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kitnah:
Blackett??

Oh well,i dont use makeup at all

[color=#150000]All liars shall die. [/color]

fergiiosugo:
Mehn no be camera Ohh. Na ma aso rock be dat

[color=#150000]I follow like am sha. [/color]

kitnah:
Some girls are using white powder,smh

[color=#150000] Which one are you using?[/color]

fergiiosugo:
Leggoo

[color=#150000]Bro, that head tho. I'm guessing it's the camera? [/color]

Gflat:
I am damn irritated with those kind of replies that was why I deleted her in the first place. But I thought she had an interest in our chats that was why she added me back

[color=#150000]Your chats are boring. I am even sleepy right now from reading that _shit. [/color]

[color=#150000]"I aren't one of those Niggas"


Rofl. [/color]

[color=#150000]Girls are the masters of this game. . . I'm glad they are being paid back. [/color]

[color=#150000]All of the above. [/color]

[color=#150000]Huh? Upload what without what?

Abeg I just changed my screen. Mi o fe ko fo mo. . . [/color]

[color=#150000]Flood, fire, bulldozer, earthquake and a plane falling from the sky like dana. [/color]

[color=#150000]Ritualist alert. [/color]

[color=#150000]All these to open mouth and talk to woman?

Tufia. [/color]

[color=#150000]And yes, women are the worst drivers. [/color]

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[color=#150000]How's playing video games annoying? . . . Who wrote this _shit? [/color]

[color=#150000]Job scarce to find. Use your head [/color]

saaedlee:
. . .

[color=#150000]Truth of the matter. [/color]

quivah:
honestly you won't go far with me if you keep bringing up the emboldened.. can't one be logical? I'm equally a student, two years his junior..and academically I still have miles to go..now this is a man I love and understand he doesn't have the resources yet cause of his situation.. you know sometimes you can plan your future (based on Human understanding).. now if I've planned well, he ought to be working by the time I'm tru with schooling and 'ready to settle down'(invariably, I won't be marrying a broke man) So you want me to be sincere? my broke student has it all for me than the rich ones I see out there..the only thing they gat is money (which I don't lack)..I shouldn't stress my self telling you this, but I hope you stop bringing up the bolded..doesn't define me! I don't have a job btw!

now the remaining of your post-- your opinion! doesn't count to me

[color=#150000]First of all, I never said you had a job. I said you had a source of income. Since when does "source of income" translate to having a job?

You are both young and relying on someone else to pay the bills, so calm the fvck down and wait till you are both in the real world all alone and fending for yourselves before you fvcking talk to me about logic and what defines you![/color]

quivah:
if I'm truthful to myself, I shouldn't give a flying feck about what you think..! but just for fun: how do you know I'm not ready to settle down?
I didn't expect you to give a damn about my stance not to say believe me, you were not the purpose I commented.
if I ever wanna smooth talk a guy into believing, it definitely won't be you..so don't stress yourself Blackett

[color=#150000]You never give a flying fvck when there's an element of truth involved in what is being said. I know you aren't ready to settle down because you are dating a student. This is because you are also a student and you are both young. So from your calculations, by the time you both are out of school, things would be better for you to settle down together.

I don't give a fvck about you or about your comment.

Ladies are the same. They have the same emotions and feelings. Some, are just better at suppressing them, it doesn't mean they aren't there. I wouldn't even give 3 quarters of a fvck if you are talking to me. I used that "smooth talk" line because that is what ladies say. All ladies. Until reality hits them squarely in the eye.

I'm amazed you thought this was about you since I obviously don't care whether you are breathing or not. I am only quoting and countering your points solely based on the thread and topic, so this is no fvcking time to display your over bloated ego and sense of self importance.

I don't give a fvck. [/color]

quivah:
the 'but' is exactly the problem..
love doesn't pay the bills, true! but that love is dead the moment she left because there's no money.
when they 'leave' cause you are broke, they stop loving you till they gat the next rich man. such girls obviously need the money and not love.. because as you rightly put, love doesn't pay the bills and the only thing they need is the bills not you or your love.. i don't see how 'love' should come into the picture

this case only applies to hardworking responsible broke guys the lazy 'e go better' ones can go to hell!

[color=#150000]Love rightly came into the picture because that was why she was there with him in the first place, isn't it? Every lady has her limits, no matter how much she claims to love a guy. Enough soon becomes enough. Ladies factor in a lot of things before they date someone. They also do run out of patience. When a lady leaves someone she loves to be with another person, that doesn't mean she has stopped loving the guy, it's just that he cannot sustain what they have together at that time.

You talk as if you do not meet guys who are well to do and way better looking than your student. You are still with the student because you have a source of income and also, because you are not ready to settle down in marriage. Remove those two out of the equation and you'll drop this same guy faster than hot potato.

The problem with most relationships is that they both met themselves at the wrong time. [/color]

quivah:
op are you broke? ?

what exactly is the definition of a broke guy? . I'm dating a student(not working so hes virtually broke) but I've never asked for 1kb from him and still love him darn! so I believe it has to do with the situation and person.

I would rather cry in a limo than laugh on a bicycle with a lazy broke a.s.s graduate(or any man outside the blocks of a uni)

I hate lazy men!!! and to say a broke one at that..

[color=#150000]If you're truthful to yourself, you'll realize that you're still with him because you aren't ready to settle down in marriage, so keep the "crying in the limo" bullshit for some guy who gets swayed easily by a lady's smooth words. . . [/color]

quivah:
any man that believes this should always prepare for second heartbreak..

there's no love in a girl who left you only for the reason that you are broke and comes running back only for the reason you are made.. once you go broke in the next minute, history will repeat itself!

[color=#150000]I see you carefully avoided the "but" aspect. [/color]

[color=#150000]Can you take love to the bank and withdraw money? No.

Love doesn't pay the bills. Relationships incur bills. If you are broke, respect yourself and don't expect a girl to love you, especially if she's Nigerian where the poverty level is below low.

Any girl that stays with you when you're broke does so because she has seen the potential of you becoming rich in future. Girls are not fools. Who no like better thing?

If you're broke, maintain your fvcking lane and go and hustle. There'll be a girl to love you in that future you are going to. Don't carry excess baggage from the present, don't tie yourself down to one girl waiting till you make it, don't embarrass yourself going after girls who do not give a fvck about you at this stage, especially if they are getting ready to settle down. They'll always look out for a guy who is well to do and who can sustain their love with money. If she is with you out of pity, that pity runs out the moment she finds a man that can care for her needs as a husband.

By the way, why do they always come back to you after you must have made money after they left you for someone else? That's because they love you, but love doesn't pay no damn fvcking bills. So when they leave you, they don't stop loving you, and when you can pay the damn bills, they remember that love and a guy who can pay bills is a good fvcking combination.

Guys should wake up and prioritize their lives. If you make girls your ultimate goal, you gonna fail woefully.[/color]

[color=#150000]Ever heard of choices, opinions, and preferences?

Everyone has a different one. [/color]

[color=#150000]I don't get it.

Should they rather be attracted to tiny voices like theirs? Do you, as a male, get attracted by a deep male voice? [/color]

[color=#150000]So how did you treat her fvckup? By plugging in your headphones and walking away?

That's so badass.

Nonsense. [/color]

Jamesdman:
@Bolded is so so true.
Just that, socioculturally, men are supposed to ask ladies out and not the other way round. Hence, most ladies shy away from outrightly asking out a guy they've mentally chosen. However, they do indirectly, try to get his attention.
That's one reason why, 80% of the time, if a guy acts on greenlight emissions from a lady, he ends up successfully dating her.

[color=#150000]It's all about that green light. . . Wait for the green light, and then step on the fvcking gas pedal. [/color]

carluva:
even if I call cow daddy, how e take concern u kwanu

[color=#150000]Carry on. No vex. [/color]

carluva:
aunty twaci........

[color=#150000] Aunty? People like you go call cow "broda" because you wan chop meat.[/color]

wheesin:
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You better change,self servicing is a terrible thing, its better i have sex with a prostittute and go to hell than fvck my hands and still go to the same hell. Change girl..dnt just read and criticize, the earlier the better

[color=#150000]This is deep. [/color]

ebonflex:
Women are naturally more emotional and nurturing so it balances out on the man's end from his efforts.
If the woman, who is supposedly naturally more nurturing, is sitting down watching the man do too much, then it's just not going to work in the long haul. We see the negative effects everyday of guys doing too much.

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[color=#150000]This is very correct. I'm glad you buy into this philosophy as well.

Every where in nature, a female chooses her male. It's the same with humans. If a woman doesn't go over the mmon for her man no matter what he does for her, that union will not last. Guys may try to deceive themselves but it's really all about the woman. That is why when they do the chasing, it's with all their heart. That is why it is also said that when a girl says she loves you, she really means it. . . It takes a lot for a woman to fore go her innate pride and confess her love for her man, when she has crossed that barrier, there is no going back and that is why when you hurt a woman who truly loves you, she could kill you.

I laugh when I see guys chasing one girl for weeks, months or years. I always tell those who care to listen that it takes a lady less than 5 seconds to decide if she likes you and would want to date you. As she sees you approaching her for the first time, her mind is already made up about you. If she accepts to get to know you better at that instant, it doesn't mean she is cheap. She knows what she's doing.

The struggle for males should be to find that woman who loves them more than he loves her. . . 5 star thread.[/color]