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DONE DEAL! President Jonathan shares handshake, smile with ASUU delegation

Yes! Pack your bags!

A source close to top guns in the Academic Staff Union Of Universities (ASUU) has told The City Reporters the lecturers will ditch their four month old strike this weekend so students could resume on November 18 (next Monday).

The source said there was no way the union could reject the new offer of N220bn a year tabled by President Goodluck Jonathan during a marathon meeting with ASUU last week Tuesday.

ASUU had come out of that meeting to tell Nigerians it needed time to deliberate on the new deal and reach a consensus among it members before talking to the press.

A top official of the union,  has however said the government could not be trusted even on the new offer, and that ASUU’s members were divided over the government’s offer. He, however raised a beam of hope by saying the majority still decided to give  the government the benefit of the doubt.

As ASUU executives meet this Wednesday, if the fate of the strike is down to a vote among the striking lecturers, as suggested by ASUU chairman, Nasir Fagge, the four month old impasse may surely end this week.

ASUU went on strike July 1 over the non-implementation of a 2009 agreement it had with the government with a key component of the memorandum of understanding the allocation of 26% of Nigeria’s total budget to education.

Although the government is planning to allocate just 9% of the 2014 budget to education, ASUU now seems set to end the strike after government offers that would surely boost lecturers’ take home pay and improve varsity infrastructure.

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Rukemi291: Hey Mister, with this comment, infact, you are not just egotistic, you are so rude. If you had come here to say she instructed you to wash her undies, then i will tell you it's wrong. I still insist that there is nothing wrong in you washing your UNCLE's (not your brother) wife's blouse. Or are you people age mates?

Which 'kain' rude people cannot argue without sounding rude? Oga ooo.

Rukemi u mean to tell me that, washing my uncle's wife clothes there is notin wrong in that, Now I c d kind of person u are, I wanna let u knw dis, Did u knw dat my uncle blood sister Dupe, got to knw about dis and she got angry and told me she wil neva step her feet in2 dat house again. So pls ma dnt jump into conclusion, find somtin else to say.

Rukemi291: For crying out loud, he said the man is his UNCLE (his mother/father's younger or elder brother). I see no reason why the OP cannot wash for his wife.

Men and their ego sha.

But looking at it from another angle too. I prefer to stay with a friend than stay with a relative. Most relatives take one for granted-though not in this case sha.

oh I c, after washing her blouse, den I should wash her undies! U beta shut up ur mouth, is not by force to comment o

dommfa: Poster, do not mind anyone telling you it is right for your uncle to bring his wife's blouse to you to wash. She wasn't sick, and even if she was, its your uncle's duty, not yours. Same people would not even wash their own mother inlaw's wrapper. They have failed to read the part you said you have been 'serving' them for years doing other chores, but just because you chose not to wash your uncle's wife's blouse, you have become arrogant and ungrateful. If eating her food gives him the right to hand over her blouse to you, then its better you stopped.

I have a very close friend in this situation you described, and if not because I'm 100% sure he doesn't even know nl exists plus the little twist to your story, I could have sworn it was him. This dude stayed with his uncle for 12years before he got married. He stayed with them throughout his service year as their 'houseboy' till he got a job. He decided to still stay with his uncle for some time till he sorts himself out to raise enough money for an apartment. His parents stay outside that city. There is no chore he has not done in that house just because they are housing him

He cooks the food they eat, washes dishes, cleans n mop the whole house, washes the uncle's undies, their cars, scrubs their bathroom, run errands, like buying roadside akara n moimoi for their own consumption alone, grinding pepper, changing their sheets n laying their bed. What does the uncle do? Nothing! The wife, all she does is to babysit. Baby is close to 2yrs btw. If he goes to his parents for 3days, he'll come back to their house to meet accumulated dishes of 3days, n soaked undies waiting for him. He got bk from work one day and the uncle told him to go n prepare food for his wife cos she's on her way n has called that she's hungry. He set out for an event just last week saturday and his uncle called him on phone to come back home and clear dishes ; the plates he and his wife used for breakfast. cos his wife wants to cook lunch. Dude never complained and he has also stopped eating at home for months cos he got tired of cooking for them, and whenever wife cooked, she left him out. That still hasn't stopped him from washing their piled up plates. He also once saw the wife's clothing while washing his uncle's and he kept it aside.

He endured it all in silence but loathes his uncle n wife so much. He's moving out next month never to step his foot in their house or have anything to do with them anymore. The treatment has been that bad. He thought he was helping out rightfully too, but he overdid it and they took advantage of him.

Op, I don't know why you allowed your uncle talk you into paying for the 2bedroom flat, you should have stuck to your own initial 1room. Move out to a cheaper accomodation once your rent expires and be independent. Also, learn from the experience, treat people right.

From different experiences around me, Living with a relative for a long period of time should be avoided at all cost. It usually turns out to be a nightmare, a very ugly one.

Thnks dearie, @ least yellowpawpaw can get a piece from that!

[quote author=soul_glo]Honestly you need to grow up. Why would she give you her underwear to wash. Why? Since anybody knows that it is likely not going to happen then what is your rational argument for refusing to wash a piece of cloth that was with the laundry. I am sure that till this day that woman still cooked and expected you to eat. Her husband was right to ask you that question. I also asked you that question. Your refusal to eat what she cooks now is as a result of your pride. Hungry people don't turn down food so I am sure you are not hungry. You have not mentioned anything about her coming at you in a disrespectful way. It tells me that she is likely aware of what you did but is just going about her business like it did not happen. Your uncle is even still on talking terms with you but yet you still hold a grudge. Gosh. I give up[/quote]and who told u am still having grudges wit him, someone whom am still washing his car, do all his laundry up till now fetch water for them to use in d same house, u better dnt jump into conclusion if u did nt go thru d stories very well

nicky4lif: And u are trying to prove ur yellowcious and pawpawcious right.cos they shelter him that means he wash her clothes?nd if by any chance he is their house boy,he will flush their p..right?

tel am nicky4lif if na him, he go fit pass thru wetin I dey pass thru? U get d mind @ yellowpawpaw

[quote author=yellowpawpaw][/quote]the transformer wey u put for NL abi mtcheeeeew!

[quote author=soul_glo]So let me get this straight. You do the laundry but to add her blouse in the mix is demeaning to you? Okay let me break it to you but you have issues. So she cooked the food you ate until that time. At least you never said she cooked and did not feed you. She did that with no issues. Your issue came because your her blouse was mixed in with the laundry and you saw it there and put it to the side. Washed everything else and just left her blouse there. I know this because I know your uncle did not walk up to you and hand his wife's blouse to you to wash. You are disrespectful. If you had washed it and hung it up with all the rest of the clothes would it kill you. I can't believe people are telling you that it was demeaning. Someone who sees nothing in cooking your food is now beneath you feet and would reduce your worth as a human being if you washed her freaking blouse. Please go take a nap.[/quote]You mean I should wash her blouse? After washing her blouse wat wil b d next tin to wash Panties and bra, Oh please come of it!

yellowpawpaw: The truth is finally out from ur mouth yet u still want to justify ur yeyecious outburst by all means possible isn't it?


And yes he has the right to bring his wife's clothes for him to wash cos he is under their roof.
If the poster doesn't like it, nothing stops him from communicating to his uncle in a respectful manner than storming away after boldly telling him no.it didn't end there, for close to 2 yrs he stopd eating in the same house he is living and u r calling white blue?
If he don't want to eat and enjoy normal family life with them, why didn't he pack out as soon as he got d job?
Why rubbing it on his face?

@yellowpawpaw, I knw I was wrong from walking away from him, but did u know d reason y I stop eating in their house? When he asked me to wash his wife blouse, and I refused, He made mention that "I can't wash his wife blouse but I can eat her food" dat was wat made me to stop eating, cos if I continue to eat, Only God knws I might decided to wash his wife feet

yellowpawpaw: Why r u still living with that someone that was giving u order? Why didn't u pack out?
Bc u r contributing to their upkeep?
U r the one calling the shoots?
Assuming ur uncle is very well positioned, will u behave like that?
Will u walk away?
Will u still be in their house without eating their food?
Was it a previous arrangement?

Man, work on ur ego.
Going baillistic on me won't help cos I will tell u d truth and I don't reall care an iota.
U r too proud.
Bc u feel u r working in a multinational company so heaven and earth will just freeze.
I'm very sure if u don't hv any form of income and ur not so well uncle is supporting u, u wouldn't hv done what u did.
God forbid me supporting evil cos I wanna be cyber darling!

I can't blame u, cos u were not in my shoes, Incase u dnt know, when all dis happened, am still busy searching 4 work. If he asked me to leave his house I will definetly leave. My mom doesn't know all dis tins are happening, evrytime she ask me yomi are u ok! I wil tell her yea am fine! Am not an arrogant person, walking out of my uncles doesn't shows am arrogant. I guess u nid 2 check d word arrogant very well on ur dico

@yellowpawpaw, are u nut? Can't u get this straight in2 your head, someone is giving me an order to help him wash his wife clothes. And as 4 me not eating their food in the house if I should start eating, I might be given an order to wash her panties and bra! #@yellowpawpaw#Baddest fool ever Liveth

yellowpawpaw: My problem with ur post is u walking away on ur uncle. Whether u r the one paying the house rent or not is not my problem or he told u to wash d wife's dress but its very disrespectful of u to walk away on him.
I'm quite sure u will accept it if a younger one staying with u does that.
From march 2011 till now, u don't eat in ur uncle's house yet u live there bc u and him had a misunderstanding?
Ok o.

Did u just say am arrogant with wat am doing in d house, after paying for d house rent which dey are staying, and am still doing d household chores u call dat arrogant!

30DB4FA6: I av been staying wit my uncle too for like 2yrs_plus i du evrytin dey ask mi tu du buh in my own case i dnt fetch water deriz water runing into our flat he brings cloth for mi to wash i'll wash it happily buh d wife av neva bring her cloths for mi to wash even if 2moro she does it i will gladly wash it for her deriz no biggie in doing dat afterall dey are doing us a favour op u not gona live wit dem for ever @op i tink u are arrogant and sturborn for aving the goths to look ur own uncle in the face and tell him u wont du wat he ask u to du #norespect mayb ur uncle might be in hz early or late 20's or mayb d fault myt b from him he might av brought his-self so low to u not like mine not asif i dnt av d money to rent my own apartment nah just staying wit dem save and plan verry well so life wont b difficult wen i finally move awt op because u just got 200k or so u tink uv arrived just work on ur pride and stop been arrogant

Tnks bellong

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@yellowpawpaw To God who made me, I dnt have pride, am very Humble, just because I reject washing my uncle's wife blouse doesn't mean I have pride. I've been staying with dem for good 4 years and I do evrytin dey ask me to do, I do evrytin am asked to do. So get dat sire.

@bellong my uncle use to b very close but ever since I my uncle asked me to wash his wife blouse I choose to give myself some distance frm dem, weneva I com bak frm work I would just go straight to my room, they wil b in d sittin room gisting but I wil jst greet them and pass dem by 2ndly, I am working with a multinational company under a contract staff but praying and hoping I wil join d management staff soon.

Gud mawnin NLders, jst want 2 share d present problem am going thru wit my relatives i.e My uncle am stayin wit. My. Uncle got married in 2010, The lady he got married to is the very Lazy type, All she does in the house is to cook, I wash my Uncle clothes, iron them, make sure the House is clean, Fetch water for them to Use. There was a time my Uncle asked me to wash his wife blouse dat was in March 2011 but I refused to wash it, he asked me y I refused to wash it. I told him boldy dat y will I wash your wife's blouse, He now said so I can eat her food she cook but I can wash her wifes blouse, I got so angry dat I left the house to hang around with my friends,So I stop eating in d house, and all dis continue til dis moment Now, they are relocating to their own apartment, so my uncle impression was that I will relocate with dem to their own apartment. So they told me by Dec, they are leaving, so with Immediate effect I told dem am not going with dem dat I dnt mind getting a room for myself to start a life. He said he doesn't want me to rent a room for myself, dat is nt good, he said I won't move forward wit a room, he said I should pay for d rented apartment he is staying 4 a year and I went ahead and pay for d 2 bedroom flat. Upon d payment I made am still going thru dis and very soon dey wil be leaving for their own apartment, and I don't av money 2 pay for dat 2 bedroom apartment, cos he left all d properties in dere with me,Nlders, I need ur advice Pls wat should I do in dis case. Thanks

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