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RomanceRe: Its Better The Devil U Know Than The Angel U Dont Know, True? by 009kk: 10:07pm On Jul 08, 2009
@ sexybabes
i know it hurts badly but just have to take it like that. my advice is that if your ex is sincere that he wants you back and you still love him,go ahead. but if things does not workout well move ahead with life and when you come across another guy don't expect 100% from him that he will not cheat. good luck my dear i really feel for you.the moment my girlfriend agreed that we start dating, we prayed together that evening commiting the relationship to God so please be prayerful because that is  one thing that has sustained my relationship for the past 5yrs is that we pray together for the relationship and by His grace we will get married soon.
Cheers!
RomanceRe: Its Better The Devil U Know Than The Angel U Dont Know, True? by 009kk: 10:04pm On Jul 08, 2009
@ sexybabes
i know it hurts badly but just have to take it like that. my advice is that if your ex is sincere that he wants you back and you still love him,go ahead. but if things does not workout well move ahead with life and when you come across another guy don't expect 100% from him that he will not cheat. good luck my dear i really feel for you.the moment my girlfriend agreed that we start dating, we prayed together that evening commiting the relationship to God so please be prayerful because that is one thing that has sustained my relationship for the past 5yrs is that we pray together for the relationship and by His grace we will get married soon.
Cheers!
RomanceRe: Please I Want To Know Cos I Am Worried by 009kk(op): 9:24pm On Jul 08, 2009
@ igwe
thanks for wishing us safe journey becos i am flying with her. i just applied for 3weeks off at my working place and i know by tomorrow it will be granted
RomanceRe: Please I Want To Know Cos I Am Worried by 009kk(op): 8:33pm On Jul 08, 2009
@ igwe
there is no possibility for us to get married because she is going next week to kastina
RomanceRe: Please I Want To Know Cos I Am Worried by 009kk(op): 7:58pm On Jul 08, 2009
@all
thanks dear for the advice. not that i don't trust her,its just that i am so scared becos when we started going out she confessed to me that she sleept with somebody and that she could not cope with the guilt in her conscience and she told me of which i forgive her. that was back in 2005.but i trust her. its just that when i read some post of her guyz shagg girls during their NYSC i became scared
Igwe.:
[color=#006600]How long are you planning on encaging this woman? just curious bro! shocked come to answer your question, is your wife that easy to sleep with? your assumption is absolutely false based on the wide experience i had on camp .
@ igwe, are you telling me it is not possible[/color]
RomancePlease I Want To Know Cos I Am Worried by 009kk(op): 6:31pm On Jul 08, 2009
after reading so many post about guyz shagging, i am scared of allowing my girlfriend go for her NYSC. i just want to know if it is possible for a guy to sleep with a girl during the 3weeks orientation camp. because i have made her know that after the 3weeks she is coming back and she will not be doing her primary assignment after the camp. so please let me know if it is possible
RomanceRe: Can U Be On The Train Of An Ex's Wedding? by 009kk: 5:57pm On Jul 08, 2009
NO NO NO!!!
not even if we parted on a very good note
RomanceRe: Its Better The Devil U Know Than The Angel U Dont Know, True? by 009kk: 4:21pm On Jul 08, 2009
When i was so angry at him & a friend of mine told me what her mom said to her when her bf cheated on her that 95% men cheats & 5% is taken. I felt like screaming, imagine that coming from a grown up woman like that.

@ sexybabes the mom is damn right. most married women even know that their hubbys cheat on them sometimes but they still continue to love him becos he never shys away from his family responsiblities. i have a uncle in one of the higher universities in the south south. we all know he cheats on his wife and i strongly believe the wife knws that too because his name was pasted in a website that he sleeps with female students alot. but i tell you he does not joke with his family

touchmeder:
Thats what they say you are most likely to cheat again in marriage. what you have been doing for the past 5years in a serious relationship will not leave u immediately after marriage if the opportunity presents itself again (and believe me it will) you are most likely to fall.
@ touchmeder i know i will not cheat on her when we get married. there was a tym i made up my mind that i was not going to do that and believe me, for one and a half year i did not cheat becos i made up my mind not to do it
RomanceRe: Its Better The Devil U Know Than The Angel U Dont Know, True? by 009kk: 3:16pm On Jul 08, 2009
sexybabes:
I think I understand this now. Because I broke up with my guy i dated for 2years coz he cheated on me. Dated a very honest guy whom i don't think he will ever cheat on me but he is got a baby mama drama. He just found out that mother of his twins moved in at his house back home and now his parents are insisting that he marry her, they even sending her here to him soon. And im not even interested in fighting this coz its a loosing battle.
So now I'm considering getting back with my guy as he has been apologizing and begging me to take him back. Why is this love thing so confusing?
feasy1:
Sexybabes, most at times i prefer to go with this school of thought, though debatable its said that in most relationship the spouse probably has 80% of what the other person expects from him/her and should be able to make do with the 20% lacking or discuss how to make the 80, 90% thereabout over time, while the partner might complain and walk out from the relationship cos of the "20%" he/she will soon realize the new found love might not get a good score not to talk of an average.

If you are sure your former guy is still in love with you and since you mentioned you've been through a lot together, i'll suggest you give him a try again while you watch your back, the 80% might be in there

Wish you good luck
i believe both of you should know dat not less 75% of guys in a relationship do cheat on their gurl friends. the fact that they do this does not mean they dont love their gf. most guyz in a relationship give 80% to their gf and 20% to the gurls they cheat with. and i think that is fair enough. likewise girls, they also have guyz whom they love and give 80% and at they same time they give 20% to the one they cheat with. i am in a serious relationship for 5yrs now and i do cheat on my gurl friend ones in a while but the truth is that i love her 99% and any other gurl is 1% to me at least until we get married. so let me tell you dat it will be diff to get a 100% man.
cheers
RomanceRe: Do You Classify This As Defacing Of A Woman's Pride? Please Ladies And Gents! by 009kk: 4:52am On Jul 07, 2009
well i really don't like it. i have met this gurl and after sleeping with her, she started asking for a relationship she kept on telling me that she loves me and we should date. i told her i cannot double date becos i have a gf dat i love so much.
RomanceRe: Why Guys Cheat by 009kk: 4:36am On Jul 07, 2009
guyz cheat, gurls cheat. to the question Why Guys Cheat? i cheat on my gf only when she provokes me and we have little misunderstanding. but the thing is that the gurls i sleep with also have boyfriends. so why are they sleeping with me when they have boy friends. to the poster, let me say 80% of guyz cheat and 70% of gurls cheat full stop
RomanceRe: Pls Help, I by 009kk: 3:05am On Jul 04, 2009
davidylan:
does anyone really believe this poster is for real? grin
i think the poster is stupid
Dating And Meet-up ZoneSugar Mummy Please by 009kk(op): 2:15am On Jul 04, 2009
please i need a sugar mama in delta state or edo state 26-50ys. dis is my contact 08054392348
i am damn serious. please don't flash me

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