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Why is it difficult for some people to separate THEIR JOB FROM RELATIONSHIP.

Your BOSS is not have a crush on you, but she is angry that you are dating a close relation of hers .

And more embarrassing is that you are meeting  each other at her family house.

My guy no boss in Nigeria will tolerate that to them it is disrespectful.

If you want to enjoy your work always do your job  in a very-professional way and trying staying way from any relative of hers(YOUR BOSS).

OR ELSE ONE DAY SHE WILL DISGRACE YOU OPENLY.

I AM TELLING YOU FROM EXPERIENCE.

General rules for "professionals" with aspirations: 

Never "Shit" where you "eat". Wimps could, if they so wish. you cant afford it!!

o'l boy!! Na this guy dem say touch Genevieve? Almost sure that cannot be!! Haba!!

what?!! LHM!

@poster.

so many things have been said and most are good advices worthy of note, but the fundamental truth that has not been emphasized is that, you cant get the "right" spouse for you by your own efforts. Believe me, you need eyes sharper and a wisdom higher yours and you can only get that by involving God intelligently in your search. This means its not only you or only Him, but a joint effort.

My wife was one of the least qualified of all the friends i had, but there was this cosistent tug in my heart towards her especially when am on my knees asking for help. It takes that much effort dear cos its a permanent contract. After yielding and we started daing, then courting, i discovered that indeed shes an awesomely rare personalty. Now married to her, every day is just a glorious experience.

Pls Note: I didnt say let God do it all, but involve Him intelligently in your search.

Alll the best

@MRbrownJAY. you've summarised all the answer to this great myth. People can go all round and spend years to labour/heart aches but would still have to come back to the truth you shared.

may be you should start off with being honest with yourself and the house. Were you truly just hanging out? Even tho that doesnt justify your actions but we should start from a litttle sincerity. We could move on from there

I think people should learn to be more responsible, particularly if you a public figure. Many young people would be negatively infleunced by such reckless lifestyle

In this age and time? Its so amazing how some people use their own seasons of fortune!

In this age and time? Its so amazing how some people use their own seasons of fortune!