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Its really a sad thing. Its an individual decision. ADVISE YOUR FRIEND TO PRAY AND LET GOD DIRECT HIM. As for me, she's gone forever.

Tgirl4real: I really don't know the title to give this...

How do u FEEL when someone (an opp sex) goes out of his way to serve u, run errands for u, try to please u and be there for you even when it is obvious you can't date the person?

It is clear this person likes you and if things were different he/she would have loved to date u.

I do know how to handle such situations, but it sometimes saddens me esp. when the person is someone 'lower' than you. I usually try my best to reject/reciprocate such gestures in the most polite and humble way possible.

But to be sincere, it can be awkward.

So, how do u feel?

Does it excite you?
Make u proud?
Do u feel like u are taking advantage of the person?

Pls, what do you mean by lower than you? You hinted that you know how to take care of such situation so whats the problem?


Don't mean to hijack your thread but I have a female colleague who tells me all about her relationship with her husband, she even discuss their sex life with me. Of late I've been looking for ways to minimize our interaction without appearing to hurt her feelings, abeg suggestion needed ooooh! I'm not comffy with her anymore.

dubem3: what happens to the kids when a nigerian marries a Ghanian or an american?

Nigeria's not @ war with Ghana or America. Biafra proponents and their Nigerian opponents want war at all cost!

I have a female cousin married to someone from Akwa Ibom (don't know if this qualifies as Igbo state), I have an Igbo female colleague married to a man from Ogun State. We all reside and work here in PH. My question is simple, what happens to the kids in the event Biafra comes to stay


All you internet warriors, make una take time ooooh!

If this is true then its not a bad idea, infact its a good bargain. Those earlier condemning this might want to have a rethink.

Lets not all get ahead of ourselves. Nigerians are intelligent, dogged and tenacious in all they do. It's really no surprise to see us exceling anywhere we go. It is what you have it in yourself to be that counts at the end of the day not over reliance on hi-tech solutions.

Conducive learning environment can not create potentials that are not there, it can only help harness/blossom an already inherent potential.

We really do not know the pedigree of those that took the test, but I dare say, its the competent ones among them that passed (Nigeria's academic test standard is known to be pretty high anyways).

On a lighter note, I once heard this story, don't know if its real or not.

Several medical doctors were interviewed for 2 vacancy slots in a hospital in Russia, amongst them were two Nigerians. It happened that the Nigerians failed the test and the Medical Director insisted on having them before others that passed. When quizzed about this his response was simply: They're Nigerians, they're better qualified for the job.