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When you're growing up,from an early age you become conditioned to see yourself as not responsible for your life. This is normal and natural. When you are a child, your parent are in charge. They make all your decisions ;food, clothes, toys, outing, school etc. Because you are young, innocent and unknowing, you do what they want you to do. You have little choice or control. As you grow up, however, you begin to make more and more of your own decisions in each of these areas. But because of your early programming, you are conditioned unconsciously to feel that someone else is still responsible for your life, that there is still someone else out there who can or should take care of you. Most people grow up to believe that if something goes wrong, someone else is responsible. Someone else is the villain and they are the victim. As a result, most people make more and more excuse for the things in lives, past and present, that makes them unhappy.
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My gf just ditched me recently and It feels bad. I feel shattered like my heath is been ripped out.

Girls no good oh.

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What comes out of you when situations of life and the challenges of your endeavors squeezes you?

You only brings out what is inside of you. It doesn't matter what or who does the squeezing. If you are challenged or pressurised in your work, what comes out of you is what is inside you. And what is inside you is your choice... And your choice has direct impact on your results.

When you allow anger, bitterness, frustration, fear and hatred to come out of you, you present yourself with disappointing results. On the other hand, when you let out boldness, courage, wisdom and inspiration even when challenges abound, you open yourself to great success....What would you like to be defined with in the course of your work and life? Make a wise choice today!



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What comes out of you when situations of life and the challenges of your endeavors squeezes you?

You only brings out what is inside of you. It doesn't matter what or who does the squeezing. If you are challenged or pressurised in your work, what comes out of you is what is inside you. And what is inside you is your choice... And your choice has direct impact on your results.

When you allow anger, bitterness, frustration, fear and hatred to come out of you, you present yourself with disappointing results. On the other hand, when you let out boldness, courage, wisdom and inspiration even when challenges abound, you open yourself to great success....What would you like to be defined with in the course of your work and life? Make a wise choice today!




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We all feel the need to get more organized. No
matter how organized you can be used will still
feel you can improve. Mostly organized people feel
they are not organized.
The best time to organize your day is to start a
night before. The thought you invest in planning
your day before you begin,the more important
things you will do and faster u will get them done
once you get started. This principle can all work
together or separately. It all depends on you to
apply them which ever way it suits you. This are
the principles below :

1. Make a list: Make a list of all you want to do,
where you want to go and everything you think
you will do or attend to. It could be a book you like to read, a n event you want to attend,e.t.c. Make this list of everything you have to do for the coming day.

2. Think on paper : Always think on paper. This
simply means writing down everything you need to do on paper. Many a times when we intend to do something and we forget because it is not written. When you write things down you cement it, it becomes a tangible idea, we give it life so if you go through your writing you get information on all you have to do.

3. Set priorities : out of all the list of things you
wrote down, now look at them and ask yourself
this question. Which one, out of the tasks or items, when done well, give you satisfaction or
fulfillment. Mark that task or item on your list. Ask yourself that question 3 more time and note the answer in your list. These are your priorities.

4. Set prosperity : When you set priorities, you also set prosperities. Other tasks or items on our list which are not starred or marked are your
prosperities which you can either cancel totally or delegate them to other people.

5. Use the ABCDE method : Make a list of
everything you have to do, then place the alphabet next to each items on the list before you begin the first task.
A item - This is the "very important item, a must do" for you. If more than one, put numbers in front according to their importance e.g A1, A2.
B item - This is "should do" task, they come after you have finished your A items.
C item - This is "nice to do" task.
D item - This is a task you can "delegate".
E item - This is you can totally eliminate.

6. Always work from a list : When something new comes up add it to the list before doing it. There are so many external influence that will want to stop you from going through with your list. When anything new comes up, add it to the list, ponder upon it and give it the level of importance it deserves.

7. Motivates yourself to action : You have to
overcome inertia in our life. Don't wait for anybody to come and motivate you because you may wait forever. So motivate yourself to take action on your most important item on your list and keep at it until it's completely done.


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Good day everyone, It's a new week! Some of us do pray for a longer night especially when faced with the expectations of going out to do what we are not passionate about...This mindset alone already set the tone of negativity in our work. We are most times not able to handle the challenges and setbacks due to the lack of drive we woke up with... It's true some of us are in places we are not happy and comfortable with. But carrying on with such attitude won't make us better in anyway. You are expected to bring in good results. And the only way you can actually produce great results is to love what you do... It might not be the best as regards your qualifications or experiences. No matter what your job may be - boss or employee; plant manager or factory worker; doctor or nurse; lawyer or secretary ; teacher or student ;housewife or maid - you owe it to yourself to find satisfaction in your job as long as you have it. Satisfaction is a mental attitude. Your own mental attitude is the only thing you possess over which you alone have complete control. You can determine to find satisfaction in your job and discover the way to do it. But the ultimate question is: Are you doing something? If yes, then love what you do!

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1. Your parents are basically demi-gods. It doesn’t matter if you learned that the sky is blue. If your parents say the sky is orange, the sky is in fact, orange. At least, in their presence.
2. Your parents will seldom ever admit they are wrong. And if and when they do, you will be too stunned to even believe it.
3. Your grandparents are the only people who can put your parents in their place. (And you will enjoy those moments.)
4. Your house is a free for all. At some point a relative, twice-removed, will be invited to stay for an extended-period of time.
5. You will likely be raised the old-fashioned way -“you spare the rod, you spoil the child” kind of old-fashioned way. In your adulthood, you’ll largely be grateful for it and you’ll always be able to tell the difference between people who were raised the same way and people who were not.
6. God help you if you’re living under your parent’s roof and you yell at them, slam a door in anger, and/or curse in their presence. Yeh!!, God help you.
7. The youngest child will be blamed for everything….until he or she is able to talk.
8. The oldest child will be blamed for everything that the younger children do.
9. If you cry while being accused of something, it is crocodile tear and assumed that you are guilty.
10. Your parents will call you from upstairs, downstairs, outside, etc., to hand them something that is literally 10 centimeters away from them.
11. You will not leave your parents’ home without learning how to cook.
12. Religious attendance and practice is not an option.
13. Everyone who is older than you is your “auntie” or “uncle.” Calling them by their first name is basically a crime against humanity.
14. You will probably never meet all of your extended family because there are just so many of them.
15. This one specifically applies to most Nigerians, Doing well in school is not an option and by doing well, parents have expectations that you will be the best at everything. Example: If you get a 98%, they might ask, “What happened to the other 2%?” If you get a B, your parents will likely ask, “The person who got an A, do they have three heads?” Just do well in school.
16. Your friends better greet your parents first when they see them or that friendship is pretty much over. RESPECT is HUGE.
17. Sleepovers at friends’ houses are mythical tales or basically only happen when your parents have known the family’s family since the beginning of time.
18. Another mythical tale – being in a serious relationship with anyone when you’re in your teens. And until your parents believe you are of, “courtship age,” they will refer to anyone you are dating as, “your friend.”
19. You will still be expected to have a traditional engagement/marriage regardless of where the person you’re marrying is from. (Have fun explaining the details of that to all your significant others!)
20. Your parents will talk to you in a lot of proverbs and metaphors. For example, when I was 12, I spent half a day trying to figure out what my dad meant when he said, “When I talk to you and advise you, do I talk with water in my mouth?” I eventually got it.
21. You will have maybe 3 conversations about sex with your parents – one when puberty starts to take its course, the second one when you start secondary school Biology, and the third one when you are about to leave home. The will all surprisingly sound like the Mean Girl’s quote, “Don’t have sex because you will get pregnant and die!” followed by “Do not bring shame to this family!” Got it parents, I can’t start dating until I’m married and I can’t have sex until after I’ve had children.
22. Your siblings will be the first people to bully the crap out of you. Later on, you’ll realize that they were preparing you for a big bad world out there.
23. If your entire full name is being called, and your native language is also being spoken, the day shall not pass without tears.
24. Drinks in the fridge? Either your parents were in a REALLY good mood or there are visitors coming over.
25. Surprisingly, alcohol is a hit or miss with African parents. It depends on the set that you get. My dad and mum doesn’t (at all). so where did you get your own from?
26. You won’t realize how incredibly hilarious and somewhat bizarre your upbringing was until you reach adulthood. And you’ll burst out into tears of laughter when you’re sitting next to an African woman who is telling her child who probably just got a B, “So the person who got an A, do they have three heads?” Hang in there kid, they secretly boast that they have the best children ever, just not to your face.
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Stress is a normal psychological and physical reaction to the ever-increasing demands of life. In looking at the causes of stress, remember that your brain comes hard-wired with an alarm system for your protection. When your brain perceives a threat, it signals your body to release a burst of hormones to fuel your capacity for a response. This has been labeled the "fight-or-flight" response.
Once the threat is gone, your body is meant to return to a normal relaxed state. Unfortunately, the nonstop stress of modern life means that your alarm system rarely shuts off. That's why stress management is so important. Stress management gives you a range of tools to reset your alarm system. You may feel there’s nothing you can do about stress. The bills won’t stop coming, there will never be more hours in the day, and your work and family responsibilities will always be demanding. But you have more control over stress than you might think.
Stress management is all about taking charge: of your lifestyle, thoughts, emotions, and the way you deal with problems. No matter how stressful your life seems, there are steps you can take to relieve the pressure and regain control.
HOW DO YOU CURRENTLY COPE WITH STRESS?
• Unhealthy ways of coping with stress: These coping strategies may temporarily reduce stress, but they cause more damage in the long run:
▪ Smoking
▪ Drinking too much
▪ Binging on junk or comfort food
▪ Spending hours in front of the TV or computer
▪ Withdrawing from friends, family,
▪ Using pills or drugs to relax
▪ Sleeping too much
▪ Procrastinating
▪ Filling up every minute of the day to avoid facing problems
▪ Taking out your stress on others (lashing out, angry outbursts, physical violence)
STRESS MANAGEMENT STRATEGY.
1. Physical activity plays a key role in reducing and preventing the effects of stress, but you don't have to be an athlete or spend hours in a gym to experience the benefits. Just about any form of physical activity can help relieve stress and burn away anger, tension, and frustration. The first step is to get yourself up and moving. Here are a few easy ways:



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excuse me DEGREE2466, I don't steal people work. I commend everybody's effort for writing a post and if I am going yo use it I acknowledge the writer. I posted this long ago on my FB page, all I did is copy and paste when I started my mobile site...I won't drop my FB link for privacy.

DEGREE2466:
like seriously, you just copied my work to your blog verbatim without permission and you still had the gut to copy it and past it here again and moderators as usual brought it to front page.
I don't blame you, I blame the nation Nigeria for having no serious law protecting people's work against plagiarism.
here is the link to my original work
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excuse me DEGREE2466, I don't steal people work. I commend everybody's effort for writing a post and if I am going yo use it I acknowledge the writer. I posted this long ago on my FB page, all I did is copy and paste when I started my mobile site...I won't drop my FB link for privacy.

Do not scratch your itchy bum in public– No matter how tempted you are to scratch your bum, know that it looks really embarrassing and people will laugh at you if they catch you. So irrespective of how sweet the sensation might be, save yourself the embarrassment and scratch privately.
Do not pick your nose– Once met someone who said picking his nose made him relax but dear the truth is no matter how relaxing that could be, the embarrassment is twice.
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I will put your post on the site with other good ones as part 2

The following are the different categories of people you will meet in
night classes in our various higher institution.
1. Customer care agents:
This category of people will keep on receiving calls from the time they came to class till they sleep off. If you sit beside them "sorry" and it is more among ladies.
2. The lookers:
This category of people will make sure that they look at any slightest movement around them. If they ever see a beautiful/handsome girl/guy then they will never cease catching a glimpse at her/him. You will even wonder if these people actually came to study or to observe others study.
3. The late comers:
This is common among girls. When you get to class from 6-9pm, you will discover that the class is almost empty. They are waiting till 11:30 when their presence will be noticed.
4. The preachers:
I am sure this set of people annoy every reader in that class but nobody could pick the courage to talk to them because nobody wants to be tagged enemy of God's word. The worst part is that these preachers come to preach when they are tired of reading and want to stretch themselves.
5. The itinerant readers:
They are people who move in and out of the reading room every ten minutes. Sometimes you see them walking about the corridors. In an extreme cases they can read in four to six different classes in a night.
6. The unarmed robbers:
Yes I call them unarmed because they look very innocent when they are reading beside you waiting for the operation time. They steal things like phones, reading lamp, purse/wallet, laptops, wrist-watches, textbooks etc depending on the person's level of expertise and stealing intentions.
7. The chronic sleepers.
Hmmmmm, this set of people will just enter the class and lay their face on the desk and sleep off. They will not open their book from the time they came in till the time they will leave. They are always victims of the category of people above. The bad thing about these set of people is that they snore without regards and they fart without conscience.
8. The ash-crammers:
They are our first classers, they will start reading from the time they came in till dawn. Sometimes i wonder what they will be doing during
the day.
9. The eaters:
They will buy biscuit, viju
milk, lacasera, gala, chewing gum, in fact all the snacks in the world just to attend night class. You will wonder if you are in nursery class or university
night class.
10. The pingers:
This set of people will never let their phones be. Some will even come with up to three phone. Pressing their phone every now and then that you will wonder if they are actually studying or proof-reading.
11. The single and searchers :
If i mention everything without mentioning our guys and babes who come to night class to look for partners then my list is incomplete. This is for people who are single and searching every night.
12. The last of it all is the couples:
They will come to class together, continue talking, chatting and touching each other until they are tired then off they go. They have gone to night class noni.
13. The analyst:
This category of people are always looking for someone to argue with. Every topic is potentially arguably. They always want to make there point. this are the Gani Fawehinmi's.

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The following are the different categories of people you will meet in
night classes in our various higher institution.
1. Customer care agents:
This category of people will keep on receiving calls from the time they came to class till they sleep off. If you sit beside them "sorry" and it is more among ladies.
2. The lookers:
This category of people will make sure that they look at any slightest movement around them. If they ever see a beautiful/handsome girl/guy then they will never cease catching a glimpse at her/him. You will even wonder if these people actually came to study or to observe others study.
3. The late comers:
This is common among girls. When you get to class from 6-9pm, you will discover that the class is almost empty. They are waiting till 11:30 when their presence will be noticed.
4. The preachers:
I am sure this set of people annoy every reader in that class but nobody could pick the courage to talk to them because nobody wants to be tagged enemy of God's word. The worst part is that these preachers come to preach when they are tired of reading and want to stretch themselves.
5. The itinerant readers:
They are people who move in and out of the reading room every ten minutes. Sometimes you see them walking about the corridors. In an extreme cases they can read in four to six different classes in a night.
6. The unarmed robbers:
Yes I call them unarmed because they look very innocent when they are reading beside you waiting for the operation time. They steal things like phones, reading lamp, purse/wallet, laptops, wrist-watches, textbooks etc depending on the person's level of expertise and stealing intentions.
7. The chronic sleepers.
Hmmmmm, this set of people will just enter the class and lay their face on the desk and sleep off. They will not open their book from the time they came in till the time they will leave. They are always victims of the category of people above. The bad thing about these set of people is that they snore without regards and they fart without conscience.
8. The ash-crammers:
They are our first classers, they will start reading from the time they came in till dawn. Sometimes i wonder what they will be doing during
the day.
9. The eaters:
They will buy biscuit, viju
milk, lacasera, gala, chewing gum, in fact all the snacks in the world just to attend night class. You will wonder if you are in nursery class or university
night class.
10. The pingers:
This set of people will never let their phones be. Some will even come with up to three phone. Pressing their phone every now and then that you will wonder if they are actually studying or proof-reading.
11. The single and searchers :
If i mention everything without mentioning our guys and babes who come to night class to look for partners then my list is incomplete. This is for people who are single and searching every night.
12. The last of it all is the couples:
They will come to class together, continue talking, chatting and touching each other until they are tired then off they go. They have gone to night class noni.
13. The analyst:
This category of people are always looking for someone to argue with. Every topic is potentially arguably. They always want to make there point. this are the Gani Fawehinmi's.
Drop your comment and tell us what group do you belong. You can add yours too.

The following are the different categories of people you will meet in
night classes in our various higher institution.
1. Customer care agents:
This category of people will keep on receiving calls from the time they came to class till they sleep off. If you sit beside them "sorry" and it is more among ladies.
2. The lookers:
This category of people will make sure that they look at any slightest movement around them. If they ever see a beautiful/handsome girl/guy then they will never cease catching a glimpse at her/him. You will even wonder if these people actually came to study or to observe others study.
3. The late comers:
This is common among girls. When you get to class from 6-9pm, you will discover that the class is almost empty. They are waiting till 11:30 when their presence will be noticed.
4. The preachers:
I am sure this set of people annoy every reader in that class but nobody could pick the courage to talk to them because nobody wants to be tagged enemy of God's word. The worst part is that these preachers come to preach when they are tired of reading and want to stretch themselves.
5. The itinerant readers:
They are people who move in and out of the reading room every ten minutes. Sometimes you see them walking about the corridors. In an extreme cases they can read in four to six different classes in a night.
6. The unarmed robbers:
Yes I call them unarmed because they look very innocent when they are reading beside you waiting for the operation time. They steal things like phones, reading lamp, purse/wallet, laptops, wrist-watches, textbooks etc depending on the person's level of expertise and stealing intentions.
7. The chronic sleepers.
Hmmmmm, this set of people will just enter the class and lay their face on the desk and sleep off. They will not open their book from the time they came in till the time they will leave. They are always victims of the category of people above. The bad thing about these set of people is that they snore without regards and they fart without conscience.
8. The ash-crammers:
They are our first classers, they will start reading from the time they came in till dawn. Sometimes i wonder what they will be doing during
the day.
9. The eaters:
They will buy biscuit, viju
milk, lacasera, gala, chewing gum, in fact all the snacks in the world just to attend night class. You will wonder if you are in nursery class or university
night class.
10. The pingers:
This set of people will never let their phones be. Some will even come with up to three phone. Pressing their phone every now and then that you will wonder if they are actually studying or proof-reading.
11. The single and searchers :
If i mention everything without mentioning our guys and babes who come to night class to look for partners then my list is incomplete. This is for people who are single and searching every night.
12. The last of it all is the couples:
They will come to class together, continue talking, chatting and touching each other until they are tired then off they go. They have gone to night class noni.
13. The analyst:
This category of people are always looking for someone to argue with. Every topic is potentially arguably. They always want to make there point. this are the Gani Fawehinmi's.
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