₦airaland Forum

CaseSensitive:
All the three points are completely true from my viewpoint but the contradiction in the second and third points - if life truly has no meaning whatsoever, then I think the idea of losing one’s purpose becomes difficult to justify. Why would it matter if someone spends 40 years working a job if there is no meaning to begin with?

He's right. Life has no meaning except what you give it. Someone spending 40 years on a job may be doing so, not necessarily because of anything other than hope...

1) Get a job, but don't stay for long if the salary does not change..
2) Never get too comfortable there without your option B plans drafted out..
3) Maintain office relationship with everyone, because most of your colleagues (even you reading this) are backbiters, it would take them nothing to gossip/slander your name..
4) Endure the BS until you've gotten a better offer..
5) When you finally get the new job and/or before quitting the old one, make sure you put your old boss where he belongs. You start by first correcting him/her unlike when you used to maintain silence in front of rubbïsh. Then on that particular day, remind him of his many errors and leave...

marlow1962:
My dad is against Igbo women, don't know why. He has warned us his children never to marry an Igbo woman, that if we do, he won't attend or give his concent. Pops man is really serious about it, but I guess is the way he has see finished most Igbo ladies.

I have Igbo ladies as friends, but sceptical about them when it comes to marriage. Well bad women are in every trybe.

You better listen to your dad, for the unique advice that others didn't get before they made the mistake of marrying one..

Yes, not all Igbo women are bad, there are exceptions. But don't forget that exceptions don't make the rule...

South west is under capture...

A whole military General, dying in captivity. It is a true test that most of our so called "Generals" are vegetæbles who never tasted war as warriors, but as scared cowærds...

socoharley:
Think and grow rich..there are no two ways

Motivational kpai you there💔😂!!.

papiSNEH:
country:- Brazil

Player name:- Jagabandinho

ancestry :- no trace

Are you talking about Amoda Rashidi Yekini !!?

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Walai:
I'm a Messi fan but I have not seen him give back to humanity and that's bad of him. Maybe he gives secretly but I don't know

My bro, there's none (significantly), if so, we would have known so far. He's from a very poor country too, so such acts of benevolence would have gone viral...

vislabraye:
There is one I am dating like that. She is from that side. SHe has beautiful shape and she can do the do very well. But I have not see any bossy behaviour in her. Rather, she is submissive and helps me do my laundry and cleans the house without me asking.

Put her for house first..

The problem is that, knowingly or unknowingly, we somehow prefer to learn from experience (a personal experience that sometimes mess with our original selves, turning us into something else) than from the wisdom/experience of others...

Hope he always gives back to his society, just as Sadio Mané does? Because, SM is apparently the major player as regards such an unusual benevolence. May God continue to bless him (SM)...

Meteng:
Yep. And if that’s your picture in there, you’re beautiful. Very smokey, chocolaty smokey 🤗

See how you're already flattering her with her fake/edited photo up there ! How can you really tell that she's truly "beautiful. Very smokey, chocolaty smokey" when it's not her real face !? Bia, be kiaful, don't angry me !!.

Wetin dey happen for the country serious pass all this ones ..!

In business, no advert is a waste, both online and offline. Same as the saying goes that there's nothing like bad publicity...

What a relief! The truth is, the world knows that BAT is a failed President! See how he (PDT) gave the order like we don't have a President in the country (which is somehow true)...

Most of your people are guilty of number one ..

Anyway, I'm fully BATIFIED. It is my turn now ...

I thought Iran don't have Navy🤔..?

Most of us, we were not raised to be people friendly, hence, the deep introvert trait. My case is similar to yours but it is changing gradually, because I'm working on myself..

Before now, I used to frown subconsciously while walking, listening, sitting, etc, around people. It is like an automatic setting. But now, I'm loosening up bit by bit as I smile more now, gist and make friends with people easily, unlike before..

Being an introvert becomes bad when it controls you, you will lose meaningful friendships, connections/opportunities as a result. Making favour/help difficult...

Oisagbai78:
My kind of a wife. Though, I am not poor and can never be! She has really come through for me through thick and thin. Make I still remind una, she's a single mother I remarried almost 3 yrs now. She's so loyal and a good wife. As most of una don bastardized single women for here, I don't know how lucky I am to find such a very good single mum in my wife. Na God do am for me sha. Janet, I will forever love you till death!

Oga quiet! Na single mother you dey praise like say you win lottery or discover something unique ?! In case you don't know, experience they say is the best teacher, so most single mothers have learnt their lessons, and they are now very aware of how most men don't take them serious, hence the reason for them bracing up. How do you act or behave when a 2nd chance at an opportunity comes? That's exactly the same way they feel. So nothing special or unique...

I can see how y'all without experience are blaming the victims instead of the government, who has made the country unhabitable for the common man !!

Who Nigeria never happen to go think say him too get sense..

When did Nigerians in their numbers started this desperate act of japa on all fronts? Is it not since when the APCheat terrible government cunningly and forcefully took over? Make una get sense o because the country is getting worse...

Invest the money here in Nigeria and use the returns to sponsor him (if there's still a need for that). There are a lot of businesses you can do and the returns will yield more than what someone over there is earning. While some Nigerians are successful abroad, some others are just there earning at a mid level and others really wished they could return home but they can't due to shame and insecurity in the country. If you understood why the Nigerian billionaires and millionaires intentionally stay and invest in the country, then you would have understood me..

As for Mr Nedekid, please stop arguing with those fellas with their warped mentality. Everyone will learn a lesson or two on their own either early, late or no more✌ ...

Look for somewhere else to rent if you can no longer cope. Be selective in your battles, because not all battles are worth your time, effort and other resources...

This one sef wan start. Women ehn, especially when they mean you.. "Hell hath no fury than a woman being scorned"..

In addition, as a man, always avoid a woman who is big on negativity but very small on appreciation. She never reminds you of how you've been there for her either through joke or seriousness, but quick to renew a past wound...

"Money answereth all things"...

Davido go murder Wizkid no lies...

You see, even among them there's no unity. But they always cry foul when others don't include them. "Let Ohuhu complete 2nd term" as if the contestant is not also Ibo ..

That's where I served though, Afugiri precisely...

IronGalaxy:
Thank you for this honesty, I'll further give you an example.. small mining communities around SA are currently under siege from armed illegal miners from neighboring Zim, Mozambique and Lesotho, the situation got so bad to the point that people from those communities had to resort to sleeping in a community hall because of bring driven out by these terrorists, imagine being driven out from your home, entire families, to sleep in a hall because of illegal foreigners.. tell me if its this fair.. people are pointing fingers and are gaslighting the reasons South Africans are this fed up.

Some of us (unbiased Nigerians) know these things, hence my previous comment. Even the one where some of my people, being maybe too idle or too comfortable in your country, wanted to install a king there. We sane Nigerians condemned (internally) such disappointing act after the incident, rising to a serious argument among us Nigerians, because we know it is something we won't even tolerate here..

Like I said, you guys should continue doing the right thing in sensitizing your communities without allowing anyone to gaslight or emotionally blackmail y'all..

Pan-Africanism does not represent illegality, neither does it permit cowardice in citizens with mass corruption in government...