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Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

coolangel54:
When I went for my past ante natal, the head doctor felt a tumor in me and said it was fibroid. Today makes it two months post partum and I just did a pelvic scan. To my surprise, there really is fibroid in me. . It's subserous and measuring 3.7*2.1cm. Can it be shrunk as I dread surgery since it is not big? Please, help me out here with advise, etc. Thanks

zinny20:
This thread is for first time and regular international travellers, who don't mind having a travel buddy/ Company while on board, no strings attached.

Write your travel destination,
Departure date,
Departure city/state
Departure Airport
Airline
And any other necessary information


Guyana
14th July
Lagos
Murtala Mohammed
Ethiopian airline
Will love to have a company on board, because this my first International flight

Imustreturn:
if ur in Lagos I could give u a contact at mmia. A supervisor at Emirates airlines.