I am just wondering? I have watched many movies (though never seen a life experience but I believe movies depict real life occurences) in which when an individual realises that he/she was adopted (the right way) the person feels anger towards his/her "parents" despite the fact that (in most cases) the person was treated normally as though he/she was biological child.
Isn't the person supposed to be greatful for being given a decent life?
Can people who have had this experience please relate how they felt and why they felt the way they felt when they realised they were adopted?
Also, can anyone explain the reason for this anger.
Thank you.

uhmm, it may appear as anger, but in actual fact i think its sadness. Sadness over the fact that they arnt related to 'this wonderful family' biologically. not seen it in real life too, but i can imagine the feeling must be a painful one.

This is a no-brainer...
Op,its simple...
Just imagine "your parents" sitting you down to tell you now they are not actually "your parents".
Imagine how you'd feel and you have your answer!!

slimyem: This is a no-brainer...
Op,its simple...
Just imagine "your parents" sitting you down to tell you now they are not actually "your parents".
Imagine how you'd feel and you have your answer!!

I have thought of it- I am a very imaginative person. But when I remember the way I was brought up in love, I think I won't be angry or sad. I might be curious as to who my biological parents are but I will be greatful(and would show my gratitude) to those who gave me a good atmosphere to grow in.