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| Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by monkvirus(m): 11:12am On Sep 25, 2012 |
Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles. Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2years old. Lean to excuse yourself. If you have to hire a house-help please kindly take them for HIV screening to determine their HIV status, properly interview them and make up your mind to treat them well. Never allow any adult refer to your new born as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’ Never tempt your husband with your younger sister. Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure you take care of your husband by yourself lest you lead him into temptation. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they played together because young people now sexually abuse themselves. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you might need to patiently ask a lot of questions from your child If you don't teach your children about sex the society will teach them the wrong values (you can order for parent sexuality education kit) It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves Teach your 3year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you. Blacklist some materials you think could threaten the sanity of your child (that includes music, movies and musicians) and let them understand the value of standing out of the crowd. Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them! Useful info? Pass it on please. 4 Likes |
| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by roshanbhatt: 1:58pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
Absolutely perfect. |
| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by Fancier(f): 5:00pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
Absolutely Correct, wish lot of people will read and implement as well. |
| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by JallowBah(f): 7:00pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles. Wai, what? So because SOME people are perverts, you are gonna treat everyone as if they MIGHT be? And you do know that women also are abusers, not only men? Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2years old. Lean to excuse yourself. Why is this? Is it not better to teach the child that a naked body is a natural thing, not something to be ashamed of? If you have to hire a house-help please kindly take them for HIV screening to determine their HIV status, properly interview them and make up your mind to treat them well. Is this even allowed?? Never allow any adult refer to your new born as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’ ...why? The rest I can somewhat understand, but still not agreeing on much of it. |
| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by seunfly: 8:39pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
JallowBah: Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles. Jallow Op is talking from Nigeria point of veiw, thare are something that happen here may be due to our culture etc that makes all this good advice in Nigeria. |
| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by JallowBah(f): 8:56pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
seunfly: And I am asking why. Should you not answer me, instead of telling me its a nigerian point of view? Some people in my country think the same why. Still, I dont understand why. |
| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by Mowire: 9:01pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
seunfly:You are REPULSIVE! So every Nigerian is a pervert?! Where are you from? NONSENSE! |
| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by JallowBah(f): 9:20pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
Mowire: ...and that is my point as well. My husband is scared of showing how much he loves kids in public, because people get worried, and start thinking he like kids for sexual reasons. And THAT is how you know how f`ed up the society is. There is nothing wrong in changing or showering in front of your own damn kids. Its a naked body, its nothing to be ashamed of. Its your own house. There is nothing wrong with having your child sit on someones lap, as long as she feels safe with the person, and you trust them. What am I supposed to do, tell all the men in my family to not touch my child? As for calling kids husband/wife..its a cultural thing. I raised an eyebrow the first time I heard it, but it only took me one full day to understand that almost ALL of my husband friends call our daughter their little wife. And I call all the small boys my husbands now. |
| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by victorian(f): 9:49pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
A pervert is not boldly written on someone's head, to before warned ,is to beforearmed. I agree with the op, completely.. its a choice. |
| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by Nobody: 10:01pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
JallowBah: Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.Thank You, I dont even know what to say anymore dear. Most times I just shut up |
| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by JallowBah(f): 10:44pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
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| Re: Parents Please Take Your Time To Read This. by JallowBah(f): 10:45pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
victorian: A pervert is not boldly written on someone's head, to before warned ,is to beforearmed. I agree with the op, completely.. its a choice. No, thats why its better to not make every person your kids meet a potential molester. And no-one seem to jump in on the fact that there are plenty women who are pedophiles as well, and that many pedophiles like both girls and boys. So.. |
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