Odunnu: Lately, you've got the weirdest set of friends.
May God help your marriage. Amen.

greatgod2012: one cannot really know what exactly he's doing there, maybe too just catch fun or 4 serious business, who knows, its not right to always think or guess negatively when someone does smthing that is difficult to ask, just continue praying 4 ur friends marriage and 4 her husband dt what u are thinking will not be.
But, btw,u cant really know if dt site was d only site he browsed,maybe he was just passingby, or mistakenly typed d address, who knows, but sincerely, if u really love dt ur friend,start praying 4 her marriiage, if uve not been doing so.
I also have dis notion dt d man cant be so foolish or careless enough to use ur laptop to visit dating site and return it without closing or loggin off,knowing fully well dt u are his wife's friend,it looks somehow,who will want his wife's friend to start disrespecting him?
Cheers!!

rokiatu:

Where in my post did I say this person was a friend like seriously

rokiatu:

This person is not a friend, a relative I must say. He has a profile there so it ain't mistake.

greatgod2012:

then start praying 4 dir marriage.

rokiatu:

This person is not a friend, a relative I must say. He has a profile there so it ain't mistake.

rokiatu:

I am not only praying, I am also very sad here.

Odunnu: Lately, you've got the weirdest set of friends.
May God help your marriage. Amen.

greatgod2012:


helloooo.... My dear sister, a close person is most likely to be a friend or relative. For dt man to come to ur place and even have d gut to use ur laptop, then u can as well be called friends.

Kobojunkie:

Does his profile list him as "married but here to catch fun"?

greatgod2012:

sad 4 what?u are sad over what u think is happening in someone's marriage,(God forbid) what if its ur own, how then will u feel. I dont pray 4 it o, but its advisable 4 every married PERSON to have strong shock-absorber so dt when d unexpected happens, one will easily absorb it. Meanwhile, if u are really close to d wife, try to introduce dis type of forum to her, (i mean family section),jokingly and without telling her anything, so dt she will use various threads and posts read to build shock- absorber 4 herself. But i sincerely pray dt what u are thinking will not be sha!!

rokiatu:
Single.

rokiatu:

I am not only praying, I am also very sad here.

slimyem: have you considered he might have had the account before he got married?
What if he was just checking it up for the sake of it?
I don't even think a man who has skeletons and who knows you are close to his family would use your laptop for something like that.
You are thinking too much for ur friend.Relax and face front joor!

Kobojunkie:

Really? Really?? Look this one . . . do you know how many men have even gone as far as to use their own home laptops(the one the family shares) to do their extra-marital spelunking, from right in their own home? And here we have you suddenly decising that men who have skeletons would not do it on a computer belonging to a close family member . . . na wa for una !!!

rokiatu:

Where in my post did I say this person was a friend like seriously

ifyalways: The husband of a really close person is what now? A fiend ?
What is your friends spouse doing in your house with your laptop sef ? The scenarios you create, Na wao.

My advise : Focus on your marriage and let your friends spouses be.

Btw,how's that your friend that does not know how to welcome her husband,according to you, doing lately ?

Kobojunkie:

Really? Really?? Look this one . . . do you know how many men have even gone as far as to use their own home laptops(the one the family shares) to do their extra-marital spelunking, from right in their own home? And here we have you suddenly decising that men who have skeletons would not do it on a computer belonging to a close family member . . . na wa for una !!!

slimyem: wow!
Calm down!
I'm not deciding anything...
I said "i don't think"!
I'm assuming just like op's doing in this case..
I'm not the man in question but if i were and had something to hide,i wouldnt use my friend's laptop on a dating site and leave the page on mistakenly for her to make her own deductions off my actions or inactions.
You are making assumptions same way i am..
Simple!

Odunnu: Lately, you've got the weirdest set of friends.
May God help your marriage. Amen.

Kobojunkie:

First off, the person who needs to calm down here is you with the false stories.huh?
Where have i told any stories in my post?
There are hundreds of thousands of stories of cheaters cheating from their home laptops. Some even go as far as Video Chatting with their partners in crime right from their own bedrooms, while their spouse is asleep.- that is not the point in this case!

I don't think one has to be a man to find these stories online. There is making an assumption and making a claim. You made a claim which is baseless.-how does the words "I DON'TTHINK" correlate to making a claim?
What claim did i make madam? ??
I haven't edited my post.you could go back to look it up again..

This man may have wanted to check his online pals so he could drive to see em after leaving the @Op's places.this is your assumption based on the op's post same way i made mine.where is the problem? These days changing one's profile status only requires the click of a button. I am not sure how many times a married man/woman would need to log on to any of their social network accounts before realizing it is time to change marital status. At some weddings, the couple are told to update it as soon as they are pronounced man and wife. I mean will it also take him/her that long to update his/her employment status or title?-are you asking me?
Why not ask the op who knows the man better or tell the op to ask the man in question herself?

OYINBOGOJU: [size=18pt]Rokiatu is a Gossip
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Why do you love to bring all your friends,relations and family issue here for public to know you have got weird people around you?

May God guard your way.