Másturbation is the
process of
bringing about a voluntary
excitement of the sexual
centers
following generally by the
discharge of semen,
through
some method other than
normal
sexual intercourse. In other
words, "Másturbation"
means
ejaculation of semen by
hand.
There are various devices
resorted to for the
purpose, but
because of the hand to
practise
it, it is widely known as
"Hand
Practice". This habit is also
known as "Self-Abuse",
since it
is done by one's own self
by his
own hand.
There are exceptions,
when
másturbation is also done
by
some one else i. e., one
engages
one's own wife for this
act and
rather prefers it even to
normal
coitus. This sort of device
is
found among those who
are
accustomed to hard
friction and
this habit is formed since
childhood and therefore
they
cannot derive much thrill
and
pleasure from normal
coitus. The
other common device is to
lie
down on the abdomen and
rubbing
the penis against the
pillow or
the bed as if performing
the
sexual intercourse and to
discharge semen with thrill
and
pleasure.
There is haradly any young
man
who does not másturbate
at one
time or the other. The
self-abuse
is the prime cause of
various
sexual disorders and it is
one of
the earliest abuses when a
boy
engages himself in this evil
act.
Másturbation has serious
consequences since it
drains the
young men of his vital
forces and
in many case it causes
impotency,
if it is over-indulged.
Therefore,
parents are advised to
keep a
watch on their children
against
all possible factors which
can
tempt their children
to másturbate.
Following are some of the
causes
which incites young men to
undertake this evil
practice :
The main cause is bad
company,
where children hear and
discuss
sexual topics and in the
bad
society they themselves
engaged
in másturbation collectively
without any shame. This is
the
very first and wrong step
which
leads to many bad
practices to
play with the immature
sexual
organs at the very tender
age.
Since this evil act gives
intense
pleasure, they keep on
doing
quite regularly without
knowing
the adverse effects of
the másturbation in the
future to
come. If this practice is
over
done, it ruins the
matrimonial
lives due to impotency.
Secondly, house servants
also
incite young boys to this
vice by
playing with their sexual
organs.
Thus, parents should keep
an
open eyes and they should
not
allow their children for
longer
hours to be with their
domestic
servants in seclusion.
Furthermore, sending their
boys
to distant schools along
with
their young children,
without any
supervision, may also lead
to
similar consequences since
servants can caress the
children
if they find lonely road or
place.
Further, young children
should
also not be carried on
cycles in
front of the servants or in
a car
beside the driver.
Not only domestic
servants, but
even young friends or
relatives
should be relied upon.
Therefore,
children should not be
allowed to
sleep on a common bed
along with
the relatives or friends as
some
of them may pollute the
children
or young boys.
It has also been found that
in
many instances, the young
ones
are taught the first sexual
lesson by the maid-
servants.
Thus, boys should not be
allowed
to be with maid-servants
in
seclusion or to lie in the
same
bed.
The parents, in the best
interest
of the boy's future, they
should
also take guard to avoid
his boy
to lying in the same bed
with
other young ladies who are
separated from their
husbands
since it has also been
noticed on
several occasions that
such
ladies due to their
ungratified
sexual desire, they lure the
boy
to spoil him.
Furthermore, sleeping more
than
one children in the same
bed
should also be avoided,
since
they may handle one
another's
male organ. Once they are
habitual of this, they would
like
to másturbate in seclusion
places like bathroom,
latrine or in
lonely places.
The parents should also
take
care not to indulge
themselves in
interecourse where the
children
are present since it is one
of the
prime cause of this evil as
the
children imitate their
parents out
of their curiosity.
Another cause which
invites boy
to másturbate is the
uncleanliness of the genital
organ, since collection of
smegma
in the pit of glans leads to
sexual
excitement in several
cases.
Therefore, daily cleanliness
of
the genital is needed.
The other cause of
másturbation
is rectal worms. The
worms
cause irritation to the
anus and
consequently it gives rise
to
erection of penis. In such
circumstances, boy handles
his
penis which gives intense
pleasure to másturbate
and
later it forms the habit
of másturbation.
Over and above, following
are
also the causes to excite
sexual
organs to másturbate :
Chronic Constipation;
Excessive use of sour
foods;
Excessive use of
stimulating
diets such as meat, eggs,
tea,
etc;
Seeing of sexual and love
scenes
in T. V., cinemas;
Reading of amorous
literature,
novels, etc; and
Talking of sexual problems
with
young ladies in seclusion.
There is no definite age is
fixed
to commence this abuse
since
long before the attainment
of
puberty, boys have been
found
involved in this practice.
Once the habit of
másturbation
becomes the part and
parcel of
life, among young
unmarried boy
it may also resort to
prostitution,
which invites horrible
venereal
diseases.
Some of the after-effects
of másturbation are:
The nervous system is
affected
the most.
Besides the heart, the
digestive
system, the urinary
system as
well as the other systems
are
adversely affected and
consequently the whole
body
becomes the museum of
diseases
with profound weakness.
The eyes become sunken,
the
cheek bones protrude and
there
is a black rim round the
eyes.
Continuous headache and
backache.
Dizziness and loss of
memory.
Palpitation of heart on
lightest
exertion.
Nervousness.
Unable to perform any
heavy
physical or mental work.
The person dislikes any
company
and activities and rather
likes to
sit in seclusion and suffers
from
weakness.
All the senses are impaired.
Vision becomes dim, the
tongue
begins to stammer and
ears tend
to become deaf etc.
Lastly T. B. or insanity or
some
other serious disease
catch hold
of the victim to lead his life
to a
close.
Impotency.
Therefore, young men are
advised to consult a
qualified and
honest homoeopathic
practitioner
for his expert advice and
effective treatment
instead of
wasting his money with
quacks.
Further, those young men
who
are or have been engaged
in the
regular habits of
másturbation
should not ignore the
necessity
to consult the qualified
homoeopaths to avoid
sexual
embarrassment at the time
of
marriage.
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