ifyalways: The husband of a really close person is what now? A fiend ?
What is your friends spouse doing in your house with your laptop sef ? The scenarios you create, Na wao.

My advise : Focus on your marriage and let your friends spouses be.

Btw,how's that your friend that does not know how to welcome her husband,according to you, doing lately ?

U re very observant, so u re following her thread always!

He might not necessarily be there for flirting ,who knows if he is there to make some illegal doe.

And how will that illegal do be made? Let me guess, he is going to a dating site to solicit other men?

Kobojunkie: And how will that illegal do be made? Let me guess, he is going to a dating site to solicit other men?

Kobojunkie: And how will that illegal do be made? Let me guess, he is going to a dating site to solicit other men?

Some scammers trap ladies desperate for marriage and make them send money to them.
Poster, face your own marriage. You are so into other peoples marriages.

rokiatu: Seriously this is so so shocking to me right and eventhough my mouth is close on it, I just can't seem to get over it. This person is the husband of a really really close person to me I perfer not to say the relationship. A few days ago, he came over to my place to visit and he used my lapto but I guess he forgot to close the browser after and yes what I saw was a bit shocking and I can't help but wonder what he's doing on that site when his woman is pretty, loving, loves he so much and even has a child for him. Whats the site called again sef? yea.. Zoosk.

Theres no wayyy in hell am telling his wife but what I want to know is he just there to kill time or what? Yea I know I sound naive and silly right now but am confused I swear.

feasting his eyez ofcourse. whatelse

debrief08:
Some scammers trap ladies desperate for marriage and make them send money to them.
Poster, face your own marriage. You are so into other peoples marriages.

So, we agree that he is not there for the men? good.

Now, is he simply going to go on the profile and tell these women that he needs more for welfare of orphanage, or is he going to, on a dating site, try to SEDUCE women that are not his wife?

Kobojunkie:

So, we agree that he is not there for the men? good.

Now, is he simply going to go on the profile and tell these women that he needs more for welfare of orphanage, or is he going to, on a dating site, try to [b]SEDUCE [/b]these women?

Lol, you just asked what illegal things he may be doing in response to someones question I gave an illustration. I dont know what he is really doing on the site.

Why not call the man and tell him he forgot to logout his account on the site, then ask him if you should log it out for him, then see or listen to what he will say, that way you may find an answer.

debrief08:
Lol, you just asked what illegal things he may be doing in response to someones question I gave an illustration. I dont know what he is really doing on the site.

no, my question was not around the legality of his acts but more around the intentions or should i say the method with whic he would need to carry out his goals on that 'dating' site.

freecocoa: Why not call the man and tell him he forgot to logout his account on the site, then ask him if you should log it out for him, then see or listen to what he will say, that way you may find an answer.

good one!

freecocoa: Why not call the man and tell him he forgot to logout his account on the site, then ask him if you should log it out for him, then see or listen to what he will say, that way you may find an answer.

you are wayyy too smart. Lol

who knows sis.

ppl can be so unpredictable.

Is Kails = MsD?

Girl, how many times are they going to ban you?

Maybe he's just cruising for a second wife na.

I feel sorry for all those Naija "happy" marriages when the internet dating hits Nigerian full-time.

Ileke-IdI:
Maybe he's just cruising for a second wife na.

I feel sorry for all those Naija "happy" marriages when the internet dating hits Nigerian full-time.

Those who cheat don't need internet dating to do their thing. It would just be another avenue amongst a myriad.

Lord_Reed:

Those who cheat don't need internet dating to do their thing. It would just be another avenue amongst a myriad.

And those who "don't" just havent found internet dating sites. We're talking about Nigerian men who find it wicked to keep their blockos zipped up. 2go na small thing sha

Ileke-IdI:


And those who "don't" just havent found internet dating sites. We're talking about Nigerian men who find it wicked to keep their blockos zipped up. 2go na small thing sha

Those who don't won't because it is still the same process; get a girl, sleep with her, not a very difficult process without the internet.

And please stop generalizing.

Lord_Reed:

Those who don't won't because it is still the same process; get a girl, sleep with her, not a very difficult process without the internet.

Same process, but easier, faster and wider variety.

You live in lagos, internet go find you one borno chick within 1 min.

Ileke-IdI:


Same process, but easier, faster and wider variety.

You live in lagos, internet go find you one borno chick within 1 min.

Easier for those who want it. Those who don't won't suddenly change their minds because of internet.

I don't live in Lagos.

Lord_Reed:

Easier for those who want it. Those who don't won't suddenly change their minds because of internet.

I don't live in Lagos.

lol sorry, the "you" is a general being.

Not saying all the non-cheating ones will suddenly start cheating nau. But a majority will, ofcourse, it's expected.

Ileke-IdI:


lol sorry, the "you" is a general being.

Not saying all the non-cheating ones will suddenly start cheating nau. But a majority will, ofcourse, it's expected.

Okey dokey.

That is the thing why should we complain about infidelity then turn around and say it is expected? I don't do it and I will not expect it from my spouse.

chaircover: He is looking at the women available on the site and thanking God for giving him his own wife

LOL LOL LOLREST.

So kails is mzdarskin?

What happend to your original ID?

rokiatu:

LOL LOL LOLREST.

So kails is mzdarskin?

What happend to your original ID?

yes hun.
i decided to change it because i was banned at the time
and wanted to start new. but like they say, trouble is always behind you so...

yeah. *shrugs*

If someone CLOSE to me found out my husband had a profile on a dating-site, I sure as hell hope they would tell me.
Or even send me an ano-mail with a link to his profile.

free2ryhme:



feasting his eyez ofcourse. whatelse

Then he should look up some free p*rn-sites.

JallowBah: If someone CLOSE to me found out my husband had a profile on a dating-site, I sure as hell hope they would tell me.
Or even send me an ano-mail with a link to his profile.

lol...no nonsense woman.

We need more like you. Some women are too docile and naive today. Ive heard some say "its just the internet...he flirts with them but he comes home to me at the end of the day!"....

Uh....yeah....right!

Lol in today's world more than one third of affairs start from chat lines!!

Anyway,
#back2bed!!

*Kails*:


lol...no nonsense woman.

We need more like you. Some women are too docile and naive today. Ive heard some say "its just the internet...he flirts with them but he comes home to me at the end of the day!"....

Uh....yeah....right!

Lol in today's world more than one third of affairs start from chat lines!!

Anyway,
#back2bed!!

My husband is free to LOOK when he is walking in the streets, I dont own his eyes.
But to then start having fantasies about other women, flirting with other women, grinding on other women etc, etc..hells no.
If I aint woman enough for my husband, he aint man enough for me either.

^^^^ i heard that!

Checking on the other people he didn't check out before he got married.