₦airaland Forum

thorpido:
The die is cast.You know who he is now so stop playing dumb.
Confront him with your facts and let him know the relationship is over.Ask him straight-up how he would payback your money and when.
You may have to count that money as a loss.You may not get it back(or get it back soon).
Young ladies need to use their heads more.You can help a boyfriend but you no be him mama.

if you are in a very tight fix and need such money and your gf has such money and refuses to help u wit it wld u be happy with her?

please fellow nairalanders, i am in a chaos state and i need useful advice. i have been dating this guy for close to a year now and we are talking about settling down. we love each other and we go extra miles for each other. i just found out that he has children with two different women one of them which recently gave birth 3 months back meaning she was pregnant when we were dating. now he doesn't know am aware of this yet and i havnt asked him yet. one day, i intercepted a message a man sent him a message on whatsapp asking why he has abandoned the sister and new baby (boy) not asking how they are feeding that God will pay him. i asked him what the man was talking about, he said he doesnt know what the man is talking about but admitted knowing the man that he is a long time ex-gf's brother. i knew he has lied cause being that i had done my background check on the lady that has a new baby, the sender of the message was her brother. i kept quite and didnt react. my problem now is, i lent my fiancée 200k which wasnt my own to do smtin that will help him and he promised to pay back. if the money was mine, i would have walked out of the r/ship and count it as my lose. i don't want to go paying such debt on my own. i know if i bring up the children issue now, my chances of getting back the money would be lost. i have been playing dumb for 3months now and am tired what do i do?

please endeavour to tell ur hubby to be on time. why are you guys being too mean? so far as u straff your gf she has done an abortion twice or more wit or witot ur knwledge. so guys except u marry a virgin, u all stand a risk of marrying smone who has done an abortion before.

Elslim:
Impossibility does not exist in Nigeria... so Oga park well jhoor

thank u for sayn dt