My husband used to do it at times with our daughter. If I needed rest and he wanted to do things in the house, or she was stressed, he would put her on his back. No problems.
But, he also used a MeiTai ( carrier ), cause the cloth would slip down on him

At times, our daughter actually preferred being on her daddys back instead of her mothers. It makes the connection between father and child even better.

abiL*:


Apology accepted

You too are accepting apologies for calling her donuts! What does that make you? PROUD, SELF CENTRED, RASH, LOOSE- TONGUED... lets be a little polite in our replies. Perhaps, the victim hold more water than you!All are With all due respect... Don't call me kpofkpof oh, LOL!!!

No big deal. I do it atimes.

I will but not in this ludicrous womanlish fashion.

abiL*:


Apology accepted

YOU should be apologizing to him too.
Was your abuse necessary?

Well I did back our last born when i was much younger. Today she's 22!!! all grown up lady with her masters !!!

We need to encourage our guys to please be helpful. start now!!!

naturality: only a foolish man will do this. even if na my pikin nko? everybody has a duty to play and this is definitely not my own part

Cant blame you...Smh** It definitely shows what you lacked... true fathers love

Try and change it gets you no where

WAIT OH! WHERE D MAMA DEY SELF... DIS PIKIN WIL SURELY LOVE HIS DAD MORE WEN HE GROWS UP.

If my baby is good-looking, I don't even mind backing him to work on daily basis(that's the spirit),ßuђ if em wowo,na my wife work be that ooo. That's the more reason why I'll marry a kul lady for a sweet by-product.
2ndly,for those castigating the young man backing his baby,when you'll get to know that the young man knows what he's doing is wen the child grows and cannot stay a day without his/her dad.
Most men made these mistakes in the past,av seen the consequences(their children hardly notice their presence @ home) while most men who really wish to avoid such occurences in the future are wisening up,even to the extent of bathing and sleeping with their children for that bond to be fully developed before it gets late...(My fellow men,the time to create a lasting bond with ur baby is wen he/she is still very tender,make hay while the sun shines)

naturality: only a foolish man will do this. even if na my pikin nko? everybody has a duty to play and this is definitely not my own part

I pity your wife with this backward mentality.

this is lovely

abiL2:

Apology accepted

i think it's best if u apologise as well

I dey back my own little girl, and i think it's the best experience ever... I will do this for all my kids