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Hello NLders, I nid ur sincere analysis & advice, my yonga sista, is in love wit ha age mate, infct, she is 3months older dan d guy. They both no dis & still love each oda, she nids our advic. Also, she's bin marid b4 wit a child though now divorcd & dis guy loves ha despite dat. Now, d guy, wants ha 2meet his parents & he wants 2 tell his parents about d lady's 1st marriage & d child. Wats ur advice? Can dis afct dia rlatnsp esp wen his parents get 2no dat she's once marid wit a child.

Nothing wrong,they are more or less thesame age mate.
Besides I hope you know Patience Goodluck is older than Goodluck Jonathan

Nothing wrong,they are more or less thesame age mate.
Besides I hope you know Patience Goodluck is older than Goodluck Jonathan

If I knew that guy, I would tell him to bail. For someone who's been once married, she does have a myopic mindset, perhaps the reason for her failed marriage. She's older than him with 10 fukcing years, so what? That guy should better run for his life and the future of his kids.

fresh_dude: If I knew that guy, I would tell him to bail. For someone who's been once married, she does have a myopic mindset, perhaps the reason for her failed marriage. She's older than him with 10 fukcing years, so what? That guy should better run for his life and the future of his kids.

Seriously? Please go over the OP's post and rephrase your answer.

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purple lady: Hello NLders, I nid ur sincere analysis & advice, my yonga sista, is in love wit ha age mate, infct, she is 3months older dan d guy. They both no dis & still love each oda, she nids our advic. Also, she's bin marid b4 wit a child though now divorcd & dis guy loves ha despite dat. Now, d guy, wants ha 2meet his parents & he wants 2 tell his parents about d lady's 1st marriage & d child. Wats ur advice? Can dis afct dia rlatnsp esp wen his parents get 2no dat she's once marid wit a child.

Does he have the choice of not telling his parents of her first marriage? Goodluck to him though. He should do the right thing and hope for the best. Ultimately, the choice to marry hher is his, I would advise him to listen to his parents though.

moreeni: Seriously? Please go over the OP's post and rephrase your answer.

Happy now? Bear in mind, hhowever, I'm not liable when someone deliberately has a different topic from the body. Cheers.

Let me get this straight...
She's three months older than the guy and...
THAT IS A PROBLEM??


About her being married before and having a child,
The guy has no other choice but to tell his parents.
But ultimately it's his decision to make.

Why worry? If d cause of her divorce was justified n she wasnt guilty of infidelity, let her be positive n prayerful dat d love they share will be fruitful.
It takes 2 to tangle u know.

de guy must have to inform de parents abt de other marriage but have to make his parents know how much she means to him and thus just for information purpose dat he inform dem abt de failed marriage.
age aint an issue obviously, but advice yur sister to watch wat may have broken de other marriage and try correct, avoid or ammend so it doesnt happen again,
Prayer is de key .

Hmmm, thanks 4ur advice. Pls I still need more of your views NLders.

So what exactly is the problem now?? The age difference or the previous marriage. . .