integrityfood: for the husbands, if your wife is the type that reveals everything to her parent/siblings about your family, will you disclose how much you earn to her? and for the wives, if your husband is the type that want to control your earning and makes demands unnecessarily, will you disclose your salary to him?

mondi_cheeks: Do you mean finances should actually be discussed before marriage? what if the person eventually does not make it with you to the alter, then she or he would have known your financial secret. Now after marriage, if your spouse say the woman tells her family every matter of your home thereby displaying absolute immaturity, is it wise to disclose your finances to her? bearing in mind that you will not want her family to know your financial status.
if you dont know these simple things before marriage...chances are u might up divorcing. how u manage your finances is something ur should discuss before you say i do, in case you are not on the same page you try to compromise before taking it to another level