Politics › Re: Court Orders INEC To Register ADA Party, Issue Access Code Within 72 Hours by xtivin(m): 7:14am On Jun 30 |
This Lifu of a judge will soon order husband to sleep with his wife😂😂😂😂 |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Enzo Maresca Partly Responsible For Our Disappointing Form Last Season - Chelsea by xtivin(m): 3:11pm On Jun 29 |
Blame game for a mediocre Chelsea management. I hope they have signed two more backup coaches |
Politics › Re: ODD NEWS: Court Reverses Its Previous Order On NDC Registration by xtivin(m): 7:05pm On Jun 27 |
Now how can you sue a judge? |
Politics › Re: To Answer Interview Questions, He Could Not – Daniel Bwala Mocks Peter Obi by xtivin(m): 7:52pm On Jun 17 |
Daniel Bwala of all people 😂😂😂😂 |
Politics › Re: Natasha Suspension Forgery Allegation: Senate To Review Oshiomhole’s Comments by xtivin(m): 6:08pm On Jun 16 |
There is an internal plot by aggrieved senators to send akpabio packing and it seems there is now a clue to who is leading the frontline |
Politics › Re: El-Rufai Arrives In Court For Corruption Trial by xtivin(m): 1:16pm On Jun 15 |
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Celebrities › Re: Pay My Salary! – Lady Calls Out Nollywood Actress Funmi Awelewa (Video) by xtivin(m): 5:37am On Jun 13 |
If she must fire her after contract is terminated before 30 days doesn’t mean the poor girl doesn’t deserve a pay for the 16 days she worked? According to her the injury she had was at her work place she demanded money for treatment from her salary. If this is true some people should understand something before comments |
Politics › Re: Lagos APC Chairman, Cornelius Ojelabi Physically Attacked By Protesters (Video) by xtivin(m): 5:12am On Jun 12 |
They got the wrong person. Does this one look like who fit take decision? Make Una go meet the right person for Abuja |
Politics › Re: N210tn Probe: Senate Disowns Kyari Arrest Warrant, Rebukes Oshiomhole by xtivin(m): 4:21pm On Jun 11 |
brain54: It appears oshiomole is just in that place to be causing trouble... Nope,he is trying to say something and the don’t want him to continue. He is being threatened at this point |
Politics › Re: N210tn Probe: Senate Disowns Kyari Arrest Warrant, Rebukes Oshiomhole by xtivin(m): 4:20pm On Jun 11 |
[quote author=brain54 post=139685364]It appears oshiomole is just in that place to be causing trouble...
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Politics › Re: Samuel Apata: Tinubu, You Are My Only Hope –Lagos Lawmaker Appeals Over Ticket by xtivin(m): 4:06pm On Jun 10 |
Baba sope politics welcome to 1989 |
Politics › Re: South East Development Commision Rents 1 Room In Abuja For ₦153 Million by xtivin(m): 8:51am On Jun 10 |
All this stuff is just for their own cut |
Education › Re: My Take On Parents Confronting Their Kid's Teachers As A Former Teacher by xtivin(m): 1:18am On Jun 08 |
Host78: Parents can be dramatic at times as we have seen in this recent video of the woman confronting her kids teacher.
Most of these kids can come home and narrate issues not as they were but as they feel it is.
I used feelings. Kids can easily feel things differently and exaggerate unnecessarily.
I used to teacher a primary school class with 11 kids in total.
Primary 5 then.
When I started, I was preparing them for common entrance exam immediately but I had a problem: most of the kids could not read properly.
Like 5 of them could not read a whole line in their textbooks without looking up to me for help.
Now these are kids going to jss 1 the next year. We all know in jss 1, you're expected to know how to read at least from my secondary school experience.
But there was one in particular that could not read at all.
I had to confront their previous teacher from primary 4 because I found it very sad that they will keep promoting these kids like that.
But she explained that the kids won't do their homework, she can't discipline them because they don't want to loose their kids to other schools (the proprietors instructions).
But I was determined to make sure these kids can read before they leave the school.
It's not small work o. I introduced them to Ugo c. Ugo.
Everyday, they are solving 50 maths questions as assignments. I remember the very first one, none got up to 5.
I punished them myself. Not harsh but since they were not used to any punishment, it was for them.
I made sure they crammed multiplication table from 2x1 up to 15x15.
For the reading, I reduced their break time to less than 15 minutes.
Most of them became better readers but this girl continued struggling. Not improving.
Then I started forcing her to attend my extra lessons. All the others attend after school but she's the only one not attending.
She said her parents don't have money (in the real sense she never informed them about it).
Anyways, I said OK. But she must attend the lesson. So even without pay, I still made her stay for the lesson.
I focused on her reading and maths (you always have to get this foundation right. Aside maths and English.. Reading, everything else from primary school is almost useless).
So we spent extra 2 hours drilling maths and English together.
Into their second term, I saw dramatic changes in their work.
But something happened one day. I gave them their usual 50 questions assignment and she looked at me straight in the eyes and said she would not do it.
I told her if you don't do it, don't even bother coming to school because I'll flog nonsense from your body.
She then said she'll report me to her mother. I told her to try it first.
The next day she came to school and truly she didn't do it.
After marking everything, I flogged shege from her body that day.
The next day, the mother was already shouting from the road leading to school dragging her daughter along shouting and speaking yoruba angrily.
I didn't get a word because I don't understand yoruba.
So I ask her to speak with the cleaner and interpret to me.
She spoke that so I want to kill her daughter. So you single my child out because you don't like her and all manner of stuff.
I could have gotten angry but I didn't. I explained everything to her.
Then I asked the girl to bring her books same as her classmates. They all brought their books.
And proudly I showed her everything. The weekly increases in their scoring from each assignment.
They all read a full passage from their textbook in front of her. You need to see her happy that day.
She apologized and asked me to calculate my lesson fee she's owing but I never did.
I later gained admission into the university. At that time, one of the mother of the boys in my class came and was saying when she took her son to one Ansarudeen lesson, the teachers were really happy because he could solve questions faster and in different methods than all the other kids (he was average in my class then).
But I never stayed to see all of them get into secondary school though.
I remember back then because of the dramatic change in their performance, the proprietor for the first time had to enroll them in an all primary quiz.
This was the first ever time she had tried it because according to her she didn't want to go and disgrace her school in such competition.
Although we didn't qualify but I strongly believe if the foundations had been right and they had been more strict, we would have done better.
Little discipline goes a long way in shaping kids. Kids don't know their left from their right, yet they can be very stubborn in their ways.
As you are entrusting them to teachers, learn to trust their judgments. But more importantly, if there's an issue, don't go fighting.
Teachers can easily neglect your child and watch her self destruct in that school, not only physically but academically.
Instead, go to them to reason with them. Find out the issue. Communicate your feelings and make them understand you and you too try to understand them.
No teacher, well, maybe some and very few at that will ever single your child with the aim of maltreating them.
Even some, will have their best interests at heart while punishing them severely but don't know that they are crossing your personal line.
Communicate this to them peacefully. Don't even let your child to be in the same room while this is going on.
My one piece Teacher flog my son that I am aware is stubborn and cane mark show in his body, his siblings pick it up and was trying to incite me to act I never did instead I told him it's good for him because am aware the boy is stubborn. The moment this kids don't fear their teachers it's difficult for learning to take place except the ones with good home training. Most of this kids spend most of their days at home so parents should be the primary teachers especially in developing morals. Back in our days we got flogged even in cruel manners because it's the only language some of us can understand then but the world has evolved and has termed it barbaric then we have to deal with the consequences. Most of these mothers are the one responsible for this bad morals from this kids and are fast to pass little faults to teachers. It is well. Btw, my comment is just on this post because it's unacceptable to cut a child's hair without consent even if the schools have rules involve the authorities to take it up with the parent. |
Politics › Re: Atiku’s Aide, Paul Ibe, Seeks Igboho’s Probe Over Kidnappers’ Sponsors Claim by xtivin(m): 9:44am On Jun 05 |
Lovit: The DSS knows those sponsoring banditry and terrorism in Nigeria
The problem is Tinubu. He doesn't have the balls to get them arrested and prosecuted
We thought GEJ was weak, but Tinubu was even weaker
SMH Tinubu will know and keep quiet with all the heat from US and Nigerians  People need to be responsible in commenting on issues of National Security |
Education › Re: Mother Storms School After Teacher Cut Her Son's Hair by xtivin(m): 6:23am On Jun 05 |
APOPTOSIS: Mentioning "only Child" not necessary at all. You are empowering that male child for destruction. He will grow to attack you someday since you would never correct him. Inquire to know why such was done, meanwhile Politely collect his HAIR from the said Teacher really? This dangerous world we live in? If e reach ur turn no talk. Children are very sensitive, I can only imagine what the mother could be thinking probably for rituals or what? That’s absurd |
Politics › Re: THE DEFECTION TRAP: Why Some Candidacies May Face Legal Challenges by xtivin(m): 6:42am On Jun 04 |
No law can go against the basic law of freedom of association irrespective of how technically sound your argument can be |
Politics › Re: Makinde’s Govt Orchestrated Oyo Abduction To Blackmail Tinubu – Fayose Alleges by xtivin(m): 10:05am On Jun 02 |
He should be invited for questioning if the DSS don’t want to be partisan |
Politics › Re: Electoral Act Amendment Bill: NASS To Reconvene Over E-transmission Of Results by xtivin(m): 11:45am On May 31 |
They have been dribbled….I see trouble for Akpabio soon |
Politics › Re: Sunday Igboho Creates 'Iru Ekun Security Network', Awaits FG's Approval by xtivin(m): 6:11pm On May 25 |
Was the Governor involved?
Else this is an invitation to anarchy |
Career › Re: Less Than 6month After My 1st Million I Am About To Make The Second One. by xtivin(m): 3:06pm On May 21 |
Omoh there is poverty in the land…how can anyone celebrate making about $700? God abeg o |
Romance › Re: If Any Man Keeps Malice With Me For 3 Days, I’ll Sleep With Another Man- Lady by xtivin(m): 3:04pm On May 17 |
Her saggy boobs says everything about her personality |
Politics › Re: INEC: All 22 Parties Successfully Submitted Membership Registers by xtivin(m): 10:26am On May 16 |
Kanwulia: We have to see the list o. We don’t wanno hia stories. No need now,except you are looking for double registration else party membership does not determine voting pattern. I can be PDP for instance and vote APC |
Celebrities › Re: Isaac Fayose's Wife Dies Of Cancer by xtivin(m): 10:23am On May 16 |
The rich also cry…. RIP to her and condolences my brother… |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Storms Ex-girlfriend's House After Breakup, Retrieves Unusual Items by xtivin(m): 6:56pm On May 15 |
Omoh😂😂😂 I did exactly this yesterday 😀 |
Romance › Re: 3 Types Of Women You Should Never Marry by xtivin(m): 9:20pm On May 13 |
Darkandhandsom: There are good single mothers and i don't mind marrying one. tbh single mothers are the most reliable girls to date right now coz experience have taught most of them lesson i strongly disagree with number 2 |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Bournemouth Suspend Player, Alex Jimenez Over Inappropriate Chats With Minor by xtivin(m): 12:32pm On May 09 |
No crime committed he will be cleared….The victim does not exist in law from this conversation, since you have to be 18+ to open an account. But if eventually he is cleared it’s absurd for him to have pushed on after she tell him she was 15.😁 |
Politics › Re: “You’re Presiding Without Appropriate Qualification” — Oshiomhole by xtivin(m): 7:03am On May 08 |
Lanretoye: what is wrong with the electoral act ?…or the electoral act of obedient is different from that of other parties,someone will just carry one propaganda in your WhatsApp group and the rest of you will start chanting even without thinking Electoral acts that allow accepting of any ballot paper 😁😁😁😁 Electoral act that protects a Presiding Officer if he/she rigs 😁😁 No worry e go reach everybody just chill |
Politics › Re: “You’re Presiding Without Appropriate Qualification” — Oshiomhole by xtivin(m): 4:45am On May 08 |
Oshiomole should have remained an activist…..honestly the activism still in his blood he should have use this same energy for the electoral act 😁😁😁 |
Health › Re: Edo State Begins Evacuation Of Mentally Unstable Persons From Benin City Streets by xtivin(m): 6:33am On May 07 |
Shey no be for ritual?,na their time be this o😒
This one dem use fine car carry them😏🤔 |
Pets › Re: A Stray Cat Gave Birth In Our House by xtivin(m): 4:32pm On May 05 |
Mariangeles: I don't like cats, but this one is cute I won't even lie. I want to keep her. With her lovely eyes.😍
Only on one condition though...that it doesn't grow.🙄 lol….very strange creature how you take know male and female ?….Beware na hardened criminals you carry so,see as living things begin Dey miss for ur house without trace. Let’s start from chicks 😁😁😁 |
Politics › Re: I’m A Freelance Politician Now - Bala Mohammed Tells Obi (Video) by xtivin(m): 12:04pm On Apr 24 |
Bala is only afraid of EFCC waiting for him after office |
Health › Re: What Is The Cause Of Saggy Breast Amongst Young Ladies Yet To Give Birth? by xtivin(m): 12:48am On Apr 16 |
Gross abortion only!!! |