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Hello there. I really need your advice. I understand that there are a lot of experienced persons on this topic here.
I will be 23this yr. Before I went for service Aug 5 2014, I saw this girl in church, I don't believe in love at first sight, but there was a way I felt when I saw her. And I sensed she was looking at me, cos she quickly took her eyes off when I looked in her direction. To be brief, she got my number from a Friend and called. We got to know ourselves , but I am this shy type. From her actions, she likes me. when I asked her out she told me she has a boyfriend, but all her actions indicate otherwise.
I met another girl again who I like, she would come to my place, lie on my body and come so close. I finally asked her out. At first she said she was dating, later she told me that "you just believed what I told you the other time". I asked her out again she told me she wasn't ready yet. my friends pressured me to ask her again only for her to tell me she was dating. what am I getting wrong. If I stop calling and chatting them, it would seem we're quarrelling. I am confused

Honestly, in my opinion, I "think" the reason you have been meeting many men who are "offside" is maybe because God is giving you an opportunity to get to know one drunkard, smoker.....the one who only you can change, someone who you can bring "onside". Stick to someone you can change not someone who you think is already made in terms of behaviour