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andromida:
Awwww. Its over take heart and be patient with yourself as you forget her meanwhile you need to grow your confidence and find your voice. A woman you are serious with blatantly cheats on you and you were begging her to take you back what were you thinking? She was tired of you why and how can you want someone who does not want you? Please get in touch with your anger you need it.

The truth even though you can't see it now is that this is good riddance you will find a better match in the future. Someone who truly likes you.

Olami90:
Hmmm....
Op, u av gud advices up there. I was in dat situation too till som wiks back wen I lifted my foot off d pedal buh my gal's own is like som steps above ur ex. I $ u av finz in common.JnrBayano said a lot nd I so much love all he said. It was a well thought out decision. She must av looked for stronger excuses to hold on to buh dint get bfor she cam up wit u bin stubborn nd telling pple all dat. I do tak finz to my gals face buh she uses strong-headed ness, ogboju to manoeuvre situations. I am alwys d one to calm her $ d situation. She is d extremely stubborn type, neva admit her wrong doings, alwys right, knws too much, boss lady, thinks abt herself alone, pride etc. U can imagine her telling me she wld leave if she get som1 better afta she attempted to quit once nd I calmed her. Dis gals are oliver twist. How else can one b loving, caring $ loyal to a lady a gav all nd d best of me to I had to talk senses to mysef frm pple's experiences here nd other places afta I discovered there is more to life. Dunno wanna settle wit a lady doing all dat wit no hope of change.
Op, we can only hide our true self buh d real us still lives in us.Most ladies nowadays aint worth going to high-heavens/places for. I av only decided to b resolute.

Op, there is no place dat it is written dat u av to reap from where u av sown.There are tyms u deposit into pple's life nd b rewarded by somone else.Channel ur strength to somfin more productive. U just av to bliv in wot u are made of nd find a strong ground. B d better person, there are million ladies out there $ u will definitely meet d best person out of d few available good ladies(wit good brain).

Raymondenyi:
Hahaha hahaha, no way Ooh!!! Boiz funny sha, acting Nollywood and telemundo scripts, it's funny.... when will you all understand there is nothing like love, it's only a lustful illusion , my brother , I have better movies for you to watch , better activities to carry out and live up life to the fullest, I just hope u didn't spend u r life on that girl.

U happen to be my kind of person, calm , not violent , easy going, but women are very incomprehensible, they just want what they don't know, perhaps she sees u like too calm for her , not a little outgoing , and a little bad (like trying weird things, partying n all)... that's ladies for you. But believe me she's not for you.

I know there might be somethings you like about her, her physique n some attributes... but trust me , those things are very much in many other people out there.... just get engaged in more important adventures, n u want regret itg

FLAWLES:
Wow this is so heart breaking,,,,,,,,The saying still goes as =YOU DON'T KNOW WAT YOU HAVE TILL YOU LOSE IT...op i won't advise you to run after her again(cuz u ve tried ur best)let her be,cuz if she has bin cheating on u WEN u guys r still dating means she ll do more wen u marry her tomorrow(its so plane shez a cheat/a cheap one)even if she loves you,shez not d type that can be faithful,let her be.............and if d future s for you both"she ll surly come bk" SIMPLE

hidee20:
hmmmm,dis life is full of...............

op,first you have to believe in yourself that you deserve more than her(a betrayer) then you can start your journey to recovery.I propose you get yourself busy with work and mingle with people a lot(don't isolate yourself as this will always bring back old memories) and trust me you will gradually forget about her.

To all those saying leave and forget about her,it is easy to say when you aren't the victim.five years no be child's play.....

Datazone:
@xtreme007; Your problem from the onset is that you never take things serious judging from your post. I'm not a pro in giving advice but I came across a Video on YouTube and ladies were being interviewed on how many boyfriends they usually have they all said 3-4. Your second problem is putting trust and whole on her and now you're there weak like a sick old man. Let Pros give the advice and heed to them. Good luck in your "wife-hunt"

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