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Hi guys, am new on this platform and I need advice from you guys
My bf and I love each other and we are planning to marry soon but he called me one day and confessed to me that a lady has a son for him back in school days.
The lady is married and the boy lives with her together with her new husband and other kids
From the way he told me he send money for the boy's school fees through my bf uncle to this lady. My bf doesn't live in the country and he told me there's no way the boy can live with us bcoz of the distance and the child is closer to the mom than the dad(my bf) the only thing is to send money for his fees and that's all bcoz there's no closeness between them and they don't communicate, the boy is 12 yrs now
I love my bf alot and I told him not to worry cos I keep asking myself what if I marry another man and the man decide to impregnate a lady outside the marriage is it not worst than this? I don't want to lose my bf but the child is the issue here
Plz I need your advice on this
*No insult plz*