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Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by donsax: 11:25am On Sep 14, 2012
When she was in high school, Lizzie Velasquez was dubbed "The World's Ugliest Woman" in an 8-second-long YouTube video. Born with a medical condition so rare that just two other people in the world are thought to have it, Velasquez has no adipose tissue and cannot create muscle, store energy, or gain weight. She has zero percent body fat and weighs just 60 pounds.

In the comments on YouTube, viewers called her "it" and "monster" and encouraged her to kill herself. Instead, Velasquez set four goals: To become a motivational speaker, to publish a book, to graduate college, and to build a family and a career for herself.

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Now 23 years old, she's been a motivational speaker for seven years and has given more than 200 workshops on embracing uniqueness, dealing with bullies, and overcoming obstacles. She's a senior majoring in Communications at Texas State University in San Marcos, where she lives with her best friend. Her first book, "Lizzie Beautiful," came out in 2010 and her second, "Be Beautiful, Be You," was published earlier this month.

"The stares are what I'm really dealing with in public right now," she told Dr. Drew Pinsky in an interview on CNN's Headline News this week. "But I think I'm getting to the point where… instead of sitting by and watching people judge me, I'm starting to want to go up to these people and introduce myself or give them my card and say, 'Hi, I'm Lizzie. Maybe you should stop staring and start learning'."

Velasquez was born in San Antonio, Texas; she was four weeks premature and weighed just 2 pounds, 10 ounces. "They told us they had no idea how she could have survived," her mother, Rita, 45, told the Daily Mail. "We had to buy doll's clothes from the toy store because baby clothes were too big." Doctors warned Rita and her husband, Lupe, that their oldest child would never be able to walk or talk, let alone live a normal life. (Her two younger siblings were not affected by the syndrome.)

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Instead, she has thrived. Her internal organs, brain, and bones developed normally, though her body is tiny. Since she has no fatty tissue in which to store nutrients, she has to eat every 15 to 20 minutes to have enough energy to get through the day. One brown eye started clouding over when she was 4 years old, and now she's blind in that eye and has only limited sight in the other.

"Some days life doesn't make sense," she writes in "Be Beautiful, Be You." "You just have to change what you can, ask for help and pray about the rest."

She notes her triumphs and posts inspirational messages on Tumblr, and says that she's learned to embrace the things that make her unique. Instead of trying to retaliate against people who have made her feel badly, she sets goals for herself and pushes herself to succeed in spite of the haters. She's even reclaimed YouTube, video blogging about everything from bullying to hair-styling tips to staying positive.

"I feel really glad that I don't look like the celebrities out there that are so beautiful," she told Dr. Drew. "There's a lot of stereotypes attached to that." Not looking like a supermodel "gives people the opportunity to know you personally," she explains. "If they're willing to take that extra step they'll get to know the person you really are."

Of course, the horrible comments left on that old YouTube video stung (the video has since been removed, but Velasquez says she read every single comment). Now, she says, she understands that they're "just words."

"I'm human, and of course these things are going to hurt," she said. "Their judgements of me isn't who I am, and I'm not going to let these things define me."

"I didn't sink down to their level," she said in a follow-up video on YouTube last year. "Instead, I got my revenge through my accomplishments and determination. In the battle between the 'World's Ugliest Woman' video vs. me, I think I won."


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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by olatwo(m): 10:39am On Sep 16, 2012
undecided undecided will be back in a mo!
Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by Detonatorrex(m): 10:40am On Sep 16, 2012
mehn..na person wife b dis o

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by Nobody: 10:44am On Sep 16, 2012
Monkey no fine but dat one no mean say im mama no go like am embarassed

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by GMacbeth: 10:45am On Sep 16, 2012
Op i think you are going the wrong direction by calling God's creation ugly

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by billante(m): 10:46am On Sep 16, 2012
Look how beautiful her hair is! Woow!

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by liyalla(m): 10:47am On Sep 16, 2012
it is good to have the fear of God. Imagine this woman accomplishing so much even the finest girl in the world has not accomplished.wow this is so motivating. "If you can I can"

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by jcmi(f): 10:48am On Sep 16, 2012
Detonator-rex:
mehn..na person wife b dis o
Who tell u say she don marry?? Amebo
Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by Shaw007(m): 10:49am On Sep 16, 2012
Wow!! I'm like wow!!! Totally short of words. . .even Ppl that are quite 'normal' dont have the kinda confidence this lady has. . .not letting anything let her down even when everyone turns against her(including her own body)

wonderful how her confidence and. . .(cant find that word) has even made her more successful than most pretty ppl. . .wow,i'm learning from this

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by xynerise: 10:50am On Sep 16, 2012
I bet she is prettier than some girls in NL. grin

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by ebamma2(m): 10:51am On Sep 16, 2012
see fine girl,abeg make una give me her number i wan marry am

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by jcmi(f): 10:51am On Sep 16, 2012
this gul is beautiful.she fine pass sm girls for naija.
Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by V8: 10:52am On Sep 16, 2012
Fine hair!
Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by collins123(m): 10:52am On Sep 16, 2012
Life is just...unpredictable.

Same goes to the price of garrie

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by abysirius(m): 10:52am On Sep 16, 2012
Allahu Akbar!

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by ebamma2(m): 10:53am On Sep 16, 2012
Abeg between this girl and Taiye Taiwo who fine pass
Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by jcmi(f): 10:54am On Sep 16, 2012
ebamma2: see fine girl,abeg make una give me her number i wan marry am
werre grin
ebamma2: see fine girl,abeg make una give me her number i wan marry am
werre

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by Chiemekaorizu(m): 10:54am On Sep 16, 2012
Babe prepare fast fast cum 9ja mak I marry u coz u pretty die lwkmd*
Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by martin92(m): 10:55am On Sep 16, 2012
rotflmao. I just lost appetite to eat garri

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by misreal(m): 10:57am On Sep 16, 2012
Dis woman fit mr ibu.nigeria's most ugliest man grin

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by khattab008: 10:58am On Sep 16, 2012
Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by TheKing3: 10:59am On Sep 16, 2012
she's not that ugly. definitely not the ugliest in the world

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by HonSuQMaDIQ(m): 11:01am On Sep 16, 2012
Freecocoa! Berem! Sweetcocoa! Others!
We need ur pictures b4 we can conclude that this woman is the world's ugliest woman.
I bet some of you wey dey run mouth waa waa waa for NL ugly pass am. wink

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by jude33084(m): 11:04am On Sep 16, 2012
Make she enter Ibadan and see if Ŧħåϯ title go follow her go back grin

Her hair alone is worth almost 100k wink

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by onlineadejoh(m): 11:04am On Sep 16, 2012
Unique in her own way!

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by vislabraye(m): 11:04am On Sep 16, 2012
I feel for her. She's got courage.

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by Moukafoam(f): 11:08am On Sep 16, 2012
jude33084: Make she enter Ibadan and see if Ŧħåϯ title go follow her go back grin

Her hair alone is worth almost 100k wink

grin grin grin
Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by Nobody: 11:09am On Sep 16, 2012
Hon. SuQ Ma'DIQ:
Freecocoa! Berem! Sweetcocoa! Others!
We need ur pictures b4 we can conclude that this woman is the world's ugliest woman.
I bet some of you wey dey run mouth waa waa waa for NL ugly pass am. wink
if na joke make you stop am o! If na my pisure you dey find,you go wait tire be that! I fine pass this woman a hundred times!
Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by Nnamdi99(m): 11:09am On Sep 16, 2012
xynerise: I bet she is prettier than some girls in NL. grin
. True talk

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by Nobody: 11:09am On Sep 16, 2012
Beauty is only skin deep!
Confidence is key!

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Re: Lessons From The World's Ugliest Woman- Lizzie Velasquez by Nobody: 11:10am On Sep 16, 2012
I find it hard to believe, that this woman is actually the 'world's ugliest woman'. Trust me i've seen people by far more ugly than this woman.

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