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Should I Continue by jumkoe(op): 11:01am On Dec 06, 2012
I av a bf dat we dont c each oda every time but when we c he always demand 4 fun. Is dis rite or should i keep d relationship
Re: Should I Continue by Lovetinz(m): 11:16am On Dec 06, 2012
Thats not a relationship, you are being used. Period.
Re: Should I Continue by usermane(m): 11:18am On Dec 06, 2012
Your intro is too short and undetailed. However i believe that if d fun is d only thing keeping u together then for what its worth u may want to question or quit d relationship.
A relationship is founded by love, only care,understanding and learning about each other fuels and strengthens it. Having ur fun alone constantly on d few occasions u meet won't help in d long run.
So my answer is No it isn't right unless love equal sex 2 u
Re: Should I Continue by Mynd44(mod): 11:24am On Dec 06, 2012
You are being used and you know it. The guy feels noting for you.

On the other hand, if you enjoy the sèx, you can stay and enjoy it with him but know that the relationship is sèx based only
Re: Should I Continue by fukcwitme(f): 11:26am On Dec 06, 2012
Friends with benefits
Re: Should I Continue by jumkoe(op): 12:02pm On Dec 06, 2012
ok thanks
Re: Should I Continue by tashanja(m): 12:11pm On Dec 06, 2012
fukcwitme :
Friends with benefits
a.k.a Bootycall.
Re: Should I Continue by Mynd44(mod): 12:13pm On Dec 06, 2012
Bedmates
Re: Should I Continue by Nobody: 12:14pm On Dec 06, 2012
usermane: Your intro is too short and undetailed. However i believe that if d fun is d only thing keeping u together then for what its worth u may want to question or quit d relationship.
A relationship is founded by love, only care,understanding and learning about each other fuels and strengthens it. Having ur fun alone constantly on d few occasions u meet won't help in d long run.
So my answer is No it isn't right unless love equal sex 2 u
This.
Re: Should I Continue by mskata(m): 1:08pm On Dec 06, 2012
jumkoe: I av a bf dat we dont c each oda every time but when we c he always demand 4 fun. Is dis rite or should i keep d relationship
There are so many tins u aint telling us
Re: Should I Continue by jumkoe(op): 2:23pm On Dec 06, 2012
we met tru my friend.he proposed then i accepted, he was a student then while am still in secondary skul.we only c when he comes home.
Re: Should I Continue by Mynd44(mod): 2:27pm On Dec 06, 2012
jumkoe: we met tru my friend.he proposed then i accepted, he was a student then but am still in secondary skul.we only c when he comes home.
Just a bedmate. A warm blanket for when he gets cold
Re: Should I Continue by Idowuogbo(f): 2:42pm On Dec 06, 2012
fukcwitme :
Friends with benefits
Gbam#

Poster,If ur DVD no tire for replay, continue d movie.
Re: Should I Continue by mskata(m): 2:53pm On Dec 06, 2012
SECONDARY SCHOOL lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Should I Continue by greedie1(f): 3:40pm On Dec 06, 2012
jumkoe: we met tru my friend.he proposed then i accepted, he was a student then while am still in secondary skul.we only c when he comes home.
proposed wat?.. marriage? friendship? sex??
babe r u old enuf to be in a sexlationship??
even if u r, u desreve more than bein someone's bed warmer..

no it isnt right, quit
Re: Should I Continue by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 06, 2012
Ahh. It is nt fair that you guys are skipping into conclusions o. Thats so shallow because there are two sides to a coin except she gives a detailed explanation of their relationship. You guys would also agree with me that in todays world sex is paramount to most relationships. Doesnt justify immorality though.

The only thing I can decipher is that op is probably young, perhaps a teen & is thus incapable of making wise decisions concerning sexuality & relationships.

So op, take a break, you dont have to tell him. Just avoid seeing him for a while & decide during this solitude period what you want.
Re: Should I Continue by 1920MaMa: 11:26pm On Dec 06, 2012
he proposed and you accepted. yes na, that's the easiest way of getting into your pant. or you never hear? most men now propose to ladies in order to get into their pants, not that they actually want to marry them. when they get their fill, they look for an excuse to bail! my dear close your legs, since he has proposed, try to find out when the wedding is coming up, that way, you'd know where you stand. don't allow any man to use you to satisfy his se.xual urge.
Re: Should I Continue by tashanja(m): 12:38am On Dec 07, 2012
^^^ Too late, as she's already been opening her legs for him and I doubt if his proposal was about marriage but ordinary relationship; because its easy to see that they'd be too young considering the fact that she still in sec sch and he a student.
Re: Should I Continue by omega25red(m): 1:25am On Dec 07, 2012
poster i still dont understand the full story because it seems like he is away at school or something and when he comes home he see you his girl and wants to bang you. is that about right?

you know the easiest thing you can do is to open your mouth and ask him where he sees your relationship going. Also make sure he proves it as supposed to accepting just words. if after you talk and you are not satisfied, dump his azz
Re: Should I Continue by True2myself24(f): 3:26am On Dec 07, 2012
That's not a relationship hun, he's just using you to get off undecided You can do better. Cut it off and focus on your school. Maybe when the time's right you'll find a good guy who will show you what a real relationship is like.
Re: Should I Continue by Nobody: 6:24am On Dec 07, 2012
So what is a real relationship like?
Re: Should I Continue by dmcdad: 10:36am On Dec 07, 2012
fukcwitme :
Friends with benefits
Exactly! No string attached...
Re: Should I Continue by True2myself24(f): 3:00pm On Dec 07, 2012
richarts: So what is a real relationship like?
Not like the one she's describing
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