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Phraences:
Make PSG win this thing quick quick make e no just enter penalty

plessis:
Arsenal was park bus carry champions league.

DMCA:
Make Bournemouth make my day abeg
at least make dem no allow dem win. i go manage draw

ZombieDredd:
Jollof rice oo

White rice oo

Coconut rice oo

All of them dey

Sonofgod1990:
Aston Villa 3 vs arsenal 1.

We can do it villa

Lamasta:
Aston Villa is away abi

EyeCumInPeace:
Corner Kick FC gat this one. 😁

DBestDoc:
Wow!
You’re very courageous. I’m glad you didn’t listen to people that would have begged you to manage that things will get better. Lies! It gets worse, actually.

Good it ended this early before children came and even better you didn’t do a civil wedding, saved yourselves a lot of stress.

You both will be fine.
Take the lessons and be better.

Congratulations and best wishes.

YoungDaNaval:
Good evening nairalanders, I met my fiancé in 2021 but we officially started dating in 2022. The relationship was not all rosy because we do have minor misunderstanding in-between but we've never quarrelled beyond 24hrs before. I choosed her among other girls because she gives me peace and had never given me any reason to doubt her loyalty. So earlier this year I took bold step and went to see her parents for introduction and list collection with the intention to do our traditional marriage in December this year. But something happened yesterday. I was chatting with my fiancé via WhatsApp and one thing led to another then she sent me a screenshot of our chat in the past to buttress her point but then I noticed something in that screenshot she sent. I noticed that my contact was saved with my name. I was surprised because I'd always knew all my contacts were saved with "my world" in her phone so how come my name now? What changed? We never had a fight, no quarrel, nothing whatsoever that might make her change my contact from "my world" to my name. So I pointed it out to her to know her reason. At first , she was trying to play on my intelligence by telling me it was a mistake and immediately changed it back but I stood my ground and insist that she explain to me why she did so. Then later on she started begging, telling me she was sorry, that she'd never cheated on me. I was like, "who said anything about cheating?" I only demand an explanation on why you changed my contact from "my world" to my name, the apologies can come later but she kept on begging that it was a mistake so I ignored her. Later on, she finally accepted that she changed it intentionally but could not recall why she did. I simply told her to think and get back to me then I ignored her chats while she kept begging and went to bed. Now I couldn't sleep, I kept thinking why my fiance could pull such stunt and I've concluded that I might put our trads coming up this December on hold if I don't get an explanation on why she did such but another thought came to my mind that I should post here to see if I can get a better suggestion from experienced nairalanders. How do you think I should handle this situation? Please advice me!


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JobAndVacancies:
please are you single?
You're the kind of lady I need that will manage with me despite my meager income

Openair:
I have only experienced this when my then gf and I were having issues and when the feelings were dying.
Op, my advice is this; if you live closer, please do not talk about the issue again for now, tell her it's okay and you guys can just act normal. Make plans to see maybe this weekend or when you can, and when she finally comes around, ask for her phone - the first thing you should do is to restore her backup chats on WhatsApp (if you don't know how, learn it on YouTube). If she was hiding anything she would have deleted those chats, so restore those chats and check everything.. make sure you also go through her chats with her female friends (most times they tell their girls everything). If you don't find anything, maybe she ain't cheating, also if you do not find her back up data, just forget it, she's a pro..

pocohantas:
Smh. Seeing the username of the poster, I am not remotely surprised at the epistle over a change of phone name that happens during misunderstandings in many relationships.

Poor girl will explain tire inside marriage.

I wish her strength, she would need it if you are nice enough to marry her.

AngelicBeing:
Muchecheche, He was arrested by Tinubu for posting nonsense online and he is presently in Kebbi State DSS headquarters, he has been detained for 900 years, hahaha 🤣

AngelicBeing:
You have started again with your Savage response, let me cancel ✖️ your name from the register of Heaven, you are not going to Heaven again

SpencerForbes:
So nowadays upon everything. Men still believe their babe is seeing only them. Thank God I learnt early. Marry someone that respect you boss, Forget love.
It died with Romeo and Julie. Marry someone that gives you peace of mind.

No lady is innocent anymore. Smart guys always catch them. I'll catch mine and pretend I never saw something like that. If you continue boss. You'll give yourself b.p.

Just postpone the ceremony for now and keep watching. If she deserves a pass, give her. If she doesn't pass. But don't leave the lesser evil for the devil.

My two cent tho.

MaziObinnaokija:
People like this OP can be play . So cos of changing u dey para like the famous TIGER GENERATOR ? on top of "MY WORLD"? What if she stored yo name as *ODESON"MUMY
U.Adigun Eleran

Namaster:
END the relationship!
Regardless of her explanation and copious apologies, END it!

From "My World" to your legal first name is a huge LEAP. She didn't even change it to "My Local Government".

Dude, it's OVER
It's DONE!

Changing your name on her contact list is a SYMBOLIC move. It symbolises the DEATH of her attraction to you.

Her "My World" is dead. What's left is plain Ahmed, Emeka or Kayode.

She knows EXACTLY why she made the change. And it's because she no longer feels the way she felt about you in the past.

It is even more DISTURBING that she's already DENYING a cheating allegation you did NOT posit.

That's NOT a good look.
That's like FLEEING while no one is chasing you.

That is the way of a WAYWARD woman.
RUN!

You don't want to start a marriage with SUSPICION and ANXIETY.

Ignoring LITTLE signs like this that tug at your heartstrings is how people end up with HUGE disasters that SHATTER their hearts...like raising another man's kid for 20 years.

RUN!

immortalcrown:
🤣🤣🤣

To the poster:
Don't submit to her manipulative apologies. She must tell you why and when she renamed your contact on her phone. Refusal to confess implied impenitence.