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Politics › Re: Middle East Developments: Police Reassures Nigerians Of Sustained Security by ZombieDredd: 6:03am On Mar 02
Clowns in leadership positions.

Nigeria ntooorrr
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 5:58am On Mar 02
Mirasteel:
For your Zombee mind 😂
Choke on the pain.
Eat it for breakfast today

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:56pm On Mar 01
Reference:
That is where game management comes in. You know Chelsea will continue attack because they need the win so you craft the tactics to handle that.

Against tougher teams these issues will show.
Raya saved the day today. The stress wasn't necessary at all.
Arsenal won and you are still this bitter, haba mana.

This is a derby game oo.

DERBY GAME.

Abi you think Chelsea would have rolled overr?

The boys did well and am proud of them.

Take one malt for my head and relax
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:53pm On Mar 01
Usmanovic95:
I guess it's PGMOL that made you collect 3 beating in the space of 2months. I don talk am saying na arsenal go do Chelsea funeral this season.
Arteta dey keel dem well well grin grin

see there tears full thread
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:38pm On Mar 01
doctore212:
Chelsea just equalised.
2-2




Game on.
Permission to wake up
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:37pm On Mar 01
Winterhaven:
This Arsenal team is bang average, getting outplayed at home by 10 men.

If not for chelsea's indiscipline, who dash arsenal 3 points...
Oya lick your catarrh and go home
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:34pm On Mar 01
dequir:
Without him Chelsea would have won Arsenal hands down. Raya is certainly a first class GK, he saved a lot of impossible shot at goal.
He should be number one at the world cup, but his coach might go for a taller personality
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:33pm On Mar 01
callmetade:
Actually arsenal scored all the goals... Chelsea can shut the F- up for the remainder of the season now please. Thank you.
Na agbero dem.be, dem no go gree shut up.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:32pm On Mar 01
geoworldedu:
Arsenal FC own Chelsea but doesn't own any single European cup grin
We still own you guys.

Weep and bow for your husband

Shameless lots
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:32pm On Mar 01
geoworldedu:
Arsenal FC own Chelsea but doesn't own any single European cup grin
We still own you guys.

Weep and bow for your husbands
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:31pm On Mar 01
dequir:
Even with one player down, Chelsea continued to put pressure on Arsenal till the end. Though they lost, they certainly impressed me as a strong club.
do you need tissue or wrapper for the tears?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:30pm On Mar 01
Ladies and gentlemen, it's official.

Arsenal FC own chelsea.

but they will still argue grin

Agbero people

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 1st March 2026 by ZombieDredd: 7:02pm On Mar 01
Chelsea red card na like rising of the sun.

E too sure
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ayatollah Alireza Arafi Named As Iran's Interim Leader (Photo) by ZombieDredd: 4:34pm On Mar 01
Where is madridguy grin cheesy grin grin grin

Come and boast with this one, make he collect next week
Politics › Re: There Are Terrorists In Nigeria Who Want Peace - NSA Nuhu Ribadu by ZombieDredd: 3:47pm On Mar 01
givedemwotowoto:
This is the National Security Adviser to President Bola Tinubu 👀

Let that sink in
.e say wether we like it or not oo grin

Imagine security architecture in hands of terrorists sympathizers.

That why the country is a zoo
Sports › Re: FIFA Negotiating With White House On Iran World Cup Participation by ZombieDredd: 3:41pm On Mar 01
RollinTNDA:
Replace Iran with Nigeria at world cup
No be nigerian politics dem dey talk oo
Politics › Re: Throwback Photos Of Buhari And Ayatollah Khamenei by ZombieDredd: 3:17pm On Mar 01
Incognito403:
You mean Fox News and CNN stats?

Lol, the hell that you created and share the visa?
Double tragedy for you this week

Politics › Re: Tinubu Announces That Naira Cards Are Now Accepted For Transactions Worldwide by ZombieDredd: 12:12pm On Mar 01
I remember when we used to buy random stuff on Alibaba back in the years with our cards.

This one no be news na, na Una still spoil am...APC undecided
Foreign Affairs › Re: Freedom For Iranian Women As They Begin To Remove Their Hijabs On The Streets by ZombieDredd: 12:10pm On Mar 01
One day nigerians will dance in the streets like this
Foreign Affairs › Re: Freedom For Iranian Women As They Begin To Remove Their Hijabs On The Streets by ZombieDredd: 12:08pm On Mar 01
CyynthiaKiss:


Nlfpmod Nlfpmod
Good make breeze enter Una hair small, as it was before the 70s.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ayatollah Ali Khamenei's Dead Body Found In Rubble by ZombieDredd: 12:06pm On Mar 01
Mattswaggz:
Where is the pics though.....this info needs to be well verified because different contradicting one's are flying around.


If true then Israel has delivered a major blow to Iran.
See him with his virgins.

If you zoom out, you will see buhari with his own virgins.

Virgins na water

Politics › Re: Throwback Photos Of Buhari And Ayatollah Khamenei by ZombieDredd: 12:02pm On Mar 01
Incognito403:
Iran is safer and more peaceful than Israel.
Leave that southeast salad for those who don't travel.
The stats are out already.

They are not emotional, cry because your ayatollah is with buhari in hell
Politics › Re: Throwback Photos Of Buhari And Ayatollah Khamenei by ZombieDredd: 10:12am On Mar 01
Incognito403:
Has peace returned to the south east?

Is there peace in the US?
South east is most peaceful in Nigeria as at today.

US is safer and more peaceful than iran
Politics › Re: Throwback Photos Of Buhari And Ayatollah Khamenei by ZombieDredd: 10:07am On Mar 01
CyynthiaKiss:
Throwback Photos Of Late Buhari And Late Iranian Leader, Ayatollah Khamenei
Buhari will share his virgins with ayatollah grin cheesy
Christianity Etc › Re: A Lady's Guide To Protecting Her Body From Sexual Abuse by ZombieDredd: 10:05am On Mar 01
Beyond the Dark Alley: 5 Uncomfortable Truths About Personal Safety You Need to Know

1. Introduction: The Myth of the Stranger

It is a natural human instinct to look for danger in the shadows of a dark alleyway or to fear the unknown figure lurking in a corner. We are conditioned to equate safety with the absence of strangers. However, true personal safety begins with a gentle but firm shift in perspective: awareness is not the same as fear; it is wisdom.

To navigate the world with peace, we must recognize that we were not fashioned to be hunted, violated, or silenced. We are "cities of value." Just as ancient civilizations built walls not because they were weak, but because the life within was worth protecting, we must establish intentional boundaries. Understanding the reality of how safety is compromised is the first step toward walking in the fullness of your dignity.

2. Takeaway 1: Danger Rarely Wears a Mask

It is a heavy truth to carry, but the data shows us that safety is most often challenged in the places we call home. While we are taught to be wary of the unknown, the reality is that harm rarely arrives as a stranger in a mask. Instead, it occurs in our homes, offices, schools, religious centers, and even our vehicles.

Most often, abuse is committed by those we already know and trust—relatives, colleagues, romantic partners, and spiritual leaders. These individuals may use that hard-earned trust as a weapon, spending months building a connection specifically to exploit it. Accepting this is not meant to paralyze us with suspicion; it is meant to "wake us up" so that our discernment remains active, even in familiar circles.

"Predators use trust as a weapon, spending weeks or months earning it before exploiting it."

3. Takeaway 2: The Power of the "Small No"

Predators rarely begin with a major violation; they utilize predictable patterns of boundary testing. Before a predator crosses a major line, they look for specific indicators of vulnerability. They often seek out those who are isolated, emotionally wounded, or new to an environment. They assess these individuals by offering "small" inappropriate touches or comments to see what will be tolerated.

The "agreeableness trap" is a common obstacle here. Many of us are conditioned to be polite, to keep the peace, and to avoid the social discomfort of being "difficult." Predators rely on this silence. They may even use guilt or obligation as a currency, using phrases like "after everything I’ve done for you" to buy your compliance. Remember: how someone handles a "minor refusal" reveals everything about how they will handle an important one. Anyone who responds with hostility or pressure because you enforced a personal boundary has just validated why that boundary was so necessary.

4. Takeaway 3: The Four Walls of Personal Defense

Guarding your life requires establishing clear boundaries across four key areas. These are not acts of hostility; they are acts of self-respect rooted in the understanding that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

* Physical: You have the absolute right to define who touches you and in what context. Recognize that going alone to a private location with someone you do not deeply trust is a boundary crossing in itself.
* Emotional: Be cautious of those who work unusually hard to become an "emotional anchor" too quickly. Protecting your heart means identifying those who create dependency and obligation before their intentions are clear.
* Digital: Maintain permanent control over your image. Once an intimate image leaves your hands, you lose all control over it forever.
* Verbal: You are not required to laugh politely at inappropriate comments or "locker room talk." A calm, firm script is entirely sufficient: "I am not comfortable with that."

5. Takeaway 4: Instinct is Wisdom, Not Rudeness

We are often gifted with an "inner voice" or a spirit of discernment that flags warnings long before our logical minds can process them. Far too often, we "reason away" these signals because we don't want to seem rude or judgmental.

Do not silence that inner voice. Your love or respect for a partner, a family member, or a pastor you admire does not neutralize a threat they may pose. Recognizing a red flag—such as someone steering you away from your friends or using disrespectful language toward women generally—is an act of self-preservation, not a betrayal of the other person.

"Do not silence that inner voice. It is not rude to trust your instincts. It is wisdom."

6. Takeaway 5: Naming the Act to Strip Ambiguity

Your voice is a tactical weapon. Predators rely on your shame, your silence, and your fear of causing trouble.

When a boundary is pushed, name the behavior directly: "You just touched me without my permission."

Naming the act strips away the ambiguity the predator hides behind. It puts them on notice and alerts those around you.

Remember that "No" is a complete sentence. It requires no justification, apology, or negotiation. It is valid whether delivered in a shout or a whisper.

Getting yourself out of a situation is always the victory; you do not have to win an argument to justify your exit.

If a violation has occurred, report it when you are able. Raising your voice in a formal report is an act of justice that may protect the next woman.

Conclusion: Walking in Dignity

The goal of this awareness is to empower you to walk in dignity. You were made by a Creator who calls you by name, who sees every wound, and who is in the business of making beautiful things from broken ones. Nothing that has been done to your body changes your standing or diminishes the worth placed in you before you drew your first breath.

If your boundaries are walls designed to protect a city of great value, how strong are your gates today?

"She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future." — Proverbs 31:25
Foreign Affairs › Re: Lucky Soul, He Died In Jihad’ – Sheikh Gumi Reacts To Ali Khamenei’s Death by ZombieDredd: 9:49am On Mar 01
Gerhards:
Don’t mind people like FREESTUFF, Madridguy and Richtaiwo, someone should please check on this people if they are still alright till this morning
Since last night their tongues don cleft to their teeth grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran’s Supreme Leader, Ayatollah Khamenei Dead Or Alive? by ZombieDredd: 5:45pm On Feb 28
ChangetheChange:
Breaking Iran’s Supreme Leader Ayatollah Khamenei has been reportedly killed after Israeli military strikes on an underground bunker facility where of top Iranian leaders alongside Military leaders including Ayatollah Khamenei were meeting.
More details soon

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Alllahhhuuuuu akkbbaaarrrrrrrrr grin grin grin grin grin grin. Booooooommmmmmm
Politics › Re: NSCDC Vehicle Crushes Female Officer To Death During Show Of Force In Abuja by ZombieDredd: 5:42pm On Feb 28
3seriez:
Was she sitting already on the floor? I can't seem to see where they hit her from the video
I think she tumbled from the vehicle
Politics › Re: Ondo: ‎suspend Night Worship For Now — Police Tell Religious Leaders by ZombieDredd: 5:52pm On Feb 27
close down activities so that terrorists can have a field day grin
Politics › Re: Declining Electricity Output Caused By Lack Of Gas And Generation Shortfalls by ZombieDredd: 5:50pm On Feb 27
Blazebond:
See Dem justifying a price hike in the electricity price like the novice that they are,they think paying 50000 for one kilowatt will automatically make the electricity available.
grin
emilokan and agbado logic na grin grin

increase tariff and light will stabilise.
Politics › Re: Declining Electricity Output Caused By Lack Of Gas And Generation Shortfalls by ZombieDredd: 5:49pm On Feb 27
naptu2:
It's inevitable, the ridiculous subsidy has got to go!
How many times will subsidy go?

someone once said "subsidy is gone".

Or didn't it go that time?

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