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Technology Market › Re: Used Iphone 7 32GB @55k by yungchop: 3:10am On Sep 23, 2020 |
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Technology Market › Re: Iphone 6s+ (asap Deal) by yungchop: 3:00am On Sep 23, 2020 |
Price and memory please |
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Phones › Re: TECNO SPARK 5 In Mushin, Ilasamaja, Lagos by yungchop: 1:02am On Sep 23, 2020 |
JustVibes: Wow that's too far to send to. Even very risky too which may be more on my end. I'm sorry i can't You are not the one sending it.. I'll send someone to pick it up in Lagos then then he will be the one to send to me being my brother. 34k? I can't go higher than this. |
Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 11:42pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
NoToPile: My denomination won't wed a Muslim and Christian .
I am 99.99 percent certain they won't. Meaning it has never happened in your denomination? |
Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 11:41pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 11:41pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
Truvel: Do As U Which With Her, U Av My Support. Thanks  |
Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 11:39pm On Sep 22, 2020*. Modified: 11:56pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
Brachaa: Everyone just keep s beating about the bush and repeating the questions op has already answered.
Op, Church marriage may or may not work depending on her committmen in the Church. If she's a dedicated worker, the Church may not want to Wed her owing to the fact that she's marrying outside the faith. But if she's just a bench warmer/ regular member, they may wave the conditions for her and conduct the wedding. But then again it depends on the denomination she attends.
Let her confide in her pastor first and hear what he has to say. If the Church doesn't agree and you want church blessings at all cost, you can contract a pastor to do the blessings in your house or at the registry.
You can also do well to mention the denomination where she worships to see if theres anyone here that attends it and can give you heads up on their rules regarding this issue. I'll ask her and get back to you  Modified Winners chapel and she's a councellor.  |
Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 11:39pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
jmoore: The kids nko?
Who will they follow to Church or mosque? That's another issue but let's solve the marriage first  |
Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 11:38pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
Mindlog: Just like Fashola who is Muslim while his wife is Catholic, he got married to her in the Catholic Church and she still practices her Catholic faith while Fashola, Islam. I never knew  |
Phones › Re: TECNO SPARK 5 In Mushin, Ilasamaja, Lagos by yungchop: 11:35pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
JustVibes: Add 7k and let's seal the deal. I'm in jigawa.. It will cost me a fortune to get it down here. Let's do 33k. I'm giving you my one month allowee  |
Phones › Re: Samsung S8 For Sale (enugu) by yungchop: 3:44pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
40k? |
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40k? |
Phones › Re: TECNO SPARK 5 In Mushin, Ilasamaja, Lagos by yungchop: 3:39pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
Do we have a deal with 30k? |
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Phones › Re: Perfect Iphone 6s, 64gb (SOLD) by yungchop: 3:31pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
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Business › Re: Kevin Chukwumobi @ 50: Meet Nigerian Man Who Turned Billionaire Carrying Corpses by yungchop: 1:20pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
englishmart: This guy reminds me of my experience in Massachusetts. I was offered 1,000 a week to work in morgue, I rejected the offer and requested 10,000 dollars a week or no deal. They managed to come up to $5000, but my mind was fixed on $10k or nothing. Bro I'll do it for 1k a week mehn.. Can you still link me up? |
Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 9:54am On Sep 22, 2020 |
DontBullshitMe: How about court marriage?  I've been asking too, shey marriage is marriage na  |
Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 9:53am On Sep 22, 2020 |
gaius01: Well from your point both families can agree. Just try taking to her family about your decision bro I will bro.. Thanks |
Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 9:48am On Sep 22, 2020 |
bukatyne: For interfaith marriage to really work, one or both of you are not serious with your religion.
That said, where/how you marry is the least of your problems. You can call her pastor to bless you guys in front of her house.
How would you train your kids? Are you fine with your kids not going to the mosque with you? Is she fine with the kids not following her to Church? Would you attend to your religions seperatedly or would you visit each other's place of worship? During festivities, how would you do it? Would she host your friends during Ileya? Would you join her in the festivities of Christmas?
As a Muslim noted, 'marriage in Islam is a contract; marriage in Christianity is a covenant'. How do you bridge both concepts?
Do you believe in polygamy? Is she fine with it? Do you believe your wife and daughters should wear the hijab? Does she believe in it? There are expectations from men and women in Christian and Islamic marriages: what expectations would you follow? Or would you both have form your own expectations? Or would you guys go the cultural way?
My brother, if you sort out the above, where to marry is not further maths.
Goodluck.
Thanks for responding. There are sacrifices we make for things to work. Like I have stated already. Thanks for responding. There are sacrifices we make for things to work. Like I have stated already, I'm not forcing my faith in her nor the children. If the she wants the kids to go to church, it's fine. They being Muslims or Christians won't change the fact that they are my kids. She'll practice hers, I'll practice mine. Plus during festivities she can celebrate in my house and host her people and we can celebrate mine together too. What I am saying is, will the Pastor agree to join us together because I am not a Christian? |
Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 4:08pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
thorpido: Do your parents(both parents) know you are both involved in a serious relationship?What are their opinions of both of you getting married? Like I said, parents don't know yet. |
Family › Re: Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 4:03pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
gaius01: Sir, You want your wife to marry without receiving her parents blessings?
Have you both talk to your parents, I.e her parents and your parents?
We are in Nigeria and religion has highest regards than anything.
It's gonna be hard for that marriage to work, am sorry to say. My reason are, her parents or family will talk alot to her about her decision and want you to convert, but the look of things you won't. And you also, your family will advise you to convert her to first and this only is another problem.
Besides they can't Wed you in church as a Muslim to say vow so don't think about that unless you are a Christian.
Lastly if you both want perent prayer then, talk about it, with in both family as a dialogue.
Unless you guys want to wedd without thier blessing Thanks for responding. We've not met each other's parents for now but on my own part I am the only son and any decision I take is solely mine. My father will never ask me to convert her because I have two step bros married to Christians but they are Yorubas so it's still kind of soft for them. My Mom is late. On my own part, apart from converting to a Christian, I don't think there's any other obstacle anywhere. She is the only Daughter too so convincing her parents maybe a bit difficult. My question is Is Religion Marriage a MUST?? Like can't we just go traditional way? |
Family › Opinions Needed. by yungchop(op): 3:45pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Hi guys?? Guess y'all doing good. I just want to share my current problem with y'all and I'm very sure I'll find a solution from the experienced ones here.
I am a Muslim and a yoruba by tribe and my girl is a Christian and Kalabari by tribe. We have agreed that nobody will force his or her religion on the other person i.e getting married won't mean one has to change his or her religion and will continue to practice. Now the problem is, like I said I won't force anything on her so doing an Islamic wedding is not an option here, as for me I can follow her to church and take vows if they won't have a problem with a Muslim coming to church to take vows. Going to church doesn't mean I will change my faith or tell lies just to mask the real situation. Is it possible to just do the traditional marriage and reception?? Is the wedding complete that way? So I know there are lots of inter religion marriages out there so how did you guys do it?
I'm seriously frightened because I don't want to lose this girl.
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