jennykadry: You are askin us for advise on whether to divorce that stoopid man and his entire generation or not? You are an eediot, instead of you to go down on your knees and thank God that you came out of that house Alive and childless, you are here talking about confusion.

Go back you hear, when they kill you there your spirt can log on to nairaland and ask for advise. Ode

Anu ewu

reema_25: Thanks for the response and Yes i understand but he is emotional too but when it comes to his mother's wish he always supports his mother ,although i am working and making good money too but not sure about my future if i will get good person or not , but why he can not understand this if i am his wife then he has some responsibilities for me too , at the initial stage he had this feeling but now he has lost that feeling ........

megareal: You are simply being used and when your usefulness expires, you'll be promptly dumped. I wonder the level of self hate that would make any woman go through this nonsense. You better get out while you can and stop living in fools paradise. [size=13pt]You don't need advice, you only need to make a personal decision to be happy, loved and respected on your own terms[/size]

Sisi_Kill: Jenny I think she's Indian. . .She means 7000 Rupees!

I actually. . .honestly don't know what to say in this matter.

jennykadry:

Abeg check the Id you are replying to. Too many Jenny's around.

jennykadrry: This is sad. The girl is not Nigerian. I quote "and she even told openly from my parents that if I want to live in their home then I need to pay 7000/- rs to them Per month", they don't spend "7000/- rs" in Nigeria or in Oz where I am. She sounds Indian. Anyway if she was a LovePeddler like me and my gals on NL she wouldn't need to worry about all this. Lesson girls, be like us.

reema_25: I have been married for the last 10 months and my husband is totally mamas boy, and most of the time my mother in law is very sweet with me and once I am not in front of her she starts complaining about me from her son , When our maid does not come then In front of her son she will pretend and will tell me to give my clothes to wash so that she can get sympathy from my husband and always she keeps on telling my husband not to spend money on me as, as per her if daughther in law is working it is her responsibility to bear her own expenses and she even told openly from my parents that if I want to live in their home then I need to pay 7000/- rs to them Per month , at that moment I felt so bad but for the sake of my marriage my parents got agree as they did not want to destroy my married life but from that day I am totally feeling like a tenant in their home who has to pay money to live in the house and I have no love for my husband too as he did not support me while his mother was keeping this point in front of my parents. And my husband had feeling of responsibility at the initial stage that I am his wife so he should incur my expenses but now my MIL has also changed his mentality that I am working so I will bear my expenses own and will give them money ,pls. advise what to do as I am very fed up of my mother in law interference . And in the influence of my mother in law my husband has beaten me up 3-4 times now i am living with my parents for the last 2.5 months , my mil is very greedy and my husband does whatever she tells him , now he called up to come back to his home but i need to pay him money too as i am working and has to do household work too but he will not help at all as he is the man but when it comes to money then he does not remember his responsibility , my mil wants me to incur household expenses as well as household work too.

It seems that i do not have any worth in their home , husband is neither interested to take financial responsibility nor household work responsibility , pls. advice what should i do as i am living at my parents place , even my mil has called up my relatives while i was living with my husband 2-3 times just to decide who will take financial responsibility of household expenses , she is a greedy women who always think about money and even my husband was supporting her while she called up my relatives, but now my parents have tired of their greediness and they want me to take divorce as they find no future and financial security with this guy ,pls. suggest i am very confused whether i should give divorce or not

Reema