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Hey everybody, i hope someone could share their views on this one:

I met a decent looking guy from Nigeria in my homeland about two months ago. He seemed polite so we exchanged numbers. He was relentless in his advances and called me everyday as well as text me for the first month. I must say he said all the right things ladies. About a month ago i observed that his mood started to change. I keep inviting him to visits my house but he was always busy working. Eventually he visited my home (my mom was there) and we hung out for two hours. I thought everything was cool then he started to make excuses. He said that he didn't want me to get hurt and that the timing was not right. He says one thing and then contradicts himself by saying he is highly attracted to me. Anyway, after a Lengthy discussion, i found out that he wanted a relationship with no strings attached. he felt that i would be expecting marriage from him and the pressure was too much(i am in my late twenties, highly educated, attractive and has never been sexually active). I like him very much but I'm amazed by his logic, is that acceptable behavior in Nigeria? it sounds like he wants me to give it all up for nothing, What do you guys/gals think?