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| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by IdiAmin2(m): 10:42pm On Nov 17, 2012 |
BAMMZ: Another thing is to look out for those guys who are so emotionally attached to our daughters/kids. Its starts with the emotion,then the touching before the bad thing. Even Incest starts as an innocent emotional attraction before it turns physical. Reminds me of the Bible where kingDavids son slept with his sister. Please ladies watchout. And guys,know how to tame that emotion, dont let it go too far.Yes |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by eyoniggar(m): 2:09am On Nov 18, 2012 |
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/A7VPS7KCMAAgfd5.jpg Above is a typical example of what the poster is talking about. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nobody: 2:38am On Nov 18, 2012 |
ifyalways: Wow, suddenly nobody trusts anyone *I'm not suggesting anything about your family members* but I want to correct some notions. Child abusers are usually 'sane' adults. They appear as normal as you and I and do all normal things otherwise. More often than not, it is a close family member, someone the child trusts that abuses them, not some stranger. It is difficult to identify who is or is not a molester unless you are their psychologist. I do agree with you that it is impossible to live life watching your kids like a hawk 24/7 and never leaving them alone with others. The best line of defense is to educate one's kids about how to protect themselves, to keep lines of communication open and talk to them about their daily lives/activities. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nobody: 4:17am On Nov 18, 2012 |
one_man: I don't do cheap nannies or please help me watch these kids....nah... Hint; Top private schools have it too and give us the passcodes to log in and see our kids live in class/daycares I have all girls and I'm prepared for the challenge because of sickos everywhere...I live for them...so don't FKng talk like that bout my kids @one-man! If you can't cater for these kids ...don't bring them to suffer from abuse , it drives me INSANE!!! OR sit your bottom at home with them ! LIKE FOR FKNG REAL!!!!! |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nwogbe: 5:49am On Nov 18, 2012 |
In d past this wicked act happen in isolated cases buh I can tell u now that its on d increse. So wot do we say is d cause of dis unspeakable madness  ? |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nobody: 7:07am On Nov 18, 2012 |
Nwogbe: In d past this wicked act happen in isolated cases buh I can tell u now that its on d increse. So wot do we say is d cause of dis unspeakable madness Civilization I guess... exposure  |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by BAMMZ(m): 7:43am On Nov 18, 2012 |
end time! |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Leadn(m): 7:48am On Nov 18, 2012 |
ifyalways: Wow, suddenly nobody trusts anyone Thank you! I have sane adults around me, I get to look after my neigbours kids, my lil nieces in fact the way I play with my nieces you'll think they're my girlfrnds  but everybody knows they're all safe with me 'cos I CAN'T and WOULD NEVER MOLEST THEM! |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by richfaxy: 7:55am On Nov 18, 2012 |
eyoniggar: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/A7VPS7KCMAAgfd5.jpg Damn, that is disgusting, how can he do just a dirty thing to a small gal, Haba thats so cruel |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by fluffybaby(f): 8:11am On Nov 18, 2012 |
Yes I agree some with you. But you know, one cannot be with their kids 100 percent. Situations often arrise when a parent has to leave the child in care of someone. Its just for parents to be sensitive. The child always gives signals when an adult abuses him. Even teachers abuse kids but that doesn't mean we should all home school our kids. Best bet is, punish severely anyone who abuses kids. Most judges just pass 30k fine on men who rape kids these days and help such offenders to beg the family of the victims to drop the case and settle out of court. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Sike(m): 8:14am On Nov 18, 2012 |
LaiLai!! |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Pampers: 9:57am On Nov 18, 2012 |
[color=#990000][/color]These things happen daily. Parents need to be at alert and vigilant. Am tired of these cases at my work place(a barraks hospital).two weeks ago was d case of a 10yr old boy and his 3yr old sister. He actually penetrated bt dnt destroy d hymen. Made my heart bleed. The parents were advised to seperate d two kids coz the boy wld forever see his litl sis an an object of such.Its so pathetic.... After so much talk wt d lil boy. He confessed dat he watchd porn on one of his classmates (Jss1) fone. Parents are d cause of all these. Why give a 10yr old a fone wt internet facility. Affulence or what do we calll that. Childrens internet use shld be monitored till age 18.God save us!!! |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nobody: 10:18am On Nov 18, 2012 |
Nwogbe: In d past this wicked act happen in isolated cases buh I can tell u now that its on d increse. So wot do we say is d cause of dis unspeakable madness We don't know!!! |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by dilbert100: 11:20am On Nov 18, 2012 |
this is a difficult one......i trust all my family.....but dont most people? and how many stories do you hear about abuse from family members.......    |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by patholaw: 11:22am On Nov 18, 2012 |
Pampers: [color=#990000][/color]These things happen daily. Parents need to be at alert and vigilant. Am tired of these cases at my work place(a barraks hospital).two weeks ago was d case of a 10yr old boy and his 3yr old sister. He actually penetrated bt dnt destroy d hymen. Made my heart bleed. The parents were advised to seperate d two kids coz the boy wld forever see his litl sis an an object of such.Its so pathetic.... After so much talk wt d lil boy. He confessed dat he watchd porn on one of his classmates (Jss1) fone. Parents are d cause of all these. Why give a 10yr old a fone wt internet facility. Affulence or what do we calll that. Childrens internet use shld be monitored till age 18.God save us!!!have seen something similar but not incest...it waz d lil boi(8yrs) and a lil girl(3yrs) d lil girl caught d boy penetrating d girl and it waz during fasting cuz dey are muslim..d girl's mother almost killed d boy... |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by patholaw: 11:29am On Nov 18, 2012 |
jidegirl12:it cld happen any where mind u. At their friends place or church sunday skool or mosque....after d normal precautions we just have 2 hope 4 d best cuz u can never be there 100% |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nobody: 11:33am On Nov 18, 2012 |
patholaw: it cld happen any where mind u. At their friends place or church sunday skool or mosque....after d normal precautions we just have 2 hope 4 d best cuz u can never be there 100% Just listen to yourself! oma se o! |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Rosebela(f): 12:49pm On Nov 18, 2012 |
I just can‘t |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nobody: 1:33pm On Nov 18, 2012 |
Not just anyone. I would only trust my elder sister and my parents. But seeing as my parents are long dead, it's just myself, my wife and elder sister. Never trusted a nanny enough to employ one. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nobody: 1:44pm On Nov 18, 2012 |
Siena: Not just anyone. I would only trust my elder sister and my parents. But seeing as my parents are long dead, it's just myself, my wife and elder sister. Never trusted a nanny enough to employ one. I admire your flexibility but my nannies are my support network here and I think I hired good ones with the monitoring device at home, I don't think I can do more than that , of course my hubby stays with them too but we both chose a very busy career. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by BAMMZ(m): 5:13pm On Nov 18, 2012 |
@jidegirl12,i admire all that trust and courage. We really cant do more than we can. We do our best anyway and keep praying. Olorun lo nwo omo. . . abi? All is well jare. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nobody: 6:58pm On Nov 18, 2012 |
BAMMZ: @jidegirl12,i admire all that trust and courage. We really cant do more than we can. We do our best anyway and keep praying. Olorun lo nwo omo. . . abi? Thanks  |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Freiburger(m): 8:44pm On Nov 18, 2012 |
Leaving my kids in the hands of anyone? only a silly person will do that. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by minute(f): 9:25pm On Nov 18, 2012 |
If they pass a background check; yes. The question even being asked is depressing. I wouldn't trust my kids with religious people. They are sick. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Afam4eva(m): 9:29pm On Nov 18, 2012 |
Freiburger: Leaving my kids in the hands of anyone? only a silly person will do that.Who leaves their kid to anyone. People leave their kids to people they know and trust. But the question is, do they really know these people? |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by tpia1: 3:49am On Nov 21, 2012 |
Do the crime, do the time, end of. Anyone who is unable to provide care for a person they say they're certified to care for by whichever governmental authority vetted them, should not be in that position, simple. Even if dem send you, you're supposed to tell them you cant deliver the message. this is why people are enjoined to pray instead of whining about this and that all the time. if someone stays home to watch their kids, you criticize her for being a housewife. If someone is a working mother, you still criticize her over her choice of daycare. annoying!!!! |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by BAMMZ(m): 8:52am On Nov 24, 2012 |
some information i got: 1.Warn your child never to sit on anyones lap no matter the situation,incuding uncles. 2.Avoid gettin dressd in front of your child oñce he/she is 2yrs old.always excuse them. 3.Screen your househelps for HIV/STDs and please treat them kindly as ur kids. 4.Never allow an adult to refer to your newborn as"my wife or husband''. 5.Never tempt your husband with your younger sister (else he'd say its the devil or her fault). 6.Whenever your child is playing with peers,try see what kinda of play. Kids abuse themselve you know! 7.Never force your child to visit any adult he/she is uncomfortable with. Also observe such adults. 8.Once a very lively child suddenly bcomes withdrawn you might need to patiently ask alot of questions. 9.If you dont them about intimacy,the society will teach them wrong values. 10.Go through cartoons,comics,movies before you let them do. 11.Teach your 3yrs old to wash her private parts properly herself and never allow anyone touch it including you. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nobody: 10:23am On Nov 24, 2012 |
WOW Bammz...that's very thoughtful of you...thank you very much! |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by BAMMZ(m): 3:58pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
@jidegirl12,you are welcome. God wil keep your kids safe for you. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by BAMMZ(m): 4:04pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
12. Blacklist some materials that you think could threaten ur childs sanity. 13. Once your child complains about a particular person,dont keep quiet about it. Take up the case immediately. It is well jare. |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Nobody: 4:21pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
i trust ppl but not enuf to leave my kids with them. i take care of my kids myself |
| Re: Do You Trust Your Kids In The Hands Of Anyone by Freiburger(m): 4:22pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
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