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Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

I read your first episode

Firstly, I salute your courage to have confessed your sins to your husband

Secondly, he's hurt right now & its either he accept your pleas or divorce you completely

Men dislike to be cheated, and to be sincere we are hot tempered than women when it comes to cheating.

Personally, I will call it quit with a cheating wife.

Suicide is not an option at all, accept your fate if eventually your husband divorce you completely but don't let that happens again should you remarry. Cheating is an habit that's difficult to curb, believe me if you hubby should forgive you easily you will definitely go back to you vomit with the mindset of 'I won't do it again after this time'.

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SmartMugu:
Tonto ke? That one will get to China and start fighting everyone whose name starts with Ch... Forgetting that even China starts with Ch.. Abeg free her o.

You want Seun Osewa to ban you abi? how you go dey insult his crush abi fanta anyhow like dis?

SOFTENGR:
Especially an incumbent owing 38 months salary.

honestly

yarimo:
Mtewww this cow again

I am not a fan of any Nigerian politician but anybody who praises incumbent governor of Kogi state needs his head checked

selfmadeOLX:
Hello everyone! I come in search of answers

I have an uncle who works in Dubai as a medical doctor for some years now.
He has now given me an opportunity to come over there to explore and find opportunities. Accommodation and Feeding not a problem.

The thing is I'm not a job kind of person as most of what I've seen here are job hunting. I'm more of an industrial person. I take advantage by solving problems associated with where I find myself, and create a business through it.

I'm hoping that you guys already there could advise me accordingly.

I'd like to leave later in the year. Thanks!

You wan run go?

Seriously, loads of opportunity awaits you if you open ya eyes very well bro but I trust you

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One of the reason I left Lagos 13years ago

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