a degree as you have never seen.

E.g. you have not seen parents who wished their children dead right from their birth and if not for God they would been murdered by starvation and deprivation, the girls from childhood are almost always raped by their fathers and their mothers still defended their father blaming the child, on top of this, they still wanted to throw the child out. Such children never get anything they ask from their parents and they have no rights in their parents house and they are the ones who are made the slaves of the house doing everything in the house whilst the other children sleep and play and enjoy themselves.

And all these are the direct physical evils they do, so, you cannot relate with the thread.

buttlover:
Unforgettable experience

It's crazy brother. Now, please you'll have to distinguish between spiritual bondage and mental bondage. The reason is such experience usually mess up one to the point of being mentally conditioned to feel spiritually limited even long after the person has been free from their claws. So please take note of that. Peace and blessings be onto you!

Life is deep brother and I can relate with your story. I received a spiritual message from several people to be careful of a woman who wants us to be together. One of these individuals even asked me if I have ever promised to marry any lady, which I answered NO, and that's the truth.

Last last, I dreamt about a lady whom I met on campus one time and we started talking -- on a casual level.

We don't even see regularly like that. I never know say this lady wanted me for her self badly. In retrospect, I recalled she changed her group meeting location to that of my area so she could get closer to me. Similar to your own case, I never snack her or made out with her. Just casual acquittance and advice that I do give to her at the time.

In the dream, her mother and the lady herself came to my family house for marriage, but in the end, they had to leave disappointed. That was when I was freed from whatever the hold she had on herself, not me. She's married in real life now; she invited me but I didn't attend the occasion. I just sent her a token. Now, I don cut her off.

Mehn, this world is just so spiritual.

I assume you and your wife had to undergo some serious spiritual cleansing of some sort to get that revelation that she's set you and your wife free, so to speak. To be ruthless with this evil people spiritually is the way forward.

Peace and blessings be onto you!

excel2014:
I have registered my account with Nairaland since around 2014 and I never commented nor post anything .But I was attracted to the headline due to the experience I had with such many years ago and what it caused me.It might help anyone that care to read .

Way back in my secondary school days many girls simply wanted to come close to me .But I was the quiet and efiko type .I didn't bulge.But there was this particular girl,she found her way around me and sooner than later she got very close to me and she would tell me many personal stuff. To me she was just a friend ,but everyone started thinking we were befriending bexose of the closeness.But I kept it platonic.

After a while my flirty cousin that could sleep with anything in skirt came to live with us and he told me he would want to have the girl in question,I didn't oblige. I told the girl and she didn't say yes or No.But they started playing hide and seek with each other.

After those times the girl started seeing me lesser and lesser although she didn't give in to my cousin eventually.We finished from shoool and I lost contact wiith her since the advent of GSM era hasn't arrived then

Fast forward to 2023.I have been through a lot of challenges in my life and frustrated on many sides.My wife always have a dream where someone would always be telling her that she would suffer so much and that she would frustrate her life.She never saw the person's face .Untill last month when she came again but this time she mentioned her name and told my wife that she has let go .That she was the one that has been dealing with both of us.

So learn your lesson,this is my true life experience .Can you imagine I didn't even sleep with her .Buy she wanted me for herself alone.

Sharing good news before or after it's materialize is dangerous IF shared with the wrong people, family members inclusive. But how would you know them? They don't have marks on their foreheads, or walk around with billboards. Most times, they are your super religious people.

Yes, you're right about cutting such wicked people out of your life.

Now don't get me wrong, we still have some amazing family members - amazing moms, dads, and siblings. To anyone reading this, thank your stars if you're truly blessed with them.

However, we also have a lot of evil moms, dads, and siblings who roll with the devil. No one has the stats, so we can stick to the use of quantifiers such as some and a lot/many.

What's even crazy is that some people trust their fathers, mothers, and/or siblings so much without knowing that it's that same person/group they trusted with their life that's behind their affliction. Some will never know - they'll just blame their lot in life on the economy, the Nigerian factor, & the rest of it, and console themselves with Bible/Quran. But in actuality, na one or a coalition of member of their household who has held them down. For some, they'll realize later, later in life - it'll be too late. They would have lost their best years and days.

Did you know that opolopo lo je pe iya to bi won lo de baba won magolo ti ko fi jeeyan. Nipa bee, iya waa diran fun iya, baba, ati awon omo? oh my, oh my, oh my. Blacks why did you chose this lot?

My advice to everyone I like is for them to not lose guard IF they themselves are not part of these Oloribuu to n ja ile onile lati fi bo ti won leyin.

maasoap:
Ni ile aye, ile asan kan naa yii? Hehe!!
If you are living a life that you can't even trust anyone in your family (including your mother and father), I don't think you should even be relating with them anymore.
We're not talking about putting them in charge here, but to just share the good news

First, never assume what's the real motivation/issue/situation with a woman. They can be very complicated.

Here's one of my experiences:

There's this woman who we met under let's say a professional setting. She gave me "a link" on a subject matter on a live call. I appreciated the information, and I asked for her contact just in case I need help with the recommendation she gave. She dropped her phone number.

When we started talking, she told me that she appreciate the way I conducted myself during the meeting and would like to pick my brain on the subject matter. Weeks into our interaction, she revealed that getting more information about the subject matter was secondary to her primary reason of talking with me (the real issue) --- how she was affected by me during the call and subsequently-- soothing voice/ability to understand people/and more.

As times goes on, she brought up casual talk about man-woman relationship. When she figured that we don't align the way we view relationship, she starts to flake. Flake in terms of not sending a reminder when she's not available to have our regular conversation/session, which was just once a week.

As a sharp guy, I told her I'm not available to talk at the moment for a reason and I'll message her when I'm free to resume our sessions. Meanwhile, o it lor on my end, as I don't allow neither male nor female to waste my time.


Summary:
When I pieced all pieces of the puzzle together - then and now - I realized she was at first using me for attention/emotional support that which her boyfriend couldn't provide. With time, she thought we could possibly become a thing and stylishly brought up the relationship talk.

Lesson:
No two females are the same, and really humans. In your case OP, you might be a nice kind guy who is naturally tranquil, have listening ears, smart, easy to talk to, and the rest of it. So here are three possibilities.

First possibility. She might just be getting that emotional support she couldn't get from her husband. But the problem with such women is they tend to be vulnerable. With time and if you're a bad guy, you'll snack her. I don't recommend this as you'll just be taking advantage of her at her lowest.

Another possible situation here is that she has strong moral values and has put you in the friend/brother zone. So she'll never develop sexual attraction towards you but will be getting that free attention from you. You on the other hand might be catching feelings, not able to sleep at night, smiling as you try to decipher what's she's up to. Oh, oh, simp. And forget about her telling you about her sexual life. A girl acquittance once told me during a conversation that she hasn't bought new pants (underwear) that year............ I was like what the f.

The last but not the least possibility is she has or has developed sexual attraction for you and wants to f you.

Again, humans, especially women aren't that predictable and emotionally stable. They are more devious, conniving, and the rest of it. You've got to access the uniqueness of your own situation and move accordingly.

You dig?

Way to go!

Oloriibuu ni overwhelmly majority of we blacks. Trust me, she moved that way for a reason.

One of you in the family might carry a bad energy (if you know what I mean) which wouldn't allow her to start/complete the project. It might be you, your mother, or someone else in that family, or it might be for 'nother reasons.

The only thing I don't approve of is asking for money from you under false pretense. But I approve of acting broke - eni eleni ko fe kan ba toun je. Don't quote me if you don't understand how "evilicious" blacks have been since.... If you don't get it, forget about it.

Strong Warning: if you can't relate with this post, click or tap the ← button out of this thread. Don't comment nonsense or drop any line towards superstition.

As the topic states, how were you able to spiritually annihilate, meaning render powerless a wicked, evil, witch mother/father who was hell bent on destroying your progress in life? For those wo can relate with this topic through lived experience, you'll know that these people don't let go even if you run far away from them and cut them out of your life. They have this mentality that I gave birth to him/her and can "use" him/her the way I want. You have to crush them completely to live a successful life.

So how were you able to do it? Was there any special spiritual remedy/exercise you did to set yourself free? Did you do it yourself or seek help? How were you able to separate the liars from competent spiritualists?

Strong Warning: Again, if you don't believe in any of what I posted because you're clueless as to who some parents are on the inside, or you're one of them, trying to gatekeep, don't comment please. If you have amazing parents, hey congrats, but please know that the world does not revolve around you. There are lots of individuals out there with a parent/parents hell bent on ruining their lives using spirit means.

I'll be reading comments.