There is this young man that I've known for 8yrs now
I always saw him as more of a friend!but he wanted more.
He is kind,gentle and has a good heart. He treats me
Like a queen and for d last 2yrs I began 2 see him as
A lover. He just proposed2 me but d thing is-
He has a masters but no job yet. He says he really
Wants 2 get married now. But am thinking about our
Future! Am from an average family nd so is he.
He says he can afford a wedding(I always wanted a small event)
nd a self contain apartment. Am about 2 finish
Service,so I cant help much. Though he started
2 learn his elder brother's trade(still applying for jobs too). what about our daily bread? Is it worth
D risk-going into this without a stable financial
Standing? Can we pull this through? He wants to know
If I can go thru this phase with him? Concrete advice pls. thanks.






Would also need advice on how to plan and hold a moderate wedding
Event considering our situation!

Pls forgive the english construction,its hard 2 navigate
Nairaland on my phone!

Just curious. If you were to marry a man a rich man, and the year after your wedding, he loses his business, his money and all the flashy things that come with being rich. What would you do then?
Also, are you two allergic to registry weddings?

@OP
Life without a stable income is hard, but there are many ways to get an income even without a job. If your man is hard working, he can provide for you both.

Shouldn't he use the money for the wedding and start up the trade he is learning and when profit starts coming in, he can wed. If he finishes the money he has on his hands, na wahala be that o-o. Will you become homeless when the rent expires? Una go begin look una self for face? Love nwanu fit run comot as you no fit shop love when hunger go begin kpeme both of you buhahahaahahahahahahaha.

Don't mind me, I am playing naughty but seriously. Wedding is sweet but what are you gonna eat the morning after the wedding? Is it Ji mmanu/yam in palm oil (whoops that have me salivating already----I must go searching for yam tomorrow morning to have a taste of that again,it's been ages. Never mind, I can make do with Potato if I can't find yam ).Girl yam and oil dey sweet somehow -o-o but no be food for newly married-o-o, you suppose to be having salads and sweet sauces and mede mede after the wedding so better prepare for it.

Kobojunkie: Just curious. If you were to marry a man a rich man, and the year after your wedding, he loses his business, his money and all the flashy things that come with being rich. What would you do then?
Also, are you two allergic to registry weddings?

No we aren't!
I didn't think about d registry,
Thanks tho.

Ivynwa: Shouldn't he use the money for the wedding and start up the trade he is learning and when profit starts coming in, he can wed. If he finishes the money he has on his hands, na wahala be that o-o. Will you become homeless when the rent expires? Una go begin look una self for face? Love nwanu fit run comot as you no fit shop love when hunger go begin kpeme both of you buhahahaahahahahahahaha.

Don't mind me, I am playing naughty but seriously. Wedding is sweet but what are you gonna eat the morning after the wedding? Is it Ji mmanu/yam in palm oil [i](whoops that have me salivating already----I must go searching for yam tomorrow morning to have a taste of that again,it's been ages. Never mind, I can make do with Potato if I can't find yam ).[/i]Girl yam and oil dey sweet somehow -o-o but no be food for newly married-o-o, you suppose to be having salads and sweet sauces and mede mede after the wedding so better prepare for it.

Yeye gal
Odi ka otego I lotara village gi:-)
Anyway I love yam nd besides I no get
Sweet tooth!so we go do d mede mede inside d yam/oil(ever heard of ji na ugba?)

Johndoe100: @OP
Life without a stable income is hard, but there are many ways to get an income even without a job. If your man is hard working, he can provide for you both.

Yes,u are right and he is a hard worker!

Thanks.

1ndidi2:

Yeye gal
Odi ka otego I lotara village gi:-)
Anyway I love yam nd besides I no get
Sweet tooth!so we go do d mede mede inside d yam/oil(ever heard of ji na ugba?)

Ndidi love don dey gbadu you-o-o. I wish you more joy and happiness there.