please guys i need advise as i cant think straight now.AM 32 this october ans met this girl who is just 16 and i am madly in love with her. she feels same way about me. i like her and will really like to make her mine for ever but i am concerned as she is still too young though she doesn't think so. i have not touched her yet and wont mind waiting till marriage for this first time in my life. i want to get settled by next year. please no insults abeg, na love dey shack me. just please help me think here. thanks guys.

take time with her and watch her grow and she might just be yours forever... seen it happen before but be careful that after waiting for long time for her, someone who just show face from nowhere and take her away.. that one nah die ooo

Its okay to love and care for her. Just be patient with her. She'll make mistakes, she'll learn...don't force/convince her into doing what you want. Let her decide on doing anything when she's ready to. I'm 16+ and my boyfriend is way older than I am. I love him and my family knows him and loves him too. He never imposes anything on me and we understand each other. Just try and be close to her family, or at least, her mother, aunt or grandmother and let them know you have good intentions towards her. Don't try to shy away from the family and do things secretly. That's why you're a man and not a boy. Be confident in yourself and support her, stand by her and grow together. She might have crushes on other guys but the love she'll have for you would be compared to no other.

Cherish100: Its okay to love and care for her. Just be patient with her. She'll make mistakes, she'll learn...don't force/convince her into doing what you want. Let her decide on doing anything when she's ready to. I'm 16+ and my boyfriend is way older than I am. I love him and my family knows him and loves him too. He never imposes anything on me and we understand each other. Just try and be close to her family, or at least, her mother, aunt or grandmother and let them know you have good intentions towards her. Don't try to shy away from the family and do things secretly. That's why you're a man and not a boy. Be confident in yourself and support her, stand by her and grow together. She might have crushes on other guys but the love she'll have for you would be compared to no other.

Cherish100: Its okay to love and care for her. Just be patient with her. She'll make mistakes, she'll learn...don't force/convince her into doing what you want. Let her decide on doing anything when she's ready to. I'm 16+ and my boyfriend is way older than I am. I love him and my family knows him and loves him too. He never imposes anything on me and we understand each other. Just try and be close to her family, or at least, her mother, aunt or grandmother and let them know you have good intentions towards her. Don't try to shy away from the family and do things secretly. That's why you're a man and not a boy. Be confident in yourself and support her, stand by her and grow together. She might have crushes on other guys but the love she'll have for you would be compared to no other.

Just like the gal in question, you sound so matured for a 16 year old. this is exactly the kind of thing she will say. everyday am more convinced that she is more matured and better prepared than any 30+ gal i know. i really think the young ones are not only more beautiful, but also more intelligent, matured and decent. thanks for your advise and i can say your guy is lucky to have you.