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My Story,my Regrets And My Reconciliations..a Must Read.. by Arrowman(m): 5:44pm On Aug 26, 2012
FOR
MARRIED COUPLES
AND ALSO FOR THE
SINGLES COZ ONE DAY U
WILL GET MARRIED...Enjoy
the Story!!!!! My name is
Dayo. I’m a typical
Nigerian guy and I cherish
my
Fridays a lot; I get to hang
out with
the sickest guys every
Friday night
and secondly, It’s
another escape from
my nagging and boring
wife. I get confused
sometimes on whether
she’s my
mother or my wife. Don’t
get it
twisted; I love her pieces.
It just gets
complicated; like I wish we
never got
married…marriag e has
turned her into
something that doesn’t
amuse me. I wish she
was still the adventurous,
charming, high spirited lady
I dated
for five years. A lot of
people say its unethical
for
married guys to be found
in a club, but
I wish everyone won’t be
too quick to
judge and understand that
people look
for fun to run away from
their
problems; they just want
to breathe, like me. I
forgot to say that I work
in
Guarantee Trust Bank
along Lekki,
I
love my job and my job
loves me, maybe
its because I’m the
senior banking
officer. Lol. This particular
morning,
a lady breezed into my
office. My heart raced
faster because I had not
sighted anything this
beautiful in a
long while. She wasn’t
the typical
slender Barbie, in fact, she
was a bit
chubby but her smile,
cuteness and…I
was tripped. “Hi Good
morning! Your ATM has
swallowed my card!” She
laughed,
unlike a typical customer
that would
ram you. I just tried to
form Boss laughter…
“Good morning, You know
what? I’d
personally make sure they
get it out for
you, but not today. Can
you wait till
Monday?” I smiled “GTB
shaaa! OK, can I just
drop my
number so you could call
me up or just
text when its ready so I
don’t come
twice? Please? My name is
Nancy” She
blinked her eyes in a funny
way. “Sure” I
smiled We exchanged
numbers. What a lucky
Friday! So it was 10:00pm
and I headed to
the
club…as usual my friends
were
chilling for me. My wife had
called a
couple of times, I just
ignored it. She
knows I’m never home
Friday nights. “Look at
you!” I heard someone
say. I
raised my head and it was
the ATM
lady-Nancy. “Wow, look
at you too!” I was
surprised
to see her but I was
happy I didn’t have
to wait till Monday to see
her again.
“Happy Friday!” She
screamed
because of the noise,
“Wanna dance?” I
didn’t
even have the chance to
answer,
she already pulled me to
dance floor.I
really suck at dancing but
she helped
me; she was a great
dancer! I had fun!
At some point we decided
to go to a
private area and we
talked, ranging from
work, business to personal
life. I
tried to hide my ring as
much as
possible, I certainly didn’t
want this to
end now. “You are a
really wonderfullady. You
are so interesting…any
guy would want
to be with you all day” I
said. “I wasn’t always
like this but I have
learned the hard way that
life is just
too short to be sad” she
sang Then her
phone rang… “Hey baby!
Yeah I’m at the
private
lounge, I’d like you to
meet someone…
alright boo” she talked
excitedly as
usual.
I was in shock until this tall
handsome
man walks up to her and
kisses her. “You
were late. Meet Dayo; I
met him
this morning, he’s helping
with your
ATM I told you got
swallowed and
Dayo this is my B to the O-
O,” she
laughed “Meet my
husband Kolade, we
only come here to dance
every fortnight
Friday; away from work,
stress and
kids.” “Wow, a
pleasure” I managed to
shake
him Then she stood now
excitedly holding
her husband’s arms.
“Why don’t we invite
Dayo for Mimi’s
16th birthday tomorrow?”
Her husband
said They have kids too?
How long have
they been married and
they look likea
couple just dating! “Silly
me, please come for
my second
daughter’s 16th
tomorrow. It would be
an honor” She brought
out an I.V from
her purse. I began to feel
so ashamed of
myself…
this was another guy like
me, gettingit
right with one woman.
I collected the I.V and
promised to be
there. “See you
tomorrow! Have you had
something to eat
Kolade?” she talked
and dragged her husband
along. They left
and I kept staring at the
thin air like I had seen a
ghost. They
come just to dance
together every
fortnight Fridays? Why
didn’t I
think of that! Temi loves to
dance…she
also likes long walks, she
loves to talk…she
loves jazz music, there’s
this
vivid picture I have of me
putting her
hand on my chest when
we danced at a
jazz club on our first year
anniversary…I found
myself typing
all the things I knew Temi
loved to do on my
Ipad and I realized I had
denied
her of all…I had made her
the old
woman she acts. What the
hell was I doing
here!
I
didn’t even tell my
friends goodbye, I
walked out of the club into
my Jaguar.
Temi’s call came through
and I picked
at first ring. “Temi?” My
heart raced “I know
you are not coming
home…” “I am, stay up
so
we can gist. Been a
while” I decided to do
everything on
that list and to even add
many more
for the rest of my lifetime
with her. “Are you
alright?” She was
shocked I
suppose “And I’d like us
to go for a birthday
party tomorrow. I want
you to meet this
amazing couple” “You
sound different Dayo”
“Maybe I’m different”
“Don’t say it! don’t
say
it! when you
come we will gist very
well” she
laughed She laughed!!! In
just that laughter
that I hadn’t heard in a
while, she
sounded like the lady I
married six
years ago…
Dear reader, I wrote this
natural piece just to
remind us that creating
memorable
moments with our partner
matters. Do
you know that little things
are the
sweetest things? Just
creating time to
gist and laugh with your
partner, having a
day in the week that’s
exclusively for you both-No
friends or
kids allowed. Lady, when
last have you told
your
partner he is so darn hot?
Guy! When
last have you told your
lady she is the
sweetest thing? When last
have you
whispered ‘Thank
you’? When last have
you been quick to say
‘I’m sorry’? Do you
even
have a clue on what your
partner loves to do? When
you ignorelittle
things, they are
the little pieces of rocks
that build up
to become a mountain you
can’t easily
break down. Pay attention
to little things,
believe
that they work and
experience new bliss
Re: My Story,my Regrets And My Reconciliations..a Must Read.. by Nobody: 12:33am On Aug 27, 2012
my man, please edit this so i can read it.

this isn't a newspaper jor. undecided

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