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budaatum:
Since you are getting lots of sympathy from everyone else, let me help you.

You dropped out of school, so you are not learning, but you want someone to invest their money in you so you can buy laptop? Do you know you are not serious at all?

What happened to you going to learn mechanic (for instance)? Do you know that if you wake up 6am and sweep mechanic yard, your oga will at least buy you breakfast? And if you hustle well for your oga, he would even let you sleep in the cars he's fixing?

After one single year, you'd have at the very least learnt to change oil and do full service, a side hustle you can save up from to buy your own laptop.

Yes, I said harsh. When I was kicked out at 15 years old, I sold eggs for others and eventually canned coke at the Lagos end of Ibadan Expressway and saved up my money and bought ticket to return home to UK where I worked in a chicken and chips shop for £1.10 an hour to pay my way through Uni, so I hope you see why my sympathy for you who's parents hide food from in the toilet is almost non-existent.

You want laptop, lol. And no, you are not mad!

Ive gotten laptop for myself but i need more criticism from people like you to break me. Crucify me since im the problem

Has it gotten to the point where religion just looks shallow.

When jesus said elo elo masharabtani why have tho forsaken me i didn't know its my future self he was talking to o .

I wrote "save yoursef" on my room wall when i was younger now i know the meaning.


How can a parent say he love me then he proceed to spend 800k in church because people in area advised him that i was a disgrace the family , they put calabash at front Of our house , which i have broken and confirm till this day that ritualism is symbolic and no juju like that all na wash. I broke calabash twice and nothing happened.

Fast-forward to my problems , i dropped out of school, now this man had the audacity to plan with his wife and be hiding food from me still carry me go church say i get mental problem. See life.

He did not talk about continuing school or helping secure money for laptop which i told him about severally. He buys latest iphone for my younger brother to make me humble lol.
Not finding simpathy
Person dey hide food for toilet i just tire
Basic amenity

My cousin came to greet us today, knowing I’m at my lowest. My family has neglected me, and I feel like I have nowhere to turn. He came into my room, lying down like he owned the place. We’re the same age, and he already has a car, even though he doesn’t have a proper job -he’s just an “alfa” type. The family treated him specially, even serving him meat that they wouldn’t give their firstborn.
While eating, he suddenly started talking about my life -my negativity, why I haven’t started working in a company, why I haven’t traveled yet, and how my life is going. The thing that hurt the most was when he indirectly compared me to my brother, saying I’m just at home while my brother is in school because he “made it happen.”
As I observed him, it was obvious he was trying to ego-farm. He asked what I’m doing; I said I’m doing surveys. He laughed and said the evidence is all over my body. The guy doesn’t even have a real job -he scams gullible believers like my useless parent and me but out of ego -but still feels entitled to judge me.
Later, when my mom came into the room, he made sure she was there while loudly asking how much I need to start my survey journey. I said 30k plus a little for subscription. He made sure my mom heard me. I told him I wouldnt appreciate anything less than that, otherwise it’s not valuable. I watched him silently as my dad’s morale seemed to drop.
I then gave him another option just to subscribe me 10GB for Airtel. He ended up sending 8GB and then played a video saying things like, “When it was sweet, you didn’t plan; now you’ll suffer. Your life has finally spoiled; if it were only you your mother gave birth to, there would be no hope.”
This is the same guy who, when I was struggling, took money from me and my dad, claiming I needed some stupid charms for a spiritual problem.
Despite all this, I didn’t feel threatened. Even though he has a car and seems “better” than me now, I know he worked for it. He didn’t have the same parental support I had early on as I was sponsored all the way to university -but I still dropped out, while he had to struggle through on his own.

Made me realize that Africans are in hot soup cos same certain people would be affected by religion , imagine someone taking advantage of a stupid family instead of focusing stability of finance and mental health , all focus is shifted to the attachment of money , as far ur cousin has car and u no get u have spiritual problem. For person wey never even finish school too

Samueltemi337:
It's in my signature
Thank you

Some people in this life always need money and you are one of them

The son is a 24-year-old who dropped out of school due to some condition. I know him through someone else. From what I know about him, he smokes a lot, even though he doesn’t smoke openly on the street.
Later, we heard that the parents took the boy to church because when he returned from school, they noticed he had changed -he started smoking and became very aggressive. When he was taken to the church, the prophet detained him for about three weeks for what they called deliverance, and later collected ₦800,000 from the parents.
Meanwhile, these same parents could not afford to buy the boy a laptop to learn a skill or prepare to return to school. Even food in the house is a problem - they hide food from him. Sometimes, if something goes missing, they lock him outside. They also do spiritual questioning, and once an alfa mistakenly said it was the boy; from that moment, he was finished. They humiliate him at every opportunity because they believe they are the source of his existence.
Recently in the church, they announced that they were processing a visa for the boy. However, the prophet said the boy would run mad and told the father to stop the process and focus on the younger children. Another prophet later claimed he saw a vision that the boy would be successful abroad but would abandon them.
I know all these things because the boy’s mother talks too much and seems to treat people as her friends.


The story weird

Rubbish
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SpencerForbes:
Next time if you go don’t forget to buy even Pepsi that has 2026 manufacturing date. That’s how it’s done in other countries so it doesn’t appear like those deeper life people that were always visiting hell back then without bringing evidence. Not even a scar from the other side.

They succeeded in painting useless pictures in person mind and na lie last last every thing na symbolicsm hell, heaven and demons all symbolic